Chatting

Hello everyone!....thanks for the warm welcome here on True Nudists,everything seems to be just great here and have made a few friends,but there is one things that kinda ticks me off.... the chatroom..... It seems every time I visit the chatroom and am in the mood to talk someones ear off I get all these private messages,they pop up and block the chat screen.....I don't mind chatting in private, but would like to be asked to chat in private and not be thrown into private chats...other chatrooms I have visited you had to ask before going into private and only when a person accepted the invitation did you open a private chat window......I think this would be a wonderful addition to the chatroom......sorry for the long post....just venting......Brandy