This site is not a level playing field.

Welcome to my first post, it's not something I've felt the need to do before now. I've been a certified member for 4 years now and for the most part, I've enjoyed it a great deal. It's been lovely being able to speak openly about a passion I'd considered taboo among my off-site friends. The trouble is, despite being a married man, I'm essentially a single guy on here and too many times find myself being treated with disdain. What I am primarily is a nice, respectful bloke, I'm a nudist, not a creep. To the best of my knowledge, I've been blocked just three times, all by ladies so let me tell you about it. I'd had a couple of quick exchanges in the chat room with one so dared to try a PM and got no response. Imagine my surprise then to discover I'd been blocked, presumably I suspect, because I had the temerity to wear a pair of sunglasses in my pictures. Oh well, move on. Next up, I was contacted via PM by a young 18 year old girl. Before long she was telling me about how her father used to lift her dress as a young girl to flash her for his friends and how she enjoyed it. When I stated I didn't approve of that as a dad, she said 'I don't think we have much to talk about then', and ghosted me. Blocked. Good god! Lastly, having briefly chatted months and months prior about books, I quickly PM contacted a lady and asked about an author she'd mentioned and was abruptly told 'Leave me alone'. Jeeze, we'd talked about books! Blocked. The end result? I've lost the nerve to contact ladies despite having had wonderful chats with some. I know it gets manic for them, one having described the over-attention as 'tedious'. I get it ladies but us men are not all tarred by the same brush, yet these ladies keep coming back, again, and again, and again. I've had my rant, enjoy the site folks, I still do. .