DSF - Detected Sleaze Factor

I was laying awake last night and I was going over the days activity in my head, (yeah - I do that). Anyway, I was mulling over all the profiles and chat pictures that I happened to see yesterday. And a good portion of them made me want to throw up. I joined this site to commune with other nudists. However, I've found that this site has a huge problem with members here for more then just nudism. Seems lke this site attracts exhibitionists, voyeurism, or folks here just to get their rocks off. For me, I think this site is good for nudism, and I'm lenient to the exhibitionism and voyeurism. But I just don't understand why those who are here for other reasons don't just take a trip over to something like TrueSwingers to get their jollies. Really, if I WANTED to see porn, I'd cruise on over to a porn site where I could see exactly what I want to see. Not a fat bastard jerking his knob to the Kinks! Personally, I have a rating scale for those I meet on this site. I call it the DSF scale. Detected Sleaze Factor - it's the impression I get from your activity on the site. Its a 1 - 10 type of scale. If someone goes over 3, then I don't want to have anything to do with them. I block them before they get a chance to even know me. If I've friended someone and they bust above the 3, then it's time to de-friend them. Most nudists aren't even on the scale. The scale is pretty simple. And because I'm a programmer, I start with zero: 0) Ye Olde nudist that just hates to wear clothing. You get hot, so you take off clothing. You feel claustrophobic, so you take off clothes to ease the anxiety. You feel incredibly liberated and free when you are naked. However, you are also cognizant of those around you who don't care for nudity. Its a respect thing. I respect others and pray they respect my wishes in-turn. Theses are my peeps. 1) You feel the urge to exhibit yourself to people just for the shock factor. These are the exhibitionists. I think we all have a little of this in us. You like to look at naked people not for the admiration of the human body but for sexual reasons. I get this. I'm a dude and totally get this. I'm more of a admirer of the physical attributes of the body and artful portrayals of the human body. Either way, I don't care about exhibitionism or voyeurism so much as long as it's tasteful. 2) You have a profile pic which yields the ability to see inside your lower body via your orifices. You know what I mean - the spread eagle crotch shot or the butt-hole express. It's mostly the guys that break this one. I don't understand it. Why would you want that to be your introduction to the rest of the community unless your intentions are to place focus on your groin. I'm here to chat with people, not their junk. So, I tend to avoid these people, but realize that they may not understand it's verging on vulgar. I'll typically check out their pics to see what they post. Too many one eyed wooly worm pics, and I get what they want. And I'll bump them up to a 3. 3) You are basically down right vulgar. This is a social site for nudists. I'm not here for sex. I'm not here to flirt. I'm not here to do anything but make friends that understand why we don't like to wear clothing. So if you are chatting with me and we are talking normal conversation about work, life in general or what its like to be a nudists, and then you blurt out "do you and your wife f**k a lot", (yes he did exactly that), then I'm going to put you in the vulgar category. You are teetering on not being a person here for nudism community. My sex life is not anyone's business but my wife's and mine. Don't get me wrong, I'm a person that can talk about anything as long as the purpose is education or general discussion. So if you are a friend and say, "After I turned 50, my libido went down hill". I'm not going to look at that as vulgarity. That's just two people trading advice. That's what friends do. 4) You jump in chat and constantly put pictures on the wall of your junk as the focal point. You are not here to make friends. You should find another site for that stuff. I get it, you're horny and need a release. Try TrueSwingers. I haven't gone there, but I hear it's right up your ally. Goodbye, have fun and knock yourself out. 5) You talk about nothing but how you like to flash little old ladies in the park. You want to show yourself to children. You like to hurt people either physically or mentally. You are probably sick. Try to find out why you have these tendencies and seek professional help. You'll probably feel better about yourself in the long run. God Bless and Goodbye. 6) You jump in chat and urge others to watch you perform sexual acts with yourself, plugging the hole, slapping the monkey. Whatever you want to call masturbation. Yes, it's a natural act. But not between me and you. Go to the other site. Goodbye and buy stock in Kimberly Clark. 7) You constantly badger me to friend you after I politely don't accept your request. I had hoped you would get the hint. You probably landed between 3 and 6. You are not only in the 3-6 category, but you are annoying. Go away! Block, Block, Block, why won't this stupid block button work! 8) You got through the DSF and I friended you. Then you violate 3 - 7. Why did you treat me this way!!! I just wanted to be your friend... Ok, that was meant to be satirical. But honestly, if I friended you, I didn't think you were going to go off the scale. Sorry, but I just don't have time in life to waste trying to find good friends. So UN-Friend it is. Try not to take it personally. Especially if you just violated #2 too many times or broke over #3. There are plenty of fish in the sea, cast your line and try to catch something along the lines of what you feast on. 9) Raunchy! Just poor taste in conversation or photography. Posting a video of your butt-hole and shoving snow up your poop shoot. What tha! Not for me. Block, Block, Block... (I know I'm hitting the freaking button...). Hopefully you can find a site that likes that stuff. Google something like "snow cone up the tooter" and see what you can find. 10) If you hit this level, you made me puke. I've gouged my eyes out, showered in bleach several times and said many, many prayers. You may have actually caused me to leave this site. Congratulations, no one is ever a 10, but you made it!