Why attraction is important in a hug (at least for me)?

Hi fellas, I hope everyone's doing great and already found a nude partner to cuddle with for the coming winter. As I grow older and wiser(hopefully), I become more aware of the type of activities that recharge my energy the most. For example, my recent experiences with nudism and intimacy between strangers, taught me that I benefit more from hugs with guys I'm attracted to. Like a lot of unexplained truths regarding an individual's emotions and needs, I have no deeper answer to share in regards to that fact. It simply make me feel what I need to feel. I'm a huger by nature, and now that I'm a nudists, I prefer my hugs unclothed. I admit I'm not always good with uncrossing the line, and it's even harder when the other partner is also weak to the touch. The first encounter, no matter if ends up being (just) a beautiful long season of hugs or hugs that end in a sexual encounter, sets the tone of the relationship between the two sides. Finding a hugging partner that'll agree to keep seeing you regularly is not impossible, but it's a project. No one has bad intentions, but we're all busy and overwhelmed with the city, our goals, friends and no matter how amazing the connection was, sometimes guys just won't offer to meet again. It's less about you, me, they and more about how much control we take over our precious time vs. how much we drag out feet between one task to another (aka time managing). For this winter, I'm hoping to build a small group of hugers/cuddlers in NYC for anything that warms the body, energies the soul and fun to do when it snows outside.