That don`t impress me much...

Well, I'm writing this after having calmed down a bit since last night, but I'm still pretty pissed off. So what I am trying to understand is why after being honest right from the start of the conversation, that I feel neither comfortable, nor safe, sharing photos or 'a webcam experience' here do you end up being insulted and hounded by some neanderthal who's decided that you're a fake because you won't send him a photo when he asks for one. Well sorry to be a disappointment, but I won't change my mind on that one for any man here - and I feel thoroughly vindicated when a guy who's been chatting pleasantly for 30 minutes throws a complete wobbly and launches into insult mode. If you are that convinced and really do think that I'm fake then just move on. Think about it guys - a man gets his goods out for all to see and there's a fuss for a few seconds and then he's just one of the guys. A woman does it and she's a slut for life and asking for it from any man who happens to be walking by. So yes there's a big difference between being a man on camera and being a woman on camera especially on a nudist website. Now add into this the fact that there actually are weirdos out there and that if I post a face picture how do I know some freak isn't going to reverse image search me and find out other sites I'm on - such as that of the school I work at, where I am obliged to have a photo. I'm sorry, but as yet I am not ready to be either outed for being here or hounded by some guy who's decided to make my life hell, because he's decided that I am his property. Anyway I'll post this and see how I feel about it later.