I was just kicked out of the chatroom for no reason. I was on cam with my head and shoulders only in view. I was chatting in the room with some friends, received a message from LESandSHARON "Don't be rude to me" and then I was kicked out. I had not said a word to, or in the direction of, LESandSHARON. I have sent numerous messages to LESandSHARON asking for an explanation but have not received a reply. This guy has some serious issues and should not be a Mod.
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StevieLornaJul 24, 2015If you are following it up in the chat room, we will see you back here soon.
What comes after a 3 day ban anyway?
Just on another note, people might live in a democracy, but don't for one second assume any website is run the same way.ReactReply - KE
KeithJul 24, 2015I learnt very early never question a mod re their interpretation of a written or personal rule. They don't like it and their method of reply is boot. No warning just boot.
ReactReply - MEMemberJul 24, 2015[quote]He was only out of the room for a short period of time. Opening a second profile "_backup" to circumvent the ban.[/quote]I don't get it. Losing your mind because you can't be in a chat room for a day or two? Truly I don't understand it at all. It's a fricken chat room for gods sake.ReactReply
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Evan-hereJul 24, 2015Here are some of my thoughts on this, some of which were already mentioned here.
1. This is a Private site, it is not run by a democracy.
2. The overwhelming majority of members follow the rules, and enjoy having the mods in the room, and also believe they are doing a
wonderful job.
3. Many people have it explained to them why they are either going to be muted or removed, or why they were muted or removed, in a message.
At times no explanation is needed, many times in fact due to repeat offenders. They know what they did, and they keep doing it time and time again. Sometimes they do not see a mod enter the room, they get caught on cam or other wise disrupting the room. Speaking for my self I will not debate your offense or a rule in the chat room, period. There are two reasons for that. One it is disruptive to the room. That has been the case many many times. The second reason is one word, why. You try to explain and you get why, over and over again. " why can't I have be nude on cam?" you can be but your face needs to on cam not just your penis. " why, i'm fully nude, this is a nudist site, people just need to deal with a penis" You can be fully nude on cam, you just need to have your face on cam...... " I'm using a laptop, I can't adjust it, why can't i be nude on cam"....
That is just a small sample of what happens , and believe me, it is one of the nicer samples.
The rules of the chat room are very simple, not hard at all. When you consider that at almost anytime of the day, or night, there are over 200 people in the chat room, 7 days a week, how many thousands of people would that add up to in a week? How many in a week, several thousand? If you added up the complaints what would that be, one %? maybe 2%........The chat room is for all to enjoy, but like anything in life all are not going to be happy, so you do your best to keep the chat room the best you can for as many as you can.
One very important thing to remember, we are not the only nudist site on the web, we are not the only nudist chat room, if it is so bad here with mods being out of control, why do they keep staying here? Why don't the go to the other places? The answer is quite simple, the other places have no mods, they have no rules. They don't like it in those places. But a very small percentage complain about the very thing that brings them here, rules and mods. Go figureReactReply - DE
DesertRatJul 24, 2015BOO HOO HOO. I'm so sad. Do I really care? No way! DesertRat.ReactReply - MEMemberJul 27, 2015
I was kicked out my a Room Mod, without Warning, or Reason, when One the Gang made a Comment in the Room about my PVT comments to them, SpotyCpl,Who in their Profile said they are Nudist & Looking ! ( I let you wonder for what )So in my PVT Chat I said to them that I'm Always Up for a Chat , if they wanted ? ( This being an English Expression for being available to Chat, etc )They did NOT mention ALL of the the Sentence,, Needless to say that their Mod Friend Did the Rest, and it's Time that Members Flagged these BIAS Mod's, and Pals to have them Banned
ReactReply - MEMemberJul 27, 2015
On Top of their Profile Comments as Looking, when in the Chat room, She complaining How Slow, and Quiet it was,But when someone chats in pvt to Her, She Complains, like other Bitches on the Rag, Not Being Satisfied at Home , or Why be in the T N chat Room, when they should be in T S
ReactReply - EVEvan-hereJul 27, 2015Question, Just how did you determine that the couple and the mod were friends? You state that they don't talk in the room so just how do you know that?
Reading both of your messages I can see that your very polite and well mannered, " She Complains, like other Bitches on the Rag, Not Being Satisfied at Home ".
Your a very sad example of the Human race. After reading your comments a person can imagine just how Nice and Polite you were in a pm the the person.
One other Item, what makes you think you were talking to a female? You may wish to reread the name. You do understand that
CPL means couple don't you?ReactReply - MEMemberJul 27, 2015
Evan, was you in the Room ? No. Are you one of the Room Mod's ? Yes. Perhaps YOU need to Re-Read my comments, after HER comments in the Room, and SHE saying how Quiet it was in the Room. I wonder if you might Another Mod Friend ?Obviously None BIAS ofcourse , other wise why would you Comment Without being there, and Knowing ALL the, and NOTAble to READ what is even Written Clearly.Yes I can be Polite to People who Deserve it, and who Can be Respectful to Others.Did you Bother to Look at Their Profile ?. Nudist Cpl & Looking ( For What ? ) Oh I forgot , that it's OK for some to Show Pics, and make Comments ( suitable for T S ) but not ALL.
ReactReply - MEMemberJul 27, 2015
Evan, too Add that I may seem to be a Sad example as a Person, is a Laugh, and You should be the One that Needs to Look inthe Mirror, if You're supposed to an Educated Example of Moderator.( Non - BIAS ) ofcourse.Come back after You Learn to READ , Spell, and Compose a Sentence Correctly, along with Learning, and Knowing whatother people's Saying and Phrases Mean, who are Not from USA.
ReactReply - JUJustnudenothingmoreJul 28, 2015[quote].....Come back after You Learn to READ , Spell, and Compose a Sentence Correctly, along with Learning, and Knowing whatother people's Saying and Phrases Mean, who are Not from USA.[/quote]
Hmmmmm, is this a course of study you have considered for yourself? After painfully reading your posts, you might give it some thought. GB is not all that different than the USA, you argument is invalid.ReactReply - EVEvan-hereJul 28, 2015Didn't have to be in the room, You , yes you, stated in your post here that YOU contacted them in a PM. They did not contact you. If they were that bad why did you contact them? Also Please tell me what meaning the Phrase ," She Complains, like other Bitches on the Rag, Not Being Satisfied at Home ", where you are.ReactReply
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renebbareJul 28, 2015[quote]On Top of their Profile Comments as Looking, when in the Chat room, She complaining How Slow, and Quiet it was,But when someone chats in pvt to Her, She Complains, like other Bitches on the Rag, Not Being Satisfied at Home , or Why be in the T N chat Room, when they should be in T S [/quote]If these comments are the general tone of your posts in the chat room, private or not. I can see why you have been removed for a couple of days!!ReactReply - MEMemberJul 28, 2015
Justnudenothingmore,Well that says it ALL, after straining your Brain to try & understand, causing you so much Pain, and you've Grown Up,become more Educated, and World Wiser, there is a BIG Difference to England than USA.I'm not wasting my time trying to explain what these are, as it Will no doubt be an even Greater Strain on your Brain Cell,
ReactReply - MEMemberJul 28, 2015
Obviously you still Have to Learn to READ, and understand what & when a Phrase is used, and in which Context,and Her Comments in the Room Followed after my PM.Hense, that means Therefore you see my comments in here, obviously it is Difficult for you Americans to Read morethan a Sentence, to be able to try, & Quote.
ReactReply - MEMemberJul 28, 2015
Renebbare,Obviously you weren't in the Room at the Time I refer to, and the Female , Friend of the room Mod, and was Due to Her Comments / Actions that I responded in the way, you Mention, IN here and Not in the Main Chat Room.It's a shame when people like Stick your Comments into something, IN which you had No part in, and Nothing better to do than Read the Articles in here, to which I would guess you've been a Party too, in the Past as the Cause.
ReactReply - STStevieLornaJul 28, 2015Sunnyside, I'm from the uk and I find your posts very hard to read
Your Brain (why capitalise?) might know what it wants to say, but your fingers are useless at putting it into words.ReactReply - EVEvan-hereJul 28, 2015I love this person for providing a demo of just what mods have to deal with in the chat room, the actions for some people, the comments
make, and how in their mind, what they do is just fine and not offensive to anyone. When they get removed it's always because the
person they were insulting was friends with the mod, not because of anything they were doing, not due to what they were saying.
I really don't like taking up space in the forums with this type of thing, however; in am delighted in the demo this person is providing.ReactReply - MEMemberJul 28, 2015
SteveandLorna,,Have a Look at what you've written in your Profile, before making Comments about using Capitals.As a former Room Moderator am I Surprised with your Comments, in who's Favour.
ReactReply - MEMemberJul 28, 2015
Evan, Thank you for providing the Evidence of the Actions of a Typical BIAS room Mod, who responds to Friends ? withoutbeing a Part of what happened, without any Knowledge of what was Said, although I've Stated them.Obviously it's to Difficult, and a Brain Cell strainer.So difficult to Read more than One Sentence, and to Remember, and Understand.
ReactReply - MEMemberJul 28, 2015
Wicklowman,Here we have another example of a Brown Noser, oops was that a Phrase ?Probably to difficult for some Not from England to Understand, but it says Everything regarding his comments.
ReactReply - STStevieLornaJul 28, 2015[quote]SteveandLorna,,Have a Look at what you've written in your Profile, before making Comments about using Capitals.As a former Room Moderator am I Surprised with your Comments, in who's Favour.[/quote]
I've just checked our profile, and yes I do use capitals, at the beginning of ever sentence and for proper nouns......... not randomly like you do.
If you read our profile , you failed to read it properly. We are Mods and have been mods on other sites.
We have zero influence on this one.
However, I do know an idiot when I see one.ReactReply - MA
ManOfWicklowJul 28, 2015[quote][quote]On Top of their Profile Comments as Looking, when in the Chat room, She complaining How Slow, and Quiet it was,But when someone chats in pvt to Her, She Complains, like other Bitches on the Rag, Not Being Satisfied at Home , or Why be in the T N chat Room, when they should be in T S [/quote]If these comments are the general tone of your posts in the chat room, private or not. I can see why you have been removed for a couple of days!![/quote]Rmoved for a couple of days,huh ! with that sort of attitude, it should be a couple of months.ReactReply - MEMemberJul 28, 2015
You must see an Idiot every time you look in the Mirror, eh, . hehe
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