This is a chode!!

My first year here on TN has been beyond interesting! "Interesting" doesnt begin to describe some of the blogs here ("illegal" fits a couple and "why should we care" fits quite a few others! Lots of drama . . .thats for sure. A note on the blogs here: People should realize that you can add to and edit them rather than cluttering things up with new short blogs every day!! And just one sentence is NOT a blog! .... I couldn't help but notice that there is one theme that runs through discussions, blogs and the chat forum. Cock size. Every time I come on TN there are comments, questions and concerns . . .and endless discussions regarding a man with a small cock as well as questions from men with small cocks. There are a number of TN groups for small average and large size cocks. Lots of comments on what's small and on cock size in general.. . as if it is incredibly important to being a naturist. It isn't. It really isn't!! Soooooooooo . . . . I just discovered quite by accident that a cock that is wider than it is long is called a CHODE . .also spelled choad.Of course my cock doesnt always qualify as you can see from my other photos, but I get a real kick out of seeing it when it does . . .as in my first photo. I am fascinated that I never came across this term before! The term occurs in music, several social media incidents and even a group or site called "Juggling Chodes" which I am sure is not even a physical possibility! So my avatar and the photo at the head of this blog is pretty much a textbook example of a chode! Cool! Who knew?? NOTE:I am not writing this for other guys of average or large size. I am also not writing about sexual activity or sexual attraction. I am just focusing here on encouraging a small cock guy to get out there, walk proudly up and down the beach and stop worrying about it. Enjoy the naturist life on your own terms! Of course if you are looking for a mate, it is a slightly different story. In that situation I am reminded of those Bighorn rams charging at each other and banging heads to see who gets the girl(s). I like to think we are above that but from general observation, I have my doubts. If someone you are trying to attract is focused on dick size instead of you, maybe dating that person may not be the best idea in the long run. Once you enter that headbanging contest, you have to realize that there will always be someone larger and all you will come away with is a bad headache! Its not a healthy thing to focus on. . .that's for sure. My confidence comes ( in small part) because I am happily married and not in competition to begin with. _______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Let me start with mine: This is my cock at its smallest. Sure it is often a bit bigger and hangs more in everyday life depending on temperature, interest or activity but it sure isn't large. I am using this as my avatar for a reason and I chose a shot where I project the confidence I have in being naked. . .and small. _______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Here are four shots which I really like of guys with small cocks doing the same. They are performers with obviously no fear of being naked in front of an audience. ( These are from Tumblr and I would credit them if I knew how.) I like these two, just came across them on Tumblr and I give them credit. Again, this takes a lot of courage and kudos to these guys. ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ For a guy with a small cock to be out and proud about it takes a hell of a lot more courage and self confidence than for the guy with an average or larger cock. For them its nothing. Either that or its a visual "pissing contest" to see who is bigger or a proof of being more macho than the next guy. Who needs it? Just don't enter that contest. Be proud. Be honest. Be yourself. Not easy given the rampant masculinity of this world . . .but it is the way to go. Trust me.