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Question for NMs What do you look for (or not look for) in a CF or CM?

Posted Aug 22, 2025

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JonOriginal Poster
Aug 22, 2025

Hey guys

Im a CM in the CMNM / CFNM scene and curious to hear from the NM side of things.

When youre the naked one, what makes a CF or CM enjoyable for you? Is it:

How they watch you? Their attitude and energy? Confidence vs. subtlety?

On the flip side what turns you off, or makes you not want to play with a CF or CM? Something else?

I figure every NM has a different vibe theyre after, and itd be great to hear the range. Whether youve got one sentence or a whole story to share, Id love to learn what matters most to you.

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  • ST
    Steve
    Steve
    Aug 28, 2025

    I'm just happy to be nude and if others are dressed, that's fine. To me, it comes down to what I think of as implied consent. If I have unplugged consent (e.g.: I'm in a designated clothing-optional area then I consider they've consented to seeing me nude, regardless of what they are wearing (or not). If the area's not known for nudity, it's harder to determine whether they mind me being nude, and we all know the reactions might range from enthusiastic to very negative. I try to not make assumptions in that respect but have been caught out.

    When nude I'm happy to interact with others whatever they have on, such as a greeting or conversation and quirky happy if they are comfortable with that. If they enjoy the view, so much better!

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  • MB
    Mike but also go by Koch (coach)
    Mike but also go by Koch (coach)
    Sep 14, 2025

    When I am naked that is it. I don't much care what others are there for. I am just comfortable not wearing clothes. I am not looking to be excited. I'd it is a place where I can be and they. Choose not to be, that is on them. I am not out for sex or thrills, just being me.

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    Eric (Rick)
    Eric (Rick)
    Sep 15, 2025

    I have always believed that nudists are usually also exhibitionist. I certainly am. I enjoy being seen by others whether they're clothed or not.

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    Eric (Rick)
    Eric (Rick)
    Sep 15, 2025

    I have always believed that nudists are usually also exhibitionist. I certainly am. I enjoy being seen by others whether they're clothed or not.

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    Steve
    Steve
    Sep 19, 2025

    I'm happy to be seen, as long as they're happy to see. I tend to think of it in terms of the consent of others to see me.

    I don't particularly want to offend others who'd rather not see me, but assume consent is implied in, for example, designated clothing-optional areas. Other areas can be more problematic. For unofficial areas, I'll tend to keep a bit of distance.

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    John English
    John English
    Sep 25, 2025

    I have always found it weard the people you think would be upset about seeing you nude weren't and the ones you thought would be cool got upset . My sister saw me nude as a young boy but she saw me nude when I was in my 50s and she got upset . I had 2 different neighbors both being cool about my nudity husband/ wife and I had a older woman 65 pluse seem to enjoy seeing me i guess you never know

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    THX1930
    THX1930
    Sep 26, 2025

    There aren't many nudist opportunities where I live so I would be happy for any opportunity to be nude without offending anyone. To have someone actually want to see me naked would be a bonus whether they're clothed or not.

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