Is any one bothered about being a grower rather than a shower?

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• DA

  

  Dave

  Nov 22, 2020

  Being nude has nothing to do with this... If you think it does, you are in the wrong arena.

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• JI

  

  Jim

  Oct 27, 2021

  Not at all. When flaccid im fairly small but it does grow to 6+ when, umm it needs to :) i like to be naked without consideration of my dick size.

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• LE

  

  Leonard

  Oct 27, 2021

  I don't think about it I am what I am and I take people as they present themselves

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• PE

  

  Peter

  Jul 17, 2022

  I like being a grower myself.

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• LI

  

  LI_nudist_male

  Sep 4, 2022

  To be honest, there are a couple things that bother me about being a "grower."
  1) the cock is meant to be seen, and even when flaccid i would like to be able to "make a good impression." Let's face it, men do check each other out. Oh well, what can we do?
  2) when I wear boxers, it would be nice if the flaccid cock would snake down the leg a bit; but instead it tends to poke through the fly. Argh! So I have stopped wearing boxers and switched to boxer briefs (that is, when I'm wearing anything at all.)

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• ME

  Member

  Sep 5, 2022

  Always been a grower. Growing up, that is all I saw. I never realized until my mature years that there was such a thing as 'shower'.
  What is the upside of being a shower?

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• SL

  

  sliminsac

  Sep 5, 2022

  I'd like to watch it grow

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• ME

  Member

  Sep 5, 2022

  I always been a natural, sometimes it grows when I show, lol.
  If it already grown before I show, then so be it.

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• JA

  

  jamesII

  Sep 5, 2022

  It used to really bother me, as most people who saw it would see it in its shrunken state. In my case it certainly doesn't grow loads but enough, it's just when it's at it's smallest I look very out of proportion as a tall guy!

  Doesn't bother me these days, plenty of years as a nudist and letting it hang (or poke) out in locker rooms and team showers means I don't feel the shame I used to, I would hope most guys know that soft size isn't a great indication, and if seeing my shriveled little thing makes them feel better about themselves then that's great.

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• FA

  

  Fallenmirage

  Sep 20, 2022

  Same here I am way out of proportion. When I am soft its barely there and doesnt match but I enjoy nudity and wont let it hinder me.

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• JA

  

  jamesII

  Sep 21, 2022

  Good for you, such a small thing (pun intended) to be hung up on. Spending time nude is great and we shouldn't let worries about that sort of thing stop us.

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• BL

  

  blindmanin99

  Jan 24, 2023

  Well, I'm a grower and I'm okay with that. Plus, it makes it a lot more fun to go through the transformation. This site has really helped me accept a lot of things that I used to not.

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• LI

  Little_David

  Jan 24, 2023

  Hey BM, Long time no speak. I hope you're well and happy.

  I'm a grower, very little when soft and I'm 6'4". Lots of partners have commented but had no complaints when I'm erect, nearly 7. I love going nude and don't care when I'm "little". It's fun as a lot will never know.

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• ME

  Member

  Mar 19, 2023

  The male on male locker room judgement has been the most challenging for me. I guess in situations where guys dont fight to agree on dominance then what your cock looks like when flaccid is the first proxy. If not, then its just me! Seeing a guy with a lot on show left me assuming he was dominant in any hierarchy that avoided fighting n bloodshed!
  Also, as I have struggled with my weight all my life, what is potentially on show gets hidden in folds of fat. So much so I call mine my little bit of grissle.
  Frankly, while it bothers me less as I age, and I love to be naked, solo or socially. Whats on show still matters to me! In regards to my own member, and that that of others!
  As I explore my sexuality, I enjoy seeing whats on show and size is a prize. All that said, never had any complaints about my size; albeit I do think women also do judge men by what they show.

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• FU

  

  funfolk

  Apr 14, 2023

  As a fisherman's wife once said, "It's not the length of your pole that matters; it is more about how you wiggle your worm". When flaccid, mine can almost completely vanish and even if one was to shave, there would be little to be seen apart from the balls. Anyway, I far prefer too show off my ginger pubes than to ever shave to make the cock look bigger. With age, my six-pack has turned into a party keg and it isn't even easy to see my cock any more! The important thing is that I do not get any complaints, only praise about how I use it, although I am reminded on what one TV comedian once said about getting older and that it now took him all night doing what he used to spend all night doing.

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• JA

  

  Jamie

  Apr 19, 2023

  I'd like to be a show-er. I think it would provide me with more confidence. But it grows significantly and it seems more than enough for the various people who have seen it.

  Since erect pics don't really seem welcome here is there anywhere to potentially post showing difference?

  --Jamie

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• RI

  Rick

  Dec 29, 2023

  It doesn't bother me that I'm small when flaccid. When erect its average size, I'm happy with what I have nothing can be done about it anyway!

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• SK

  

  SkinnyDippingBear

  Jan 2, 2024

  When I was younger and especially in school I used every birthday cake candle blow out wish on my little guy! Sad, I know.. But I wanted to have a little hang and girth like my friends and teammates did in the showers. It seemed so unfair to me that mine was so much smaller and shriveled. Sure there were a few others like me but so many more bigger. Took me years to get over it and just accept I am who I am. Love being a nudist and surrounding myself with people who appreciate me just as I am. Love going to the Korean spas and relaxing nude with men of all shapes and sizes! Im good now but every once in awhile I still see a guy thats a proud shower and a twinge of jealousy still wavers in my mind. Mostly just curiosity though of what it must have been like to grow up like they did, but then again its just a penis, probably not much different just more of it.

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• MI

  

  mi55er

  Jan 2, 2024

  I love your response -- I certainly resemble most of your observations. And, I may have prayed a few times to wake up to a bigger penis. I'm all stubby and shriveled when in the locker room, especially when I've been working out or swimming. It makes the exposure in the locker room even more revealing. I do spend too much time fluffing myself in the locker room shower before making the long walk nude back to change. Being a tall big guy with a dinky dick meant going to a Nude Beach was a Bucket List item I conquered. Ever since, I have felt better about myself and the feeling of being nude in the sun at the beach greatly outweighs my discomfort. Keep showing your cocks not matter how small!!!!

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• SK

  

  Stephen Konarik

  Jan 2, 2024

  For me Im tall and fairly athletic such that Ive played many team sports especially in the past, and down there relaxed Im not much at all. Aside from at the very start of locker-room experiences, Ive tried to never let it bother me and just not take things like small size so seriously.

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• PH

  

  Philip

  Jan 2, 2024

  Not at all, the end product is what matters, not the process.

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• MI

  

  Mike

  Jan 2, 2024

  Well bothered the hell out of me as a teenager. Gym class hell. Got better when the guy or guys teasing me got together erect the difference was minor and didnt affect use at all. I learned to enjoy mine no matter what.

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• TR

  

  Trekrider2779

  Jan 2, 2024

  [quote] Since erect pics don't really seem welcome here is there anywhere to potentially post showing difference? --Jamie[/quote] I'd recommend joining the nonshy site. A nudist site which is penis positive and accepting of erections. In my own situation, when I started having communal showers at school, there was a considerable variation in size. There was never any teasing about it - and I think having to shower together forced everyone to realise the variation was normal. Initially, some guys were hesitant to shower with the others first time, but once that barrier was overcome, they were fine with it from then on, once they realised no one cared. Later on when I became an active nudist, and my own ratio for growing to showing had become much greater as I developed, I still never worried about it. Again, there were always others smaller and bigger, and in fact some of my closest friends are a lot smaller.

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• JC

  

  Jim Cox

  Jan 4, 2024

  I'm not bothered at all. As I've gotten older I have hardly noticed my shortcomings. (pun intended)

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