Get Out and Meet Some People

I see profile where people say," I want to meet people" . Have you sent out any friend requests lately? If not, why not? A friend request is a good place to start. A friend request is like a nod andor a wave out in public. You never know where it may lead. What about your profile? Do you post pix that look like you know how to have a good time? Do you? If not, why not? Post some pix of you having fun. If you ride a bike or kayak or water ski or jump out of planes, show us in your media. Take a picture of the sign at the resort or beach you went to. Post it. If you own a pontoon boat or swimming pool or airplane or motorcycle and you would like some company the next time you go out, put that thought out in your media. It has been my experience and observation that most things are more fun with good company. If you went to a concert to see my favorite singer last week end, how would I or anyone else know that we had this common interest if you did not post a pix of it here. If you did post a pix, someone saw the pix, contacted you and said, "Hey my second favorite singer is doing a concert 100 miles down the road. If you like him also, why not join me and my partner. Let's go see him next week end. WE can drive there in my new motor home." Next thing you know , y'all have a new friend in real life. Here is a real example . Yesterday My partner and I went to the home of two people that we had never met before. We had talked on phone as result of sending a friend request three weeks ago. Two minutes after we arrived my partner has taken off her clothes and three people are staring at me like "WELL" We sat around with a typical Bar B Q swimming pool Memorial day picnic except that we were all wearing our birthday suits and it was none of our birthdays. Post some pix. Let folks see you having fun. If you are not having any fun, when would be a good time to start? Start by sending a friend request and an invitation to get together asap in person. Posting pix is only to give people a little hint as to what you are, who you are, what you are looking for. What fear is preventing you from really meeting new friends? Whatever it is , forget it. Post pix. Let folks know who you are and what you are hoping to meet. If they are not looking to meet new friends, the sooner you figure that out the better. Some one ( why not you) has to take a chance and say, " Let's get together this week end. Invite them to go for a boat ride or a swim party or a drink at a cool place or a motorcycle ride if you saw a bike in their media. Do not make it more complicated than it has to be. Last paragraph: Invite someone to meet us They will say yes or no Don't forget to say thanks You have met a new friend that you can not imagine where it may lead. Rinse and repeat as necessary