NO means NO!

This is for all those guys out there, who think that they cajole, bully or sweet talk you into turning on your camera. Get over yourselves! So yes, we chatted and you really did wait more than a few questions before you asked if I had a camera. And yes, I did explain quite clearly that no I didn't. But you said that was okay. So why was it that you then started saying that I must be ashamed of the way I looked not to want to share myself with you? Where did all those leading questions come from to try and make me feel guilty for not showing what I have? And on and on. Sorry but to me that is bullying - maybe passive aggressive bullying - but bullying none the less. I'm not here to please you. I'm not here to jump through hoops for you. It's not going to happen!