TN is an Alternate Universe.

So while I sit here pondering my existence, the issues iv'e had with TN, its conversations, as it relates to real life, the lack of chocolate in my life, how great coffee smells and wishing I was in a cafe in Italy, I have been thinking about all the friends I have made, the fun conversations and the ones I have booted off my friends list here and on Skype. Why ? well not sure why some jsut cannot get past the sexual innuendo, and undertones to conversations that orbit 'sex' as if its normal. accepted and they way it is and always has been. This place is where anything goes, any question no matter how rude is just a 'question' And Im sorry, but prefacing it to put 'do you have sex with your freinds' in a plate manner is. Stil asking that same question your just being an idiot .... Example of two conversations in the real world. Vs The TN Word picture both taking place in a pub over a beer, causal with someone you just met Real World Guy : how you, table are al taken can I sit down ? mind if I do? Me Sure Guy: what your name? Me: Sian Guy. : Hi Sian how are doing, Im Stan Me :Oh fine, you? Guy ; Wha have you been up to Me : oh not much working really, taking care of life, went to a party last weekend, had a great time. huge out with sone friends. One was talking about body piercing and tattoos. not much into that but oh well he likes it! Guy : Great. You look Great by the way. Your freinds sound fun. Me : Thanks Stan. You look nice too Guy : you travel much Me : yes St Martin my friends live there. Guy you go to the beach there I hear its nice Me : yup and go boating? Guy : wow you pretty lucky have fun? Me : oh ya total party, 8 of us! Guy : sounds like a great time!! Alternate Universe on TN TN World Guy : how you, table are al taken can I sit down ? mind if I do? Me Sure Guy: what your name? Me: Sian Guy. : Hi Sian how are doing, Im Stan Me :Oh fine, you? Guy ; Wha have you been up to Me : oh not much working really, taking care of life, went to a party last weekend, had a great time. huge out with sone friends. One was talking about body piercing and tattoos. not much into that but oh well he likes it! Guy : Great. You look Great by the way. Are you smooth? Me : what? why would you ask? Guy : just curious Guy: is yor famly nudist? Me : No but my brother in law and sister have gone to home beaches on holiday. She jsut went topless. Guy: So you're a smoothie? Ever get yoru brother in law to help you? Me : well ok ya sometimes I am . My BROTHER in law?? WTF?? Guy: you have perfect boobs, are they real? Me : What? ahhh ya they are. What are yo on about??? Guy : Are the sensitive? how often to you shave? Do you like that? Me : What the hell? Guy : Great. You hang out with your friends much? Me : well yes sure. Guy; the guy with the tattoo's does he have a big cock? - just asking. No offence Me : what? really? why ask me that? Guy: Do you like guys looking at you? you must!! Do you like seeing your guy friend naked? Me : Ah No could care less Guy : Eve see yoru sister naked? Me : Huh?? what?? Guy : Your brother in law eve see you naked? Me : Seriously???? Guy: you look at his penis though right? you must look at guys! Ever to to a nude beach? Me : What? me look at him? ahh - Beach? yes a few, but the my ?? what? Guy: Wow great. I bet you like being seen? Right? You look great BTW Me : I just go ot the beach. thats it.. Guy : you go with your friends? yes? Me : yes of course, and we also go out on my friends boat Guy : Wow really nice, how many girls / guys ? Me : 3 girls 5 guys including me and the guy who owns the boat Guy : All nudists? Me : Yes Guy : Do yo guys swing? Me : What? your asking me if I have sex its my fiends? Guy : No just curious? Im just asking. Me : so you asking if I screw my freinds on a sail boat? Guy: No. Me : Then what is 'Swinging' Guy : Its bing very social Me : No its not and you know it. And I don't do that. Guy : you should try all nudist should do it. Guy : Want to see me naked? Me : No Guy : what do you think of my pics? Me : im not about to rate your pics sorry.. Me : Thanks Stan. Im off now, go talk to someone else about your fantasy nudist world. All those parts of the convo are actual parts I remember compiled into one. All examples on how guys just ask questions. Its like you cannot simply , for the most part, have a normal convo. the nicest friends I have never ask me what im wearing. its just nice convo's about soup, food, travel great beaches and places to go. And shared experiences. not within 5 min going off into this sexual fantasy world. I had one guy want to, after telling him about my recent nude spa visit in Germany, give me a 'message' I said what? give your head a shake mate. 1 YOU'REON THE INTERNET 2. YOU'RE NEVER GOING TO TOUCH ME 3. IF YOU DO TOUCH ME, THEN I'D REALLY HAVE TO KILL YOU I just find it amazing that guys in this day and age, think anything goes on this site, to dick pics, to ridiculous questions to just barreling on into sex and, if you say something or don't agree. I'm the prude and the ones who needs an attitude adjustment. Well here is some news for you ( you know who you are) Im not much of a nudist, I'm no prude, nor am I a virgin. I have had relationships and Im a healthy breathing individual with morals, live by a code of my choice which I adhere to and past that I just am myself. Odd beach visit, hang out with nudist freinds, eat a lot of good food and drink my whiskey sour or beer, put on sun cream and enjoy a nice day wiht some very nice nudist friends I do not BANG. Unless they have firewoerks and we did that once. Bang'd for 15 min straight, lit up the sky.. It was epic. So please, if you are the top of guy who need to know my most intimate details on my life, my lack of sex life *yes really* then your talking to the wrong person and on the side of that im sure you can fine another 'open' person to talk to you about that. Consider me wearing a chat chastity belt ;) As one of my friends told me just as I was reviewing this : "You treat someone exactly the same with clothes on or clothes off! Unless you're a DICKHEAD of course!! " Of Course you should. So all you guys who just cannot NOT stop yourselves, just grow the $%^&* up and be a man, not a 35 year old man child let alone for the first time and who apparently has NEVER seen a naked woman before. But then, I've run into those as well ;) Peace out. ;) Sian!