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nudietruckerOriginal Poster
Aug 30, 2014First off, let me explain that I am not new to nudism or new to this site. I created a new identity to conceal my real certified truenudist identity of which I have been a member for several years. I like being here on TN and I really would like to stay, but it's becoming harder and harder the more I try to make friends.
Here's the issue.
When people sign up to TN, it is under the assumption that they are a TRUE NUDIST. Which in my books means someone who enjoys the nudist life style. Someone who can sit where they are and simply be naked and enjoy the people around them in person or online live chat (i.e. Skype) and have no aspirations of anything else.
Problem here being is that there are just to many F**King LIARS on here.
My case is that on my other identity I have some 125 friends, of which 116 are men. Which is fine, but once they get you chatting live on cam with TN chat, or Skype, Yahoo messenger, or whatever they use, you find out that they are nothing more then just F**king useless perverted liars. Starts out great but generally within 5 minutes or less, their primary goal was to get you on cam so they can masturbate with or for you. Simple chat was never the objective. 116 men. 116 cocks wanting to jerk off for me. Oh yea! I'm a straight guy. I don't mind see naked men, BUT NOT FOR THAT. 116 out of 116 men who have proven to me that they are all Trolls. That's 100% proof in my case that this site has failed. Don't know what you have found here, But for me, it is ruining the image of nudism.
This was supposed to be a simple place to hangout with friends and chat without any level of sexuality. But what do I get. Nothing but ass-holes you can't live without their cocks in their hands. Pretty damn sad folks. And what's even sadder is that you a-holes know who you are and won't leave. That's what trueswingers is all about people. There they want to play with you. Go there. Have fun.
TN1 and TN2. If you read this topic thread, I'm sure you will find out, if not already know, that I'm probably not the only one who feels this way and/or experienced this problem on your TN site. Fantastic concept but failing drastically at the most important issue called security. We, apparently are not safe from the trolls who are out to destroy Truenudists.com, ruin trust in friendship and generally take away whatever decency that us "True Nudists" have left. It's of absolutely no surprise to me at all the the authorities around the world who govern the rules about public nudity are against it. All they have to do is look at the net and, well, it clearly speaks for itself.
I totally understand that you guys are putting all your heart, energy, life and soul into this TN site to show the world that nudity does have a clean image, but I'm sorry but that image is fading with me.
You are making it far to easy for the rift raft to get in. If I were you, I close lock up this site. I truly believe that this site is getting to a point where you have no choice. No more free ride. You lock out the site with a password system and nobody can see one damn thing, not a single pictures and profile until they enter with a COMPLETE PROFILE. No more blanks. No more blocked out with 'For my friends only' bullshit. Once in you are open to all members. No more hiding. You want to be a nudist, then be one. Bare all including your soul. No more guest passes. You want in then pay at the door. When you turn on your pc and open up TN all you should see is username and password and or register (which will go into a closely observed acceptance approval system, not just click and your in, because that's your biggest problem. Any Tom,Dick and Harry can get in without anybody checking them out). And no more Google search access. If you Google search any username, you will see their complete profile. Try it, You won't like how easy it is for just anybody to see you naked. That's not security. That's not privacy. The programing is out there to totally block out ALL your info from being opened without the password system. Just look at on-line banking, for example. Try and see my account, You won't. there no reason why my profile can't be that private unless you are in the TN site, open only to true nudists members.
I don't want to see TN go down and out. I like it here, but, we have got to get rid of the shit on this site. Whatever changes you make. to improve the current condition. I will back you up and stay. Even if I have to pay. It's worth it especially for us really true nudists.
There you have it. I'm now signing out and I will watch this topic from my real identity and see what you all have to say.
Stay safe
Stay naked
Keep it real
and
Lets keep it clean.
Here's the issue.
When people sign up to TN, it is under the assumption that they are a TRUE NUDIST. Which in my books means someone who enjoys the nudist life style. Someone who can sit where they are and simply be naked and enjoy the people around them in person or online live chat (i.e. Skype) and have no aspirations of anything else.
Problem here being is that there are just to many F**King LIARS on here.
My case is that on my other identity I have some 125 friends, of which 116 are men. Which is fine, but once they get you chatting live on cam with TN chat, or Skype, Yahoo messenger, or whatever they use, you find out that they are nothing more then just F**king useless perverted liars. Starts out great but generally within 5 minutes or less, their primary goal was to get you on cam so they can masturbate with or for you. Simple chat was never the objective. 116 men. 116 cocks wanting to jerk off for me. Oh yea! I'm a straight guy. I don't mind see naked men, BUT NOT FOR THAT. 116 out of 116 men who have proven to me that they are all Trolls. That's 100% proof in my case that this site has failed. Don't know what you have found here, But for me, it is ruining the image of nudism.
This was supposed to be a simple place to hangout with friends and chat without any level of sexuality. But what do I get. Nothing but ass-holes you can't live without their cocks in their hands. Pretty damn sad folks. And what's even sadder is that you a-holes know who you are and won't leave. That's what trueswingers is all about people. There they want to play with you. Go there. Have fun.
TN1 and TN2. If you read this topic thread, I'm sure you will find out, if not already know, that I'm probably not the only one who feels this way and/or experienced this problem on your TN site. Fantastic concept but failing drastically at the most important issue called security. We, apparently are not safe from the trolls who are out to destroy Truenudists.com, ruin trust in friendship and generally take away whatever decency that us "True Nudists" have left. It's of absolutely no surprise to me at all the the authorities around the world who govern the rules about public nudity are against it. All they have to do is look at the net and, well, it clearly speaks for itself.
I totally understand that you guys are putting all your heart, energy, life and soul into this TN site to show the world that nudity does have a clean image, but I'm sorry but that image is fading with me.
You are making it far to easy for the rift raft to get in. If I were you, I close lock up this site. I truly believe that this site is getting to a point where you have no choice. No more free ride. You lock out the site with a password system and nobody can see one damn thing, not a single pictures and profile until they enter with a COMPLETE PROFILE. No more blanks. No more blocked out with 'For my friends only' bullshit. Once in you are open to all members. No more hiding. You want to be a nudist, then be one. Bare all including your soul. No more guest passes. You want in then pay at the door. When you turn on your pc and open up TN all you should see is username and password and or register (which will go into a closely observed acceptance approval system, not just click and your in, because that's your biggest problem. Any Tom,Dick and Harry can get in without anybody checking them out). And no more Google search access. If you Google search any username, you will see their complete profile. Try it, You won't like how easy it is for just anybody to see you naked. That's not security. That's not privacy. The programing is out there to totally block out ALL your info from being opened without the password system. Just look at on-line banking, for example. Try and see my account, You won't. there no reason why my profile can't be that private unless you are in the TN site, open only to true nudists members.
I don't want to see TN go down and out. I like it here, but, we have got to get rid of the shit on this site. Whatever changes you make. to improve the current condition. I will back you up and stay. Even if I have to pay. It's worth it especially for us really true nudists.
There you have it. I'm now signing out and I will watch this topic from my real identity and see what you all have to say.
Stay safe
Stay naked
Keep it real
and
Lets keep it clean.
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MikeAug 30, 2014I suppose it I to an extent unavoidable as it is in broader society. Like you, I am not here for cheap trills.
The high for me is opportunities to live a true naturist lifestyle and share with some like minded friends.
We have to do our own filtering to an extent.it is not simple, but if I encounter the degenerates that give naturism its poor image, then I do flag them, defriend them and block them.
That said, let's not throw the baby out with the bathwater. There are some very genuine naturists here. Personally I feel certification requirements would go some way to enhancing the validity of the site.ReactReply - T=
Tom === Thomas S. TierneyAug 30, 2014Certification is only proof that someone made up a name, wrote that name on a piece of paper and took a picture of someman or womanholding that piece of paper.ReactReply - JO
JohnAug 30, 2014It would be nice to have a true True Nudists site.
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ChristopherAug 30, 2014[quote]First off, let me explain that I am not new to nudism or new to this site. I created a new identity to conceal my real certified truenudist identity of which I have been a member for several years. [/quote]If you had posted this under your regular name I think it would carry more weight. Here you are with an unknown identity complaining about those with questionable identities.
Regarding your suggestion that the site owners close the site to all those who have not "proven" themselves. Please remember, this site is a business for it's owners. Like it or not, it's a numbers game; the greater the number of visitors, the greater the number of paid memberships, the greater their profit.
Before suggesting how they run their enterprise and that they lock the front door of their business,have YOU paid your dues with a paid membership?ReactReply - T=Tom === Thomas S. TierneyAug 31, 2014Damn, I forgot to re-new. I will do that right now. Thank you.ReactReply
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StevieLornaAug 31, 2014NudieTrucker, (and alias) there is a naturist website that does exactly what you describe for allowing members to join. It's open to all but it's mainly UK based. So far I've not encountered one person on it that is there for the wrong reasons. All are naturists and wanker free.
I am also getting so fed up with fakes and lairs on here, TN was advertised on the British Naturists website so. We joined to find others local to us, sadly we keep getting contacted by lairs and idiots. (yesterday I was contacted in chat by a certified user (part of a couple) and it became apparent that he only wanted to chat about children... very disturbing.....I ended the conversation and blocked him)
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paul4670Aug 31, 2014Yes, this can be a big issue, but I have found being very selective with who I add to my list goes a long way to escaping the problem, and like others if they show intentions of being otherwise they are removed and flagged very quickly, But like StevieLorna in Australia we have a similar site to what they mentioned, very strict controls for membership etc and it is great, albeit a little small but still a welcome reprieve.Cheers Paul
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Ross AngusSep 1, 2014[quote]NudieTrucker, (and alias) there is a naturist website that does exactly what you describe for allowing members to join. It's open to all but it's mainly UK based. So far I've not encountered one person on it that is there for the wrong reasons. All are naturists and wanker free.
I am also getting so fed up with fakes and lairs on here, TN was advertised on the British Naturists website so. We joined to find others local to us, sadly we keep getting contacted by lairs and idiots. (yesterday I was contacted in chat by a certified user (part of a couple) and it became apparent that he only wanted to chat about children... very disturbing.....I ended the conversation and blocked him)
S[/quote]UK based? I'm surprised as I thought that most participants came from the US!
Certainly on this thread, one is Aussie, one is Canadian (originator of the thread) and the rest are US based - not a single UK member has commented - before me that is. (just checked another blog at ramdom and on the first page with 25 entries, 4 were UK, 2 were aussie and the rest US)
I also take all friends requests with a large pinch of salt as I am fairly sure that many of them are looking for a gay relationship. And by doing that, diluting the real intentions of this site.ReactReply - STStevieLornaSep 1, 2014
We are in the Uk as is the site I mentioned. I know TS is worldwide with a lot of US members.
ReactReply - CHChristopherSep 1, 2014[quote][quote]NudieTrucker, (and alias) there is a naturist website that does exactly what you describe for allowing members to join. It's open to all but it's mainly UK based. So far I've not encountered one person on it that is there for the wrong reasons
... I'm surprised as I thought that most participants came from the US
[/quote]Go back and re-read his post. He did not say that TN had mostly a UK membership, he said that "...there is a naturist website...."ReactReply - HA
HawkSep 1, 2014[quote]First off, let me explain that I am not new to nudism or new to this site. I created a new identity to conceal my real certified truenudist identity of which I have been a member for several years. If you had posted this under your regular name I think it would carry more weight. Here you are with an unknown identity complaining about those with questionable identities. Regarding your suggestion that the site owners close the site to all those who have not "proven" themselves. Please remember, this site is a business for it's owners. Like it or not, it's a numbers game; the greater the number of visitors, the greater the number of paid memberships, the greater their profit. Before suggesting how they run their enterprise and that they lock the front door of their business, have YOU paid your dues with a paid membership?[/quote]The Nude Topher said it: AMENReactReply - KE
KeithSep 2, 2014I too am dissapointed was liars and phonies on this site.
My profile has many friends listed.
But actual friends on here I can count on one hand, acquaintances I can count on both hands , the rest I haven't heard of since the befriended me.
Hence the cull is pending my enthuasium to do it.
As for certification on here to me it proves nothing, I have had a number of sus discussions with certified Weirdo's as I have had within uncertified Weirdo's so I take certification on here as a sus joke.
A better certification process would be a face to face video can session with an admistrator. But then all devils can e angles when the need arises so even that sort of process could be doctors by misrepresentation. Harder I know but possible.ReactReply - JO
JonathanSep 7, 2014I'm still very new here, and have not come across any of these issues. It took me a while to work up the courage to join a network like this, and i'm very disappointed to hear about these issues. I was hoping that this site would be a good reliable place to find friends, and get information. Not so sure now...ReactReply - CO
ConnorSep 18, 2014I'm sorry you're feeling this way but this is something you should have been aware.
[quote]116 out of 116 men who have proven to me that they are all Trolls[/quote]Why are you friends with 116 trolls/perverts? There's got to be some good ones out there.
[quote]Don't know what you have found here, But for me, it is ruining the image of nudism.[/quote]The image of nudism is not based on one website or two. If your image of nudism is based on the success or failure of a website, that is sad. You must expand that image beyond websites or virtual space.
[quote]I like being here on TN and I really would like to stay, but it's becoming harder and harder the more I try to make friends.[/quote]The real ones are out there. Nudism is experiential not virtual.
Where did you make the mistake? What did you do to experience this?[quote]When people sign up to TN, it is under the assumption that they are a TRUE NUDIST.[/quote]You made an assumption, a bad one (What happens when you make an assumption?). TrueNudist.com is just a domain name, no more no less. There is another website which sounds like poornudst. Do you really think that those who signed up for that website are "pure". I don't think so. For several people nudism still means sex.
Just because somebody is naked, typing in front of a computer, signed/registered to this website, doesnotautomaticallymake them true or nudist(s).
I guess you had to learn that the hard way.
[quote]Problem here being is that there are just to many F**King LIARS on here.[/quote]Oh By The Way, Welcome to the Internet.ReactReply - CA
CabotCheeseSep 18, 2014I will use my cam in the TN Chat area. But I don't accept requests to continue on Skype or any other medium. It's clear the person wants to do something that the TN guidelines don't allow.
It's not TN's fault some people are jerks/liars etc.
Stay within the confines of TN and your troubles should be diminished.ReactReply - STStevieLornaSep 19, 2014A very good point.
I am often asked if I have Skype, I do, but I never give it out in the chat room.
If they can't be happy to cam in chat, they they must have another unsavoury reason for wanting to take it elswhere.ReactReply - T=Tom === Thomas S. TierneySep 20, 2014Ain't gonna happen. They breed too fast.ReactReply
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DesertRatSep 24, 2014There was a trucking company in Phoenix that had a made up Latin motto as part of its logo. It said "Illegitimi Non Carborundum". In other words it meant don't let the bastards grind you down. The same thing can be applied here. The fakes and trolls will always be with us. We must always keep going after them as best we can. It'll be a never ending battle because they seem to breed like rats but to do nothing will be to throw away all that is good with the site with nothing to show for it. Right now we have too much to lose to not try to keep them in check. I just wish we could get more help from the owners.ReactReply - T=Tom === Thomas S. TierneySep 24, 2014Actually it's -http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Illegitimi_non_carborundumReactReply
- DEDesertRatSep 24, 2014OK, I changed it but I noticed that there were several different variations of this mock Latin expression. Thank you for finding that item describing the history of the expression. I sort of wondered where that trucking company got that saying.ReactReply
- T=Tom === Thomas S. TierneySep 24, 2014Jimmy Hoffa had a desk name plate prominently displayed on his desk which read "Illegitimi non carborundum"ReactReply
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DavidSep 27, 2014Just saw this topic as I was looking towards the boards I normally cruise, but was curious. I just want to say that I am a true person, I also get tired of people want to jerk it instead of just chatting, or keeps the cam on their penis instead of their face. I rather look at a persons face than just that.Anyway I hope that things get better, sorry that most of your male 'friends' are pervs on the cam.ReactReply - MI
MitchSep 28, 2014I agree there are a number of bad apples in the bunch and it would be great to be rid of them all.
I have had numerous friend requests from people I have never chatted with, and they get an automatic denial. I only accept friend requests from those I have chatted with multiple times, or I have seen chatting like a normal person who is acting civil in the chat room. This may explain why I have so few 'friends' here, but I am pretty sure most if not all of them are true nudists.
Perhaps I am too picky; perhaps there are just that few true nudists ( I hope not) but, you do have to weed out those people that are only here for sexual gratification and that can take some doing.
Best of luck.
Stay Naked!ReactReply - BR
BrianNov 11, 2014I hear ya! Very well put! I've deleted and re-made my profile so many times over the past several years for that reason exactly!
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