Your opinion, Enjoying others seeing your SO naked

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  StevieLorna

  Jul 27, 2015

  I enjoy seeing pretty women in or out of clothes, I guess every guys does.
  
  I'm proud of the fact that my wife enjoys naturism, and it doesn't bother me one way or the other that she is seen as long as it's in a naturist environment.
  
  I'm always amazed at how easy it is to forget that the other people are naked while having a conversation, it just seems so natural.
  
  
  

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  Linda

  Feb 29, 2016

  There will always be some that see no relationship between being nude and sexuality.I feel sorry for them. We  find nudism and sexuality a very stimulating relationship. WEhatever floats your boat I guess. Linda
  

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  SkyEagle

  Mar 4, 2016

  I have a problem first with your setting as a political arena. Second with the terminology that flows from that setting. "Far Left" & "Far Right" as well as "Extremist" are all pejorative terms (meaning they inject possibly unintended emotions into a discussion). liberal is not pejorative to most people. Third the terms naturalist/naturalism which refers to the Euell Gibbons type as opposed to naturist / naturism which refers to the nudists who like hiking, camping, canoeing river rafting, etc. These extraneous points obscure your possibly very valuable observation and a suggested cause.
  As a former Social Scientist I would gather as large a group of nudist and naturist couples as I could. I would expose the SOs of all couples to the same scrutiny by a selected group of males of varying experiences in the in the naturist / naturism community. By using trained observers and questionnaires, we would quantify the reactions and feelings of the male and female (never miss an unanticipated opportunity to collect data) members of the couple. Only then is the data compiled. It is almost a certainty there will be a few surprises as well as a confirmation or two.
  

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  GSNPhil

  Mar 5, 2016

  [quote]A question for couples or once had a relationship where both were involved in social nudity. Do you or did you enjoy others seeing your significant other naked in social settings?[/quote]Not sure I understand the question. But the SO that introduced me to social nudism was the epitome of the social butterfly. She never met a stranger. I was glad she enjoyed social occasions and I knew she could handle, with ease, any social situation that came up whether she was naked or not. But enjoy others seeing her naked? I'd say no more and no less than others seeing her with clothes on.
  

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  Jim Shorts

  Jun 12, 2016

  [quote]A question for couples or once had a relationship where both were involved in social nudity.
  Do you or did you enjoy others seeing your significant other naked in social settings?
  
  After coming across numerous post on a couple different sites over time,  it seems almost as the political arena far left liberal to far right extremist. The posters that kept getting my attention was the far right naturalist, speaking loudly that it isn't true naturalism to enjoy others seeing your SO naked, that it shouldn't matter.
  
  What is your opinion or past experience?
  [/quote]A naturist and naturalist are different things.  I would think that nudists would be neither be proud or ashamed of their partners in nudist settings.  I'm also sure there are exceptions to every rule.

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  FullSun

  Jun 27, 2016

  There's no question people look and admire someone attractive.  As my wife and I used to say, you can look at the menu, you just can't order from it.  There is also a difference from looking and admiring and getting aroused (fantasizing or whatever you might call it). Arousal touches on 'ordering from he menu' or having strong thoughts about at least doing so as opposed to saying that looks good and moving on.

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  nudony

  Jul 2, 2016

  [quote] When you are entirely used to clothed people, the natural sexual signals sent out by the body aren't part of your daily routine and you become hypersensitive to them. Hence when you encounter them, your reaction becomes exaggerated. It takes an act of will to unlearn this and many people may be incapable of doing so.[/quote]
  I took my best friend to a nude beach many years ago.   We had a good time spending most of the day nude; but at the end of the day, when I asked for his impressions about becoming a nudist, he replied that he found it fun - but just couldn't get over the sight of naked women - to become a nudist.  I responded that this was a conditioned response, that could be unlearned.  At which point he dismissively answered that he didn't really have the determination to do that.

  1. Well at least he was being honest.  He preferred the sight of naked women as being sexual for him; and didn't have the motivation to see nudity beyond that.  And I emphasize the word "motivation" because it takes just that to manage those conditioned responses.

  
  

  1. When I first got into social nudism I had that motivation.  I wanted to be around nudists, including very attractive ones (to me) without everyone nude "being a thing."  The first time I found myself in a "one-on-one" conversation with a female nudist at the resort, I was determined to maintain eye contact and pursue a normal conversation with her, despite the fact that she was sitting on the ledge of the hot tub, directly in front of me within just a few short feet.  This was the closest I'd ever been to an attractive nude woman that I wasn't in a relationship with.  I was dead set on not letting my eyes wander.  And it worked.  We chatted and it was quite a normal conversation.
  2. After that, it just became easier and easier.  Now, I can glance at nudists while sitting on the beach without any thoughts beyond "she's attractive!" if I happen to find a woman attractive.  I've socialized extensively with some friends, sometimes in close proximity, to where there wasn't a single part of their body I haven't seen.  And it's never been a "thing" because I have "tuned out" that little voice in my head that used to objectify nudity.

  
  

  1. But as I explained, I set out to accomplish that goal.  You just have to be motivated to achieve it.
     

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• ME

  Member

  Jul 2, 2016

  [quote]A question for couples or once had a relationship where both were involved in social nudity.
  Do you or did you enjoy others seeing your significant other naked in social settings?
  
  After coming across numerous post on a couple different sites over time,  it seems almost as the political arena far left liberal to far right extremist. The posters that kept getting my attention was the far right naturalist, speaking loudly that it isn't true naturalism to enjoy others seeing your SO naked, that it shouldn't matter.
  
  What is your opinion or past experience?
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• ME

  Member

  Jul 2, 2016

  [quote]A question for couples or once had a relationship where both were involved in social nudity.
  Do you or did you enjoy others seeing your significant other naked in social settings?
  
  After coming across numerous post on a couple different sites over time,  it seems almost as the political arena far left liberal to far right extremist. The posters that kept getting my attention was the far right naturalist, speaking loudly that it isn't true naturalism to enjoy others seeing your SO naked, that it shouldn't matter.
  
  What is your opinion or past experience?
  [/quote]It is a huge turn-on for  my wife and myself to be seen nude and to see others nude.really the true excitement and freedom of nudism
  
  

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  renebbare

  Jul 3, 2016

  [quote][quote]A question for couples or once had a relationship where both were involved in social nudity.
  Do you or did you enjoy others seeing your significant other naked in social settings?
  
  After coming across numerous post on a couple different sites over time,  it seems almost as the political arena far left liberal to far right extremist. The posters that kept getting my attention was the far right naturalist, speaking loudly that it isn't true naturalism to enjoy others seeing your SO naked, that it shouldn't matter.
  
  What is your opinion or past experience?
  [/quote]It is a huge turn-on for  my wife and myself to be seen nude and to see others nude.really the true excitement and freedom of nudism
  
  [/quote]First off, Nudism is a freedom of clothing. It does not mean you are free to be titillated by the nakedness of those around you, or to exhibit yourself.

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• JU

  

  Justin

  Aug 5, 2016

  [quote]There will always be some that see no relationship between being nude and sexuality.I feel sorry for them. We  find nudism and sexuality a very stimulating relationship. WEhatever floats your boat I guess. Linda
  it really turns me on when my fiancé takes her top off. Knowing guys are looking, even if pretending they're not. I know it turns some guys on seeing he r smaller, but perfect perky tits. She told me the sane about when i drop my shorts slowly and my cock flops out. She looked to watch me do it in front of 40 something plus women because I'm 31 but look 23, 24 y/o lol[/quote]
  

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  Sam

  Aug 5, 2016

  [quote]I have a problem first with your setting as a political arena. Second with the terminology that flows from that setting. "Far Left" & "Far Right" as well as "Extremist" are all pejorative terms (meaning they inject possibly unintended emotions into a discussion). liberal is not pejorative to most people. Third the terms naturalist/naturalism which refers to the Euell Gibbons type as opposed to naturist / naturism which refers to the nudists who like hiking, camping, canoeing river rafting, etc. These extraneous points obscure your possibly very valuable observation and a suggested cause.
  As a former Social Scientist I would gather as large a group of nudist and naturist couples as I could. I would expose the SOs of all couples to the same scrutiny by a selected group of males of varying experiences in the in the naturist / naturism community. By using trained observers and questionnaires, we would quantify the reactions and feelings of the male and female (never miss an unanticipated opportunity to collect data) members of the couple. Only then is the data compiled. It is almost a certainty there will be a few surprises as well as a confirmation or two.
  [/quote]I can assure you that if someone called me a liberal,  in the present day sense I would consider it most "pejorative". However, when used in the traditional sense I would not.  I was going to ask what a "naturalist" was but you put that into perfect context with the "Euell Gibbons" example.
  I'd like to take part in your suggested experiment but my SO does not partake of the naturist/nudist lifestyle.
  Good post!
  

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  renebbare

  Aug 6, 2016

  [quote][quote]There will always be some that see no relationship between being nude and sexuality.I feel sorry for them. We  find nudism and sexuality a very stimulating relationship. WEhatever floats your boat I guess. Linda
  it really turns me on when my fiancé takes her top off. Knowing guys are looking, even if pretending they're not. I know it turns some guys on seeing he r smaller, but perfect perky tits. She told me the sane about when i drop my shorts slowly and my cock flops out. She looked to watch me do it in front of 40 something plus women because I'm 31 but look 23, 24 y/o lol[/quote]
  [/quote]And I am sorry to say neither of you are truly nudist. You would be better on TrueSwingers.

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• BR

  

  Brad

  Nov 1, 2016

  [quote]A question for couples or once had a relationship where both were involved in social nudity.
  Do you or did you enjoy others seeing your significant other naked in social settings?Â
  
  After coming across numerous post on a couple different sites over time,  it seems almost as the political arena far left liberal to far right extremist. The posters that kept getting my attention was the far right naturalist, speaking loudly that it isn't true naturalism to enjoy others seeing your SO naked, that it shouldn't matter.
  
  What is your opinion or past experience?
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• ME

  Member

  Nov 3, 2016

  I would love for my wife to join me in nudism.  Of course I would like to her to be nude in a social setting with me.  Don't really care who else would see her.  Just something I don't think about.
  

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  Paul

  Nov 18, 2016

  I have to admit that I did love my wife being looked at, even lusted over. I can't deny it.

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  James H

  Nov 21, 2016

  I don't care either way. It's just another level of openness, freedom and expression to me. If people like looking at her or I, it's cool! Just if you have further thoughts, know that it will stop there and I hope that it isn't all that you talk about to us.

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  rdrunning

  Nov 23, 2016

  I'm just so happy that my wife agrees to go to nudist resorts and beaches. I find it much more enjoyable having her with me than going by myself. I must admit though that the first time a guy checked her out (many years ago at a skinny dipping pond) it did give me a rush. It was the first time that I witnessed a guy seeing her nude and he made a point of swimming over to our spot on the shore and giving her a thorough look-over.

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  CuriousGullig

  Dec 30, 2016

  I think we both feel a sting of proudness or happiness when other people... strangers or friends "stare" at our partner.... At times we might get jealous, but at other times we enjoy it.

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• BR

  

  Brad

  Dec 31, 2016

  It s hot others guys seeing my wife naked

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  Tom === Thomas S. Tierney

  Dec 31, 2016

  [quote]It s hot others guys seeing my wife naked[/quote]
  
  Why would that make you hot? Not arguing, just curious. Other guys seeing my wife nude never made me hot, horny or anything else. AND she always was and still is a beautiful well built sexy woman.

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• ME

  Member

  Jan 7, 2017

  I have to say no it does not bother me, but it does bother her. She is still a little uptight at social nude gatherings, but after a few minutes she is ok. At our age (50 s) if there is someone looking at us lustfully then points for us! I do not fear she will run off with someone gawking. We have been married over 30 years so we are both confident in our relationship.

  and just to add to this I don't mind her seeing other attractive people nude. If it gets her motor running, then I get the benefit. I don't think that has happened yet.

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• ME

  Member

  Jan 7, 2017

  I have to say no it does not bother me, but it does bother her. She is still a little uptight at social nude gatherings, but after a few minutes she is ok. At our age (50 s) if there is someone looking at us lustfully then points for us! I do not fear she will run off with someone gawking. We have been married over 30 years so we are both confident in our relationship.

  and just to add to this I don't mind her seeing other attractive people nude. If it gets her motor running, then I get the benefit. I don't think that has happened yet.

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  nudony

  Jan 8, 2017

  [quote]It s hot others guys seeing my wife nakedWhy would that make you hot? Not arguing, just curious. Other guys seeing my wife nude never made me hot, horny or anything else. AND she always was and still is a beautiful well built sexy woman.[/quote]
  
  Same here. I guess some guys get some arousal from the idea of other people "lusting" over their nude partner. That seems a bit objectifying to me...but I'm not judging...to each their own.
  
  When my GF went nude at the beach, well I know for a fact that she got some "looks." She's a pretty lady so it's only natural. My only concern was her comfort; not what other people were thinking when they saw her walking around naked. I don't feel that I have any particular reason to feel one way or another about it; it's her body and if she chooses to uncover it, I'm just proud of her for being comfortable naked.
  
  If other people find her nudity attractive, that's ok with me as long as they are respectful. I'm not immune to nudist beauty - in its many forms - myself. But as long as the gazes upon my pretty lady are respectful, I'm just not paying much attention to it.

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