Things to say to someone you don`t know.

This was actually inspired by a friend request and a few messages from a man here. Basically they made me wonder what he is like in real life and if there is an unreal expectation of what you can get out of this site. So here's what happened. I'm learning that it's quite 'normal' to receive random messages from random profiles offering all kinds of "services". But to be invited to go and spend the holidays with a man I've never meet and never spoken to before is new to me. Add to that the fact that he's in a different country, old enough to be my father and wants to take photos of me. Well sorry but that kind of thing makes me want to run for cover. Now is it just me - would any women on here take a man up on such an offer? Am I just too reserved? Or too worried about my security/ safety? So tell me your idea - why do you think that there are people on this site who think that you will happily throw all caution to the wind for a free holiday / meal/ nude swim / day spa session??