So I was DELETED - Why?? NO IDEA!

So I was DELETED - Why?? NO IDEA! A lot of people are asking me what happened to my account. My account was deleted. I don't actually know why. I asked a mod friend of mine why?? He said 'Flags'. Apparently If you get enough flags against your account you are automatically deleted. At least that is what I was told. Now how do I get flags against me? I don't know, I'm struggling here to say this properly, wondering if I even should. If it's worth it or will I just get booted again. So here it is!. I try to be nice, I'm never rude and anyone who's chatted to me NORMALLY knows this. What I mean by normally is an actual pleasant conversation VS all the garbage comments I get. Even when the comments are rude, I try to be nice about it and just say "I really don't get into conversations like this, I hope you have fun on the site". I do this so at least I try to take the high road and it's the internet, who needs the arguments?? It's better to just let it go and move on. Getting into an argument on the internet with someone - you may as well bang your head into a wall. They will NEVER agree with you, or change their mind. EVER. So Getting flagged in chat? I don't really know why it happens but after a few conversations with friends on this site - It probably goes like this - I don't respond? people don't like it - FLAG, I don't want to chat with them alone? they don't like it - FLAG. Tell them I don't want to see their cam? obviously i'm a bitch for that - FLAG, I don't accept Friend Requests - FLAG, tell them Im not the chat they want to get into???? - - FLAG. You block someone? They block you back and of course - FLAG. By the way, Ive only been back on this site one day and I already have 32 Friend Requests! I'm sure someone will no doubt get upset that I didn't add them and FLAG me. So this brings me back to. - So I accumulated FLAGS. And I was deleted. No warning, Nothing. Just GONE. This site is pretty unfair. The system they have penalizes people who are legit and just want to chat. It's pretty bad as a female on this site, you get a lot of attention, and you have to watch every word you say. You say something! anything!, however innocent? that can be thought of or turned into something sexual? And you'll get the comments! This also brings into question why anyone would pay for this site? Or certify?? For what? Why? Someone said it shows who you are. True. But if someone feels that I may (or may not) be who I say I am - dont chat with me, but past that? I've had just as much trouble with those certified as non! Pictures I get to see? Not into that. Cams? I'd NEVER go on cam on this site. EVER. Past that what?? And then, again, people FLAG you and you're gone. For me there is no reason to certify. Its just a chat site. But! What if you do certify? So - You go through all the trouble, so send your ID in and certify? Pay good money? Because you want the extras? And then a bunch of people, who for some reason, feel slighted? Or that go all weird + pervy, and you block them? They then flag you.. And flag you and flag you and then you get DELETED. You are DONE. Gone! NO REFUND. How much is a life membership?? $129.94 USD??? Is paying $129.94 worth the risk? If I did say to myself, "Oh Jamie, go on do it, supports the site!" Right?? Well right now I'd be out 129.94 USD - thats about $160 Canadian! And this is the issue, you get no warning. No way to address it? No "Sorry, you've been suspended please contact us regarding this" You are just deleted AND NO REFUND. No appeal at all? no way to appeal? and no chance to appeal. Then what? Start over? LIke I am now? Now why did I come back? I've made a few nice friends. That's it.. I will never chat in the main room again. It's not worth the attention, it's just easier to keep your head down, and chat with people with actual filled in profiles. At least you stand a chance. I'm not even sure this was a good idea, but part of me says I should say something.