perversion and shyness, two opposite edge of nudity

today i will share my view on the nudity. but first i would like to mention that i do not trust the uncertified member, even more if it's a girl, if you want to add me as a friend, be certified or it is automatically refuse. those blog are public to all but i simply ignore most of the message coming from the uncertified member in the chat. in the recent days, i notice there is a picture in my profile that get a bit more attention than the other, as right now i have less than 100 friend vs 600 on my facebook and since my picture are visible for the friend only, having a picture with nearly 200 view is a bit much compare of 150 for any other picture. as the picture in question wasn't the first in my list, i was wondering what that picture had that so special to attract more attention, then i realize that was because of my posture. in that picture, the only difference is i am sitting with the leg a bit spread which offer a little better view of my lady's part. so i came to the reflexion "should i feel ashamed to be overexposed?". in the world of the nudity, there is often two extreme. on one side there is the Perversion which encourage all kind of sexuality and pleasure of the flesh. and the shyness who is more comfortable in the prudeness and keep the nudity at a extreme privacy. to me, thinking that some may look at me to satisfy themself do not make me uncomfortable. if there is some men who took a look at this particular picture of me to look between my leg again and again and maybe get satisfaction from that do not make me want to remove that picture. to be honest, as a woman, i also do that when i see a sexy looking man with a long... well, you know what. a girl also have that desire. we may not be as motivate by is as most of the men but we still have desire and can enjoy it too. but does that make me a pervert? not really to my heart. i never asked a men do send me nude for my own pleasure. neither i show off my part for their pleasure. my sexuality is not related to my nudity. just like sometime can look out a tall man that walk on the street in the middle of the city, sometime we can look at someone nude the same way. simply by admiring his appearance. many men like tight body with big breast on a girl, and when they see a girl that make all that in evidence on the street in a sexy way, the men will like to turn the head and look when that girl will pass by. it do not make those men pervert or pig for that much. it's not like they try to touch her and talk to her. they are just looking while she pass by. for me, that pic is just the same. i am no opening my leg for exposing myself on purpose neither i will close it because someone is looking. i do not take those pose for any of that. i was nude and my body is mine and all mine. i willn't remove that pic, while i willn't take more explicit picture for those men here to enjoy, i willn't censored any pics that show that much or a bit more either. because for me, nudity is not a show or something that need to be censored.