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IDoIt2Original Poster
Mar 5, 2012Not sure which area we should post this in Newbie Nude, Things to do nude or Couples. But we did do it as a couple so here it is.
We had heard of a local man that had been into nudism for many years but had drifted away from social nudism some, so I called him and set up a meeting one morning for coffee. All went well and we ended inviting him to come for a visit at our home. After showing him around we were sitting and just visiting I ask him if he would be more comfortable nude and he said he sure would be. So he and I pulled off our clothes. Sue said that she would remain dressed and we told her no problem. After about 45 min. she went in another room and when she returned she had undressed. There we were just 3 naked people sitting, visiting and enjoying life for a couple of hours. We all found this first experience pleasant and there's sure to be more times ahead for us. My advise for couples with hesitant spouses: No Pressure, just enjoy it and when they see how much fun you're having maybe they'll want to join in.
We had heard of a local man that had been into nudism for many years but had drifted away from social nudism some, so I called him and set up a meeting one morning for coffee. All went well and we ended inviting him to come for a visit at our home. After showing him around we were sitting and just visiting I ask him if he would be more comfortable nude and he said he sure would be. So he and I pulled off our clothes. Sue said that she would remain dressed and we told her no problem. After about 45 min. she went in another room and when she returned she had undressed. There we were just 3 naked people sitting, visiting and enjoying life for a couple of hours. We all found this first experience pleasant and there's sure to be more times ahead for us. My advise for couples with hesitant spouses: No Pressure, just enjoy it and when they see how much fun you're having maybe they'll want to join in.
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kramtrohsMar 9, 2012That's great
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Cheri Donna DawsonMar 11, 2012I very much enjoy reading first time experiences. It's like a large light bulb over your head that went on.ReactReply - WE
westheathenMar 11, 2012Glad to hear that things turned out okay. The only thing that bemuses me is why people go to another room to undress when the folks they are leaving are the ones who will see them nude anyway. I guess there is some reason behind it, but I am too dumb to work it out.ReactReply - IDIDoIt2Original PosterMar 15, 2012I think undressing in another room for her first experience was for the "Ta-Da here I am" effect. Because later she ask me if I was surprised that she had joined us.ReactReply
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NakedBadgerJul 16, 2012Hmm ... Well, I think it depends on a lot of factors. It's one thing to get your kit off when you're on a nude beach or at a naturist resort for the first time ... it's something pretty different when you've been together a lot before, but always kept your clothes on. So I can understand even seasoned nudist being less then comfortable getting together for a first time with friends who are nudists, but who in whose presence they have never been naked, nor has the other been naked.
But sometimes it just "has to happen"; and then there's a huge, if quiet, sigh of relief: we've gotten beyond this point, too!
Stay naked --
says the Naked BadgerReactReply - MEMemberJul 19, 2012[quote]Aside from "skinny dipping" with the neighbor kids when I was a youngun....My 1st expierence was @ Sunsport Gardens in Loxahatchee, Florida. Morley and Anne are laid back, and quickly remove ay feelings of embarrassment you may be feeling. We love the ability to go to a nudist resort and to socialize with like minded folk...or relaxing here @ home around the pool in the nude..... [/quote]ReactReply
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EvansBetterHalfJul 19, 2012I thank my very patient husband for my first experience. We had been nude at home most of the time but due to a geographical change of residence, the opportunity presented itself to privatize our new backyard and visit a resort.
The first time was just the 'tour'. The tour was amazing! Being a slightly rubenesque female formerly of the corporate world that prides itself on 'image', it was more than pleasant to see such a cross section of wonderful people and individuals, all warm and welcoming to a new comer. What a revelation, to say the least!
It was a place where age, size, race, scars, nothing mattered! It was all about the person as a whole, not the parts.
When we returned to the resort, I believe I was the first to disrobe, grab a towel and head on in! We have many good friends in many places and hope to make many, many more.
Cheri is right, a huge light bulb went on!
This is a great community and the textile world could learn a lot from it.ReactReply - MEMemberNov 12, 2012
I had never participated in social nudism,until my first visit to Rock Haven lodge.Sure I had done some skinny-dipping in the dead of nite.After a little research,I decided to give social nudism a try.I made the trip to Rock haven during the week,so there was nobody else there.After checking in and paying my day fee,I went back to the car and undressed.As I walked towards the pool,the soft breeze caressing my naked flesh,I was hooked. I would happily live in a nudist community.Nudity is freedom and openness,and pure joy.
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I know I have already spoken of my first experience, but i wanted to share a great memory I have which help me to realise hoe great it is to be nude. I was about 13 and had stayed over at a friends house. It was a wark Sydney morning and my friend and I were out walking when we past a garden with its gate open. We looked in a saw a car and a young guy working on the car, and yep as you probably guessed he was naked. My friend went on about how it was wrong and I actually said it was pretty cool. A great memory and a situation which made me realise how great being nude is.
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Lakeman221Dec 12, 2015I guess mine would have been visiting Blacks Beach in San Diego when I was stationed out there.ReactReply - JS
Jim ShortsJan 13, 2016[quote]
[/quote]I wish I could have a similar experience(s), I'm having a real problem finding local nudists to hang out with and become friends with.ReactReply - SUsunnmaxxJan 19, 2016I introduced my wife to nudism and she never hesitated at the first nude event we went to. Soon we started hosting events at our house and it's not uncommon to have 30+ at many of them.ReactReply
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nudonyFeb 23, 2016Last week my GF and I were in St Martin. She knew I wanted to go to Club O. so we went. She had gone topfree on the beach before (briefly with her BFF) but this was her first time in a nudist environment. So she was taken aback a little when I tossed my swimshorts and joined the rest of the crowd. But not one to waste an opportunity, she nonetheless hesitantly took off her top and sat back quietly.- That could have been it for the day; but some friendly nudists sitting next to us started chatting with her. Again, she was initially taken aback that these completely nude people were starting conversations with her. But soon enough she started relaxing and enjoying the bit of conversation. She turned to me and whispered that she was actually amazed that she was topless, talking with nude people; and on top of that she was really getting comfortable with it!
- Ironically, my ex's first time was very similar. Hesitant first steps...until nudists started talking to her. The initial "shock" was replaced by relaxation. My ex began her day clutching to her clothes; and ended it completely nude chatting with the manager.
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FullSunFeb 24, 2016[quote]Maybe there is something to be said about making the first time social rather than isolated. I've seen many first-timers encounter friendly nudists; and subsequently find the "inspiration" to be nude. You just have to find the right crowd of people.
[/quote]There absolutely is at least for some people. In the late 90s my wife and I were going to Grand Lido Negril in Jamaica and I asked if we could stay on the nude side. She said okay but I was not to bother her and she was not going to participate. While there we met a great group of people and were having a blast. Two days into the trip I was playing volleyball in the pool nude and she was in the nearby hot tub talking with some of the people we had met. She got up and left, I thought she was just going to the restroom. Instead, she went to the room and lost the swimsuit and walked back to the pool area nude. That was the last we saw of the suit. Since then we have gone on other trips to resorts and she periodically goes with me to Laguna Del Sol. In April we are going to Cypress Cove in Florida! (Can't wait). She's not a full-time nudist like I am but is not shy does wander the house nude at times and does understand the freedom and ultimate relaxation of going to a nude resort. She even says that the people are awesome and so much more friendly at the nude resorts and they are the ones that convinced her.ReactReply - MEMemberFeb 24, 2016[quote]Last week my GF and I were in St Martin. She knew I wanted to go to Club O. so we went. She had gone topfree on the beach before (briefly with her BFF) but this was her first time in a nudist environment. So she was taken aback a little when I tossed my swimshorts and joined the rest of the crowd. But not one to waste an opportunity, she nonetheless hesitantly took off her top and sat back quietly.
- That could have been it for the day; but some friendly nudists sitting next to us started chatting with her. Again, she was initially taken aback that these completely nude people were starting conversations with her. But soon enough she started relaxing and enjoying the bit of conversation. She turned to me and whispered that she was actually amazed that she was topless, talking with nude people; and on top of that she was really getting comfortable with it!
- Ironically, my ex's first time was very similar. Hesitant first steps...until nudists started talking to her. The initial "shock" was replaced by relaxation. My ex began her day clutching to her clothes; and ended it completely nude chatting with the manager.
[/quote]Nudony that is excellent! The part I didn't like was you being in St. Martin without us.ReactReply