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Am I Part of the Problem?

Published Nov 16, 2021

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Lets face it the 'marketing department' for males, aged over 50 and of a Western European ethnicity has done a bad job. The sub-department for those who are also solo has seemingly done an additional bad job. The amount of profiles that have a 'warning' to single males (which seemingly includes all solo but married males also) is astounding, and seems to be growing. And it seems the vast majority of single/solo males also fit with other facets of my profile. Join the chatroom on here on any given day and you will see that the vast majority of participants are, well fundamentally like me - a solo nudie with same gender, age demographic and possibly ethnicity as me. When I say 'majority' think on any given day between 25% to 40%, well at least by my observations over the last few months. Compounding the chatroom issues is the seeming fact that the vast majority of dialogue in the room is dominated by, wait for it, folks with the same profile as me... Equally if you go to almost any group or forum, excluding those specifically for women, and you will see the same outcome when making an assessment of the membership and participants. In fact in some cases the outcome is like an 80% participation of folks with a mirror profile to me. Now I kind of find this odd - why? Because to me being nude and the enjoyment thereof is innate to all of us no matter what our gender, age or ethnicity, or for that fact marital status. I have a solid belief that if given the chance all humans enjoy being nude for more than just the daily shower. So, I keep asking myself, whenever I am on TN, where are all the other nude folks who are diversely different to my profile? What is keeping them away? I struggle not to believe that it is the over representation of folks like me, I mean with a profile like mine. There are just so many of us - why? I don't believe unplugging my profile on TN is the answer. But I do believe that standing back allowing others to express themselves and not being in the chatroom too often or too long is part of the answer. Sharing some deeper thought and discussion on these challenges and issues helps - what's your thoughts is over representation of a single group overwhelming and keeping others away?