Missing the meaning.

I joined this site to meet like minded folk. I gained certification to show my commitment and gathered some people to call friends, to discuss, compare and understand - which is great and I have to some degree established that. I see people joining that maybe have missed the meaning of this site for a variety of reasons, too many to mention probably and as if I am the judge. Surely its not about the size, shape, erect or not , the size and shape of breast - the age, location and the most daring thing you have done - but more, the lifestyle, the intent the meaning, the expression through a picture of some sort and the sharing of information. Like any new club you're an 'outsider' until you're an 'insider' but we should all be 'insiders' as we are, hopefully, all the same once we join this.. Would welcome some comments, maybe a challenge..