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Did you tell your parents you're a nudist?

Posted Dec 15, 2016

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WantstonenudeOriginal Poster
Dec 15, 2016

Did you ever tell your parents you are a nudist? What did they say? Any tips on how to tell them?

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  • PA
    Paul
    Paul
    Dec 15, 2016

    No they just found out by seeing me nude and dad wasn't to happy over it and mum isn't to keen on it but with dad passing away last year I can be nude more than I could before including most of the time in the garden. I don't think mum will be ever fully happy over my nudity.

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  • WI
    Willie
    Willie
    Dec 15, 2016

    No. Why do you need to tell them?

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  • FL
    flsmoothie
    flsmoothie
    Jan 6, 2017
    My mother passed away about the same time I began experiencing social nudism. She had been very prudish when I was younger, but had softened with age. In that short period before her passing I didn't mention it.

    My father passed away six years later. During those years I became a serious social nudist. He was comfortable with nudity around the house, especially in the mornings while getting cleaned up. When I was growing up the two of us would be nude together using the bathroom in the mornings. As an adult we would be nude together in the mornings as we both slept nude. Even though I never told him I was a nudist, I think he had an inkling as I spent more time nude when we visited each other. At one point I noticed him noticing my groomed genitalia, which may have given him an additional signal of my comfort with my nude body.
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  • ME
    Member
    Jan 26, 2017

    I started sleeping in the nude around the age of 16 and usually get up by the first knock on my bedroom door however one day I didn't hear the knocking on the door. My dad woke me up by pulling the blankets and sheets away from my body and found out me sleeping without any thing on and, also saw my morning woody :-( Before leaving my bedroom he said " I don't want your mother to see you naked and I'll be the one to get you up when necessary".

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  • J
    J
    J
    Jan 27, 2017

    Exactly. Why do you need to tell, just let it be.

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  • JE
    John English
    John English
    Jan 28, 2017

    Never said anything to my parents but growing up I allways went nude to and from my room at bath time and I sleped nude since 11 till I got married and moved out . BUT I did tell my sister she said she thought it was cool but something she could not do , when we put up my parents house up for sale we had to do a lot of painting and it was the middle of summer so I started doing it nude it was mid morning and my sister comes to help she comes in the house I called to her wear I was and I was in the buff painting she laughs comes up staires and looks at me painting and ask to to put something on or she will leave

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  • RI
    rick181au
    Jun 11, 2017

    The wife and I became nudist in our early 30's with our two young children 3 & 5, we bought on site accomadition there, and spent almost every weekend and holiday there, our mothers wondered what we were doing (both our fathers had passed on), the cat was let out of the bag when our son asked in front of both mothers "when are we going to the place where we don't wear cloths again" my mother took it OK, the wife's mother not so good, we decided to take them to the club so they could see what went on in winter when their were not all that many people there. We took my mum first to a bingo night, as it turned out it was a warm day and my mother was amused when it cooled down people were putting on tops but remained naked from the waste down, the day we took the wife's mother the club decided to have a swimming race in the dam, the water was very cold, I went in the race and the wife told me later that her mother said "she thought I would have been bigger where it counts, "bloody hell it was winter"! Nothing much was said about it after that, my mum remarried and we were chatting about the step fathers time in WW2, he told us about how the soldiers would strip off to swim and that he had seen more bare bums than we would ever see, mum said you are wrong there and left it at that.
    PS neither of our mothers undressed at the club.

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  • TD
    Tom D
    Tom D
    Sep 28, 2017

    Never did. My parents, especially my mother, were very conservative about clothing. Shirtlessness was not even allowed in "public" areas of the house. Once when I was visiting after I was married, I did a middle of the night bathroom run in just sleep shorts. Passed my mother in the hall and she told me to put on a shirt next time!

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  • KE
    KevLin
    KevLin
    Sep 28, 2017
    [quote]No. Why do you need to tell them?[/quote] Exactly, just go and enjoy what you enjoy and leave them out of it.
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  • RU
    runningnudist
    runningnudist
    Nov 13, 2017

    No I havent. I feel I dont really need to. Ive gone to nude beaches ran in nude bike rides and visited nude camps and havent told her.

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  • SJ
    Sjoerd
    Sjoerd
    Nov 13, 2017

    My parents never really liked nudity themselves, but they know I liked it, and thy know I am naked when I am at home. At my own home, that is, as I was never allowed to be naked at home when I still lived with them (except in my own bedroom),

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  • BA
    Bart
    Nov 14, 2017

    I see myself only a few months as a nudist, but I'm nude in my house for a much longer time. My mother and one of my sisters knew a was always nude in my house and I didn't need to dress when they are visiting. Now my father, my brother and my 2 other sister all know I'm a nudist. They haven't visited my yet so I don't know how it will work when they do so. My best friend also know it and have visited me several times while I stayed nude, once his wife was with him. I stayed nude but she does not really like it so next time I don't know what I should do, as my friend says I have the right in my house to do as I wish.
    Last month I made a 12 day trip through the States with an other friend. In our hotel rooms I was always naked, after I asked him I he had any problems with it.

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  • MA
    Mark
    Mark
    Nov 16, 2017

    I found copies for H&E a the UK nudist magazine in back of my Dads car, thought a first maybe mechanic left it there when car serviced, but eventually found more in his bedroom.
    Was dared by a mate to skinny dip on a deserted beach and was instantly hooked especially after seeing pictures in magazine, eventuality tried it socially on a official naturist beach when I could drive. I then confessed to mt Dad where I had been, found out parents both went to naturist beaches when alone or on holiday, so joined them at 19 on local nudist beach. Two brothers never interested though, but went naked with parents many times after that, mainly on beach holidays or in garden on a sunny day.

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  • JO
    John
    John
    Nov 16, 2017

    We have always been open with people regarding who we are and being true to ourselves running our naturist resort means the entire community knows and no one is concerned. We stay clothed when necessary out of loving consideration for non naturist people if they visit.

    Cheers

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  • ME
    Member
    Nov 21, 2017

    my Parents new growing up I liked being nude. I was caught quit a few times going nude when no one was home and I did not here them come home. They would tell to get dressed. After getting caught a few times they told me I can only be nude when one was home and not let anyone see me. They knew but never made a big deal about it .

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  • ME
    Member
    Jan 10, 2018

    I don't think that I have to tell my mom that I'm a nudist, She recently moves to my apt with me and see's me around the house when I'm home

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  • MA
    Mathew
    Jul 12, 2020

    I told my mother. She said she's fine with it as long as it's away from her.

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  • FU
    FullSun
    FullSun
    Jul 13, 2020

    I told my Dad a year before he passed. He wanted to make another trip to Maui. He and my mom used to spend a month on Maui each year before she passed away. When he decided to go he asked me, my brother and sisters if someone would go with him, all we had to do was pay for flights as he had a condo rented for a couple weeks. The timing etc. all worked out for me to be the one to go. Before we left I told him clothes can really get uncomfortable for me, which is true, so I often go nude at home and I wanted to make sure hes okay if I did at the condo which he seemed think strange but said okay. I also told him I prefer nude beaches but if I have to wear something at a beach, I dont wear normal shorts, I tend to wear string side or even thong if I can. Finally I said, the condo is in Kihei near Little Beach, which is supposed to be one of the nicest nude beaches and if it works out Id like to go there one day while hes doing his own thing.

    While there he was okay with my nudity in the condo, though I didnt go nude all the time as I did not want to push it. My swim attire on the beach did not seem to phase him. Most interesting though was was made plans for one day where he was going to go to the beach across from the condo to sit, enjoy the air and reminisce about his trips with my mom while I took the car to go to Little Beach. The day before that we were wandering around and he asked if I wanted to go find out where Little Beach was. So, following the info I had, we drove down, parked at Big Beach and walked to where you climb over the hill of an old lava flow He couldnt climb it but he at least helped me find where I would go so Id be better prepared. The next day e we able to do what we had planned and I got to go have a great day a Little Beach and he got some alone tim with his memories.

    The last surprise was when he passed and the instructions for us kids handling their ashes were opened. My mom had written and both of them signed that they wanted us to take their ashes to be spread in Maui, so they could finally skinny dip in their favorite place. I wonder if they wouldve gone to Little Beach if theyd known about it when they were younger.

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  • ME
    Member
    Aug 3, 2021

    I never told my parents I was a nudist. When I lived with my parents I was naked whenever I could, when I was alone at home and at bedtime. I think I've been sleeping naked since I was 10 years old. After I got married I fully lived the nudist lifestyle at home by getting naked all the time.

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  • TH
    thifes_ok
    thifes_ok
    Aug 7, 2021

    Yup. Told my mom and one of my brothers I did a 5k bare buns fun run my mom said that I never did like clothes so it didnt suprise her at all my brother laughed and said it sounded like fun. Most of my friends know I'm a nudist

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  • NU
    nudie_iq7721
    Aug 7, 2021

    My youngest son said he took his wife to a C/O hot spring that we used to go to when the kids were little.She said she wouldn't get naked. When they got there, 2 women were soaking naked and my son stripped off and joined them.His wife also stripped offright away. She said it felt great, now he tells me she hardly wears any clothes around the house and wants to go to a nudist resort.

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  • GO
    Gordy57
    Gordy57
    Aug 7, 2021

    I told mine. As Dad was known to just go for a drive and stop in anywhere unannounced. So told them "If the sun is out the buns are out" at my new house with a private back yard, And they may want to call first to avoid seeing something they may not want to see. And yes they tested that by just dropping in on nice days and catching me naked in the garden, when I heard the car I looked up to see Mom with her hands over her eye's ;-) Another time Dad stopped by with one of my uncles, who was laughing with an ear to ear grin. He looked around and said he always wanted a private backyard like mine to do the same thing ;-0

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