The Virtual Nudist

So sitting here in Texas, sipping my morning coffee, eating a corn muffin, and enjoying what will be a lovely day, I was chatting my friend from TN on Skype. When he said; " Just an observation (as I wind down for the evening) - it interesting that the "NICKNAME" of the TN world are held up as examples of who is real and wonderful. 18 hours a day laying on something, nude and on cam? Maybe she should get a life? Not telling you anything you don't know, but popped back on tonight and was, like, really?" I have to agree. I don't come on to often anymore, its not worth the frustration but when I do I see certain people who are on all the time during their waking hours. Its the same core few, and ironically they are sometimes the most critical of others making snide comments about people, fake this, fake that, cam this cam .. fake, cam, fake, cam.. you can't be a nudist because your not on a cam? so your obviously fake ;) So the virtual nudist?? Ok so maybe this is just me but - for some on here, who will climb a tower and shout to the world' I am a nudist' to anyone that will listen.. However, and again this is just me, are they nudists? or virtual nudists? I find it funny that they go out of their way to tell you they are nude, having a brew nude? coffee? watching TV - all nude... and the legendary - I answer the door nude.. But if you are a nudist? especially in the summer, in a warm climate should you not be outside? ok I know its not available to everyone. Certainly not to me, but I don't claim to be a nudist. To me a nudist is one who goes nude as much as possible in private and social settings. Not just at a computer or hanging out at home. Im more an occasional beach goer.. To me all that means is your a guy / girl who hangs out naked? If thats the case, I guess if I carry a tool box and sit on a car I'm a mechanic?? well in my case I do my own break work on my jeep so ya ;) I'm a mechanic!! They seem to go out of their way to "express' they are nudists. one guy told me 5 times in 15 min how he was doing things naked. Go figure? your a nudist Duh ?? As my Auntie used to say : "The more someone tells you they are something, chances are that they are not that 'something' they are telling you'. Very wise.. But in all seriousness the people I am referring to will point to the certified sticker in their profile and proclaim they are a nudist. lecture people.. point that nudist finger of justice at me and others .. So? that means what exactly? You held up a sign naked? All that means is you held up a sign naked. Some of the worst ones I've met on here are 'certified". To me nudists should be out, doing things, meeting people in real life, not over a virtual connection constantly . while that is fine, but if its all you do? According to ; Nudism | Define Nudism at Dictionary.com www.dictionary.com/browse/nudism Nudism definition, the practice of going nude, especially in places that allow sexually mixed groups, in the belief that such practice benefits health. See more. So if you are in a chat room, never go out, never see the sun, don't know what a bird sounds like? nude at home only? is that a 'true' nudist? I'll leave that up to you to decide but to me it's not. But who am I to judge.. to each his her own on this one but... And this is the killer, I have people I chat with who say ' I go on cam and I get perverts asking me questions and asking me to stand up' and my response is - So why go on cam??? and then complain each time ? its like putting your hand into a cage of snakes, they bite you and then complain about it. Then do it all over again :) Honestly I think the majority of the issues on this site are cams its a major cause of stress and stupidity. For instance one of my friends stood up he said and got kicked out? why? because you could see 'him' on cam as he stood up and he 'exposed' himself.. and cam rules state face only? So inadvertently showing his penis on cam while getting some water.. is bad? whats he supposed to do? slide under the table, crab call to the kitchen? like a commando? BUT - yet, some of the profile pictures on this site are borderline soft porn??? isn't that bit hypocritical and prudish for. nude site????? - R. E. A. L. Y???? Honestly? recently we had a profile in the chat room of someone who had graphic porn picture up ... spoke to a mod and its - can't do anything the person was not talking in the room and pic was in pending state. which is a quirk of this site, if you put up one pic that one pic becomes your profile pic even in pending mode. So did that person get kicked out? No. when a bunch of us got on chatting about that 'person' we were told to stop by the mod and then someone was kicked out? so what rule did he break? because a mod what? didn't like the chat? I didn't know mods were censors of chat but the porn pic is ok?? yet getting up on cam is a no no ;) this site is mind boggling at times. This site needs clear rules that are solid and understandable. Mods need to get real and not censor conversations to what they think should be talked about. And they virtual nudists need to go outside. OR someone should invent a virtual beach nudist chat room so they can express their nudism on a virtual beach with virtual sunscreen and a virtual burn. which always occurs on their private area for some reason!