We have a number of couple friends in a group that enjoys (non-sexual) couples massage. We meet at our homes (ours has hot tub) and we enjoy candlelit three sets of hands-on massage then rotating until everyone has had 15 or 20 mins of oil massage. Any other groups that we could network?
Ian and Louise
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rads1006Dec 3, 2009Hello. I just jioned and I am new to all of this. We just move to California from Connecticut. I wish Ijioned this earlier and could have met you before we left.
ReactReply - MEMemberDec 7, 2009[quote]We have a number of couple friends in a group that enjoys (non-sexual) couples massage. We meet at our homes (ours has hot tub) and we enjoy candlelit three sets of hands-on massage then rotating until everyone has had 15 or 20 mins of oil massage. Any other groups that we could network? Ian and Louise[/quote] We have done this and it is a wonderful experience, we do have our own table and also works well for us, just not many Massage groups aroundReactReply
- MEMemberApr 24, 2010
hello, that is wonderful, would enjoy having a group like yours here in Virginia.
sounds like it is very soothing and relaxing, enjoy!ReactReply - TH
TheLoveNestFeb 23, 2011We'd love to join you some time! Check our profile!
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Paul VoglerFeb 23, 2011[quote]Oh, I would get a CHUBBY. Doing something like that would have to be among very trusted friends, and even then there would have to be a lot of restraint and little alcohol. I don't see how the OP could say it is non-sexual. Seems to me a troll for swinging partners.[/quote] You don't see how a massage could be non-sexual? There are millions of people who would no doubt disagree with you.ReactReply - PV
Paul VoglerFeb 23, 2011It's amazing to me that so many nudists refuse to take people at their word, yet get so upset when textiles refuse to take nudists at their word.
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Paul VoglerFeb 24, 2011[quote][quote][/quote] Sure, the spouses are present although they would be paying attentiion to another, but it seems to me that there would definitely be a sexual atmosphere to it.[/quote] This is what textiles say about nude beaches/resorts.ReactReply - LE
LeoFeb 25, 2011[quote]Agreed, but the difference is the extensive and close personal touch among those of the opposite sex.[/quote] As mentioned the same is said about looking upon others. But it is not in what we see or touch that makes the enviroment sexual or not it is what is going on within our thoughts. If we are going to have sexual thoughts then the setting will have a sexual tone to it. But if the individuals can maintain themselves and just enjoy giving and receiving the massage without any sexual thought then the experience can be non-sexual. Human beings are perhaps the most evolved species on this planet thus we have the ability to control our thoughts, desires, actions, impulses, and other unlike the many other species of animals on this planet. We have the greater ability to control our behavior thus we have the ability to have control how we perform in a given situition. As the old say goes To be or Not To Be that is the question. In this case to think sexual thoughts or not to it is up to the individual to decide what thoughts and actions they will do at any give moment and situition. So in the end we are all different as some may see this as being erotic experience others may see it as just a group of people enjoying giving and receiving massages for the benefit off those particapating with the only intent to relax and enjoy with no sexual undertones. LeoReactReply - SUsunnmaxxJun 9, 2011
Sounds like fun and we would love to try the massage idea. Can you get back into the hot tub after aplying oil?
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cocoboloAug 19, 2011Well, the OP did specify non-sexual, so there is no reason for us not to take them at their word.
But let's be clear here...there is a big difference between Sexual and Sensual, is there not? If you have never received a sunsual massage - or have given one - you are missing out on one of life's great pleasures.ReactReply - SUsunnmaxxDec 1, 2011
Had massages many times and never been aroused. I think most who say this have never had a professional massage.
ReactReply - SUsunnmaxxDec 6, 2011
We have a couples massage scheduled in KC in a couple weeks. But I really like the idea of doing it as a group thing. The multiple hands would feel different.
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rdrunningDec 16, 2011We have had couples massages on a few occasions at resorts we visited. I have never found them any more erotic than a single massage, just very relaxing. I don't even remember thinking about my wife lying next to me. In fact the last time, her massuous was mala and I still didn't find it erotic. Maybe its just me.
ReactReply - SUsunnmaxxMar 18, 2014Where is that B n B?ReactReply
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TimApr 9, 2014Never have experienced that. All I can say is...it sounds WONDERFUL.
ReactReply - MEMemberJun 20, 2014Me and my wife have always enjoyed massages. But I have been specifically also been interested in also giving massages. It not sexual. Just the feeling of touch combined with providing real "non-sexual" pleasure has always been of interest. Touch therapy so to speak.
In general, we will be willing to join in for a massage session with interested couples.ReactReply - RA
RayOct 10, 2016we are in vera playa next june '17 - we love massage - both giving and receiving
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ArnieMay 7, 2017we will be there from 15th to 25th june
Arnie n Dawn
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