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Published Sep 1, 2014

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Single doesn't always mean desparate or looking. There are many types of single people, for a variety of reasons due to their personal circumstances and thought processes. Here is mine : Once I came out of the closet, I've tried and failed in relationships with a couple of different men, who said they're nudists. Unfortunately they were more comfortable being home nudists when it suited them, rather than fulltime lovers of nudism as a lifestyle. Drove me nuts, as I ended up spending most of my time with them clothed :( I'm lucky, we have remained friends. I respect the fact that they only go naked when they feel like it. It's just unfortunate it wasn't as much as I like to be naked. Please note, these men are both lovely people. Just not right for me. You also never know if the person is right for you, unless you give the relationship a go. It's better than wondering, what if! If I was looking, it would be with a man who completely lives the lifestyle, not parttime. I'm currently not interested in finding myself a man (sorry ladies, I'm straight)... for 2 reasons. MY REASONS Mainly due to the fact that I have medical issues and don't think it fair to burden someone else with the posibility that they'll have to care fo me. As it's probable my condition is permanent and is degeniative (slowly getting worse). Although still hoping it'll cure itself. It's not life threatening, just painful. Secondly, I currently have travel plans. I don't want to travel with anyone, as they're likely to not want to stop where and when I do... it's happened before while I was travelling with an ex-partner, 4 years ago (he happily atttended nudie venues then, but rarely gets naked now). I'm currently 'guestimating' (guessing an estimate date) that I intend to embark on my adventure around Australia in my 21ft caravan (RV type trailer, towed by my 4WD), from Oct 2015. Plan to visit as many nudist places as possible. However as I'll be travelling with my dog Peppy, we may not be welcome at some places (beaches, clubs and venues). Hoping to meet in person many of the great people I've met online this site. So if you're on my friends list... keep an eye on where in the country (Australia), I am. Flick (send) me a message when I'm in your area and we'll organise to catch up in person somewhere. If time and location permit naked, otherwise even a textile meeting having a quick drink at a cafe will suffice. It's always nicer and more personalble talking online with those you've met. I better connection :) Even though I'm not LOOKING for a relationship, that doesn't mean that a relationship won't find me. I'm not talking about it being pushed into my face, I'm talking about meeting in person and finding a special connection. I'm sure you will all understand that concept. Personally, I respect and accept people as they are, even if I don't agree with their opinions or like they way they live their lives. None of us are perfect. I'm not into changing people. I do however make suggestions. I don't bark orders, give ultimatums or nag. The suggestions I make, are only those I think my friends/partner would personally benefit in exploring for themselves. The choice is theirs! I love them all the same :)