Chatting as a human right

.. And as I looked up from my coffee and saw the rain stained window, I thought what a lovely rainy day... Then I realized I was on TN chatting to someone who absolutely insisted that I had to chat with him, add him to my friends list and staunchly insisted he and I had to talk. You know I have had a hard time on TN lately, not with most but with some. I have made some very nice friends. But to some, especially a few certain ones who come onto TN its not just to chat, it's to insist that you have to chat. Generally I come in and look for my friends I like to talk to on TN or on Skype. And we have a very nice time. Then I get messaged by a random guy, never seen him talk in the room, or engage with anyone. Little or no profile and usually an obscure picture.. Regardless of that, they seem ok at first and I am polite and say 'I'm a bit busy sorry'. Then the other element of this site comes into play. Some say ok no problem, next time? and I say yes perhaps.. and its done.. . But with some it generally goes on and on question after question after prompt after question.. why dont you chat me? dont you like my pic? whats the matter with you? one time someone asked me to 'rate' their pic, I repeatedly said 'no I won't do that sorry' Then I got the ' you can tell me the truth - be honest' and I said ok really? but what if I say 'no I dot like it'. The response was thats ok.. And i said ' well know what will happen you will ask me WHY". so long stoy short. I did look at his pic and was actually (hand on heart) bad. I said ok well you want the truth right? "YES!!" so I said, "its not the best pic.. " AND you can guess the response - "Why??????" Well I into explaining it to him and just left it and that was that. but its remarkable how people are so fixated on pictures and aspects of that element in here. I have been attacked and mocked and its just been an amazing experience. Just today, because I did not add someone to my TN list or Skype, nor did I want to chat with them because I have seen them in the room and how they abused a few people with comments that were uncalled for - .. I was told well, its hard to tell if your fake or not. My response was - well thats an easy fix - dont message me. I'm very careful on this now, with show I am adding and it takes more than a few chat lines before I add anyone anymore. but its obvious that if you decline someone or if you fail to interact or show them a naked picture (which I took down on ny profile ages ago ) then - they go into fragile mode, get feelings hurt and then your fake :) Well fake away I say! Because if I am fake then I am the most boring fake in the history of this site ;). PS - In terms of this site, there are nudists (who are picture hunting, "certified' perverts, and there are 'nudists' that are real.. AND...... Always remember - it takes a community to be and to build a village - and every village has its idiot :)