How do you manage your nudie lifestyle with a non-nudie wife?

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• ME

  Member

  May 17, 2026

  I just get naked when she is out. Looking forward to her being away next weekend.

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• TD

  

  Tom D

  May 17, 2026

  My wife is fine with me being nude in the house and private back yard. Since she doesn't like the beach. she is OK with me going to the clothing optional beach without her. One difference is that she does not want me to be nude in the car when she is with me, so I keep my shorts on to make her happy.

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• ST

  

  Steve

  Jun 7, 2026

  I should be able to do whatever I wanna do in the privacy of my own home that I pay for, whenever I want. Now that the kids are grown and out on their own, she agrees with me. She isn't a nudie at all. She's not shy to be undressed in the bedroom, but anywhere else she is more comfortable with her clothes on. I strip off my clothes as soon as I walk in the door, and stay that way, with my manly bling in tact, until I have to exit the house.

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• ME

  Member

  Jun 7, 2026

  Well, I am a nudist woman who has a non-nudist husband. My story is complicated, but I go nude in my backyard mostly when people at home are gone. My husband does know that I like to be nude and get in the pool nude. He does not know that I have gone to a nudist resort. We have different views on nudist resorts. I have asked him to go to one, but he will never go to a nudist resort. My husband is very private with his body.

  Once in a great while I will drive nude, but not with my husband. He would have a heart attack if he knew. I love to go hiking and there are times I will hike without a shirt on. I would rather go hiking with nothing on at all, but there are no nude hiking areas where I live. If you have an area at home that you can go nude just tell your wife thats what makes you happy and go for it.

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• ME

  Member

  Jun 7, 2026

  My better half is also a non nudist, she's fine me being nude at home and in the garden.... but she'd never go to a resort!

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• JI

  

  Jim

  Jun 7, 2026

  Just to tell you if you go to the beach not with him. Remember to bring a compact mirror with you. It works great against toads and signaling for help from other people next to you.

  Yeah happy to say the wife is naked in her chair ! Lol When we started dating I had told her that I loved being naked and she said that she was the same way.
  A couple of good friends here in our small town has the same problem. But both of them are enjoying life naked at home and their backyards

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• ME

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  Jun 8, 2026

  [quote]Well, I am a nudist woman who has a non-nudist husband. My story is complicated, but I go nude in my backyard mostly when people at home are gone. My husband does know that I like to be nude and get in the pool nude. He does not know that I have gone to a nudist resort. We have different views on nudist resorts. I have asked him to go to one, but he will never go to a nudist resort. My husband is very private with his body. Once in a great while I will drive nude, but not with my husband. He would have a heart attack if he knew. I love to go hiking and there are times I will hike without a shirt on. I would rather go hiking with nothing on at all, but there are no nude hiking areas where I live. If you have an area at home that you can go nude just tell your wife thats what makes you happy and go for it.[/quote] Hi Tina, your approach to nudism is refreshing and should be applauded. Its seldom that a married woman with a non-nudist spouse opts to embrace nude life. I think yoy would find that your approach is well aligned with what many of males with non-nudist wives experience. Well done and keep living the nude life!

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• BE

  

  Ben

  Jun 8, 2026

  [quote]Well, I am a nudist woman who has a non-nudist husband. My story is complicated, but I go nude in my backyard mostly when people at home are gone. My husband does know that I like to be nude and get in the pool nude. He does not know that I have gone to a nudist resort. We have different views on nudist resorts. I have asked him to go to one, but he will never go to a nudist resort. My husband is very private with his body. Once in a great while I will drive nude, but not with my husband. He would have a heart attack if he knew. I love to go hiking and there are times I will hike without a shirt on. I would rather go hiking with nothing on at all, but there are no nude hiking areas where I live. If you have an area at home that you can go nude just tell your wife thats what makes you happy and go for it.[/quote] We think it's wonderful that you've embraced naturism and are exploring it.. May we ask what his reluctance to visit a resort is -- body image, thinks it's for swingers, jealousy of others seeing you, etc? Not trying to pry too much, just wondered if we can help you and him. What do you think his reaction would be if he found out you've been to a resort? You've driven nude. Great. Would his "heart attack" be from surprise, anger, or something else? Although you believe there is "no nude hiking" near you, there are likely places that are lightly travelled that you could go to. Yes, we're projecting Ben's experience in WI/IL onto you. Reach out if you'd like more info of how he picks trails.

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• ED

  

  eddiesmith

  Jun 8, 2026

  Luckily, my wife allows me to be naked and be a member at the bank resort here in Tennessee. I envy couples who both enjoy the nude lifestyle.

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• VI

  

  Vidal

  Jun 8, 2026

  If I was your husband I would encourage you to always be naked. Like a no clothes policy at home for you, if you go to yoir friends house a or the resort, you have to leave completley nude. I will do my best to keep you naked at all times. If we went out to dinner, you would wear a sheer dress so people can still you naked. :-)

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• JI

  

  Jim

  Jun 8, 2026

  "Once in a great while I will drive nude, but not with my husband. He would have a heart attack if he knew. "

  My adamantly non-nudist wife would have a conniption fit were she to find out I've flown my plane nude a few times. I would have to replace some of her cast iron skillets because she would break them on my head.

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  Jim

  Jun 8, 2026

  [quote]Once in a great while I will drive nude, but not with my husband. He would have a heart attack if he knew.[/quote] If my adamantly non-nudist wife knew I had flown my plane while naked a few times, she would have a conniption fit. I would be purchasing her a new batch of skillets to replace the ones she would break on my head.

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• RY

  

  Ryan

  Jun 8, 2026

  My better half started to go nude more often as she lost weight, but has reverted back to her textile ways in the past 3 years.

  I go nude in the morning (I server her naked tea) and then when she isn't home. We also use the hot tub naked (Yes, even her). She knows I like to be naked, but that's all she knows. I've visited several nudist resorts and nude beaches, as well as some clothing optional hot springs. She does not know I've been to the resorts and would freak out if she did. Back in 2023 we visited a few hot springs in Colorado where I went naked (she did not), and she did not like it that others could see me naked.

  So most of my nudity is done alone now.

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• ME

  Member

  Jun 9, 2026

  [quote]If I was your husband I would encourage you to always be naked. Like a no clothes policy at home for you, if you go to yoir friends house a or the resort, you have to leave completley nude. I will do my best to keep you naked at all times. If we went out to dinner, you would wear a sheer dress so people can still you naked. :-)[/quote] Ahhh that all sounds "controlling". Everyone, even if they declare they are a nudie, has the right wear what they want when they want. Its a freedom of choice thing after all...

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• ME

  Member

  Jun 9, 2026

  From the time I get home after work, Im nude til I leave the next morning to go back to work. I work in my yard nude, sit on my back porch nude, even if neighbors are outside. I drive alone nude and have been to a nude resort a few times without her. Shes definitely not a nudist. Socializing with other nudists hasnt happened and Im sure she wouldnt want me to hang out with a bunch of naked people, her words not mine lol.
  So there it is, how I manage my lifestyle!

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• HE

  

  Henry

  Jun 10, 2026

  My wife grew up in a conservative Christian family. When we got married I was not in the nudist lifestyle at the time. However, I grew up in farming area so us guys would go skinny dipping after working in the fields all the time. Wife and I started to go to Korean spas. In a Korean spa you are separated but in the respective locker rooms they have hot tubs, sauna and/or steam room. And in that wet area you have to be naked. So she got use to being naked around other women. We had a boat and would go out on Lake Michigan were we would sunbath naked. We have 10 nudist resorts within a couple of hours, but she did not want to go. She was worried about Romans 14:21. Then one day a Muslim acquaintance told us that this woman's eyes were driving him crazy, the woman was in full burqa. At that point my wife realized that men are men. So on a vacation we went to a nudist resort during the week to try it out. She fell in love with it and now we have our favorite resorts. The freedom from body shame, meeting great people and hiking naked keep us going.

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