Gay / Bi/ straight

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• TD

  

  Tom D

  Oct 24, 2024

  Makes sense to me.

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• DG

  

  David GaffneyOriginal Poster

  Oct 24, 2024

  Thanks

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• OP

  

  opennudie3

  Oct 24, 2024

  [quote]Hi Im a very tactical gay man who craves contact Problems is often mistaken with Straight men as if Im coming on to them seen as a predator Well yes,I do admire the male body and the amount of straight men with erections in there profile I cant help but admire , but I find many males Bodys ( particularly Ive 50s) attractive with or with out eretions with no intentions of sex or staking Hope Im making sense here[/quote] I think we are just living in a world thats become ruled by nasty, cold, prudish notions masquerading as so-called appropriate behaviours. Men, like all people, need hugs and physical contact - thats not an opinion, its a scientific fact! We raised our sons to be respectful but also chilled and tactile in good ways. So theyre tactile young men now and full of human warmth, and not-unrelated is the fact that they genuinely dont have much time for sexuality labels. We only need labels to make things seem different. Labels on people make them THEM and NOT US. Yes, labels all-too-often segregate, isolate and discriminate rather than facilitate or liberate. Love is love! Truth is that as naturist men we can share such wonderful connections and bonding when we meet so whether someone is gay or bi or straight or whatever really shouldnt matter. Of course there may be men whove been raised in limiting ways and now have insecurities about their own sexuality, in which case their fearful responses to being hugged or touched by you arent about you at all - it actually is about them. Perhaps for some, meeting up with other men and getting naked is a step on their own journey of liberation. And being comfortable with touch and hugs will come in time. Whatever the case, I dont think youre the one who needs to change.

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• SA

  

  Stone Andy

  Oct 24, 2024

  What a beautiful response 7104! My key takeaway is: don't them someone when you can us them. As far as admiring male beauty and being misunderstood for it, consider it a reflection of the other person. How do so many of us fail to see our own magnificance?

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• JO

  

  John

  Nov 20, 2024

  I too love to touch, and be touched naked.Cuddling is very nice, and if you know the joy of frottage,or naked body rubbing it is in many instances more satisfying than penetration.I live in Dallas,and can host most weeks.Let me know if coming through town.
  John

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