MEN OUT NUMBER THE WOMEN 10 TO 1 ON TN...

First of all, I shouldn't be complaining, since the odds are in my favor...;-) You would think, that all these men at my disposal, that certainly I could find that one SPECIAL GUY in my life, that was a TRUE NUDIST. ;-) Well, to be honest with you.. the way that some men projects themselves on here seems to lead it to be only about SEX.. Which probably discourages a lot of women from getting on this site.. SEX is ONE part of a relationship.. but something that is shared privately with each other.. Not to be broadcasted over the internet for all to see. I had a bad experience, from a gent on this site.. He came into my PM right off, and approached me by saying if I wanted to view his hard C**K.. That was uncalled for.. not provoked in any manner. That was appalling to me, and I felt insulted to be approached that way. With men like that, on this site.. approaching women in that manner.. does not help women, like myself.. want to be members. Or to encourage other women to join either. Since the males do out number the women on here.. What can be done to bring more women into this site, to make the odds better? Any suggestions?