Under Our Wing... Birdie

Ernie and I are very devoted to each other and we are not swingers. But, that being said: Entries from my journal.... When Ernie was in Home Depot recently, he ran into a friend that he had worked with for many years. His friend, Robert, lost his wife of 42 years to cancer two years ago and he has been very depressed lately. His friends have all been urging him to get out and socialize more. He told Ernie that a few women at the senior center have shown interest but unfortunately he can't get himself back into dating even though he wants to meet a companion. Ernie asked if he would like to meet for lunch or dinner sometime soon. He said sure and Ernie asked if he would like him to bring me along. Robert lit up a bit and quickly said "sure, bring Birdie". Ernie half-jokingly said "maybe we could share Birdie for dessert" to which Robert replied with a big grin "now you're talking" smiling ear to ear. When Ernie related this to me, he suggested that maybe we could help Robert get back into socializing. Ernie and I had discussed the idea of a threesome many years ago. We never acted on it but we did agree to be open to the possibility if the right person ever came along. I immediately thought what a great idea and I wanted to do whatever I could to help Ernie help his friend. After all, we are not swingers but maybe we could help Robert get back into the swing of things. I wanted to help Robert in whatever way I could with Ernie's encouragement and blessing, of course. Ernie said that we would have to be very cautious about helping Robert. If we were able to help shake him out of his depression, he would probably need some level of ongoing support so he doesn't sink down again. We may need to take him under our our wing for a wlile. Journal entry Things are moving forward very quickly. Robert called Ernie this morning and invited us to dinner at his house this Saturday evening. Ernie said that we would provide dessert. My first excited thought was 'I have nothing to wear'. I soon realized that I have plenty to wear. And besides, wearing nothing might actually be the perfect outfit for this occasion. Journal entry Tomorrow is our first dinner date with Robert. Right now, I'm thinking that I shouldn't dress too overtly sexy for dinner so that Robert doesn't feel under any pressure to perform. Then, and only if the vibe feels right, after dinner before serving dessert I will excuse myself to use the bathroom and emerge unclothed. Then while completely nude, I will casually serve and eat dessert. That alone may be plenty of stimulation for Robert on our first dinner date. I have to see how this unfolds. It all depends upon the vibes. I don't want to come on too strong too fast to Robert. He is in a very fragile place right now. It's one thing to joke about sharing me for dessert. It's another to actually do it. I have to be sure that he's ready and a good time will be had by all including Ernie and I. We don't have to hurry into our first sexual healing session. Journal entry The dinner at Robert's place went very well last night. Robert was very happy to have us over and paid a lot of attention to us both. A real gentleman. I wore a dress with high heels. I could tell that Robert was undressing me with his eyes and liked what he saw. After dinner, as he cleared the table, I smiled at Ernie to see if we were on the same page. We have great non-verbal communication. He grinned back with a slight nod and I felt great vibes. So I put the pie on a dish and got out some small plates, some forks and a knife. I then excused myself saying that I would be right back to serve dessert. A few minutes later, I emerged from the bathroom, wearing just my high heels, to the biggest wide-eyed smiles that I could imagine from Ernie and especially Robert. I casually proceeded to cut and dish out the pie. I turned toward Robert and asked "would you like a piece?" With a huge grin he looked me up and down and answered perfectly "I'd love a piece" then, the slightest pause followed by "and some pie also". It was the perfect icebreaker. We all laughed and I responded quickly "both is fine, Robert. Both for you too, Ernie?" Ernie replied with a very happy face "definitely, I'll have both". Not to be outdone I casually responded. "There's plenty, guys. Feel free to have seconds" then, the slightest pause followed by "and you can both have seconds on the pie also." We were all happily smiling as we started dessert by eating some pie. As I was eating my pie slowly to allow the anticipation to build, I asked Ernie if he would like to tell Robert about 'the lake, the river, and the waterfall'. Ernie immediately picked up on what I was suggesting and by his wide grin, I knew that he was totally on board with trying to enhance and extend Robert's evening of erotic pleasure. He began: "Making love is like being on a beautiful calm lake surrounded by incredible scenery. There is also a river that flows out of the lake. It starts off wide and calm with very beautiful scenery. However, it slowly starts to narrow and as it narrows the current flows faster and faster until it enters a powerful section of white water rapids followed by a sudden drop over a waterfall. To make love last, you need to stay in the calm lake. If you start to drift into the river, you need to turn back before the current increases and you are swept over the waterfall. So if you can stay in the Calm Waters, then the exquisitely delicious sensations of erotic sexual coupling can be prolonged almost indefinitely. This is done through mindfulness - not by will power. " "Whenever you start to feel being 'swept away', you can calm your breathing by switching positions or simply by withdrawing and using your penis head to massage her vaginal lips and clitoris until you are calmed down enough for reentry. Don't be surprised if she orgasms during this external stimulation. Reentry, after her orgasm, is very conducive for extended erotic sexual coupling and extremely pleasurable for both. In fact, sometimes it feels so good to be so hard and deep inside her that I lose all desire to ejaculate and end the festivities". When Ernie finished, Robert said "wow, you can really do that?" Ernie replied "sure. It's not that difficult. You could easily learn to do it with a little practice. Would you like to?" Robert replied "I've never heard of anything like that but it sounds fantastic." After Ernie and I exchanged smiles and we knew that we were on the same page, I suggested "Ernie and I could give you a demonstration and then you could practice with me if you like". Ernie and Robert were both grinning wide and I was feeling quite happy, very excited, surprisingly comfortable and extremely horny as we went into the spare bedroom. To be continued... .