Single Male Nudists.....

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• TN

  

  TNAKED

  Oct 11, 2011

  Yeah it is tough being single and finding other guys who just enjoy being naked without having sex as an issue. I may like to see your cock, but that doesn't mean I want to do anything with it. Nor do I want to do anything with your wife / girlfriiend.
  
  I'm just single at the timebeing and like to be naked.

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• ME

  Member

  Oct 12, 2011

  Good its not just me who feels that way.

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• DI

  

  diceman

  Oct 13, 2011

  Wow. I hadn't thought about it that way. You are totally correct. I wish I had a fix for the poster and not just a "understanding" of the post.

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• OC

  

  ocmick

  Oct 13, 2011

  This really has been beaten to death. This is a public non-pay site. A large number of "members" are not true nudist and prey on women. I don't fault the ladies for being cautious.

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• KI

  King_David

  Oct 30, 2011

  I would have to be classified as a single male since I am not yet legally married, but you'll probably never see me at a resort without my fiancee.  We are practically inseperable - practically a couple by most definitions.

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• SU

  

  sumdude

  Nov 2, 2011

  [quote]Having just read another thread about someone wanting Singles to stop pretending being couples, I realized  I have to ask the question....
  What is the definition of a SINGLE MALE ??
  I would of thought it would be the same as it is in textile society where if you are not in a relationship with someone, then you are single, if you are in a relationship with someone, you are Married, Defacto, Partners Boyfriend/Girlfriend or Boyfriend/Boyfriend.
  Do people not think It is hard enough to be a nudist in this day and age where "Society" deams Nudity = Sex  Without the nudist comminity basicly rejecting Single Nude Males?
  And as for those who think a Married man where their wife isnt into nudism is classed as a Single Male, to the point where they should put single on their profile, Dont you think it would be a better idea to think of them as a couple, get to know them, and who knows, If the wife who isnt into nudism sees that there are actualy people out there having fun with other people while naked, without sex been involved they might get into nudism themselves....
  You read the phiolosphys of natruism, been about acceptance, etc etc, but the more people I get to know, the less it seems about acceptance...  but the more you get into it, It seems to be just about rules, even more so than in textile life.
  In an ideal world, I think Nudism would be more about Doing everything you would do as a textile, but naked (obviously depending on health and saftey)
  Im actualy starting to think that the textile world is more free than the clothes free.
  [/quote]What really sucks is how unaccompanied females are allowed everywhere but unaccompanied males are not.  Pure sexism!
  

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• SU

  

  sumdude

  Nov 2, 2011

  [quote]A large number of "members" are not true nudist and prey on women. I don't fault the ladies for being cautious.[/quote]I don't fault anybody for being cautious about anything.  I don't like womanizers or maneaters.
  
  As a very happily married man who is still head over heels in love with his wife, I have zero, zilch interst in searching for other women.  That said, I would like to address your comment about preying on women.  Is there a difference between activiely searching for a mate and preying on the opposite sex?
  
  Back to the "cautious" part: I have always found it interesting how females are the most exhibitionist gender, yet are reluctant to loose the last itty-bitty piece of cloth they have when swimming.  Nobody bares their flesh in public more than a female.  LOL  My wife and I don't understand it.  ;-)
  

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• SU

  

  sumdude

  Nov 2, 2011

  [quote]I am divorced since 2008 (separated since 2002) and officially I am not allowed to classify/refer myself as single.
  [/quote]That's hard to believe. Is a divorced woman with three kids a single mom?
  

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• CA

  canggrrego

  Nov 5, 2011

  is truth,,more open your mind ,my dear friend.

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• SU

  

  sumdude

  Nov 6, 2011

  [quote]is truth,,more open your mind ,my dear friend.[/quote]I have always had an open mind. Was raised that way. However, life has taught me that a person can open his mind too far and have his brain fall out.
  

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• ME

  

  Metal-Maiden

  Nov 16, 2011

  I am single legally and so is my other half, we do not live together full time but we regard ourselves as a couple in a relationship and are on this site as such.
  That said, I would agree that there are people of both sexes on this site who pose as something they are not, for what WE both think are "nefarious" purposes.
  
  

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• RS

  

  rsmoon

  Nov 22, 2011

  [quote]Having just read another thread about someone wanting Singles to stop pretending being couples, I realized  I have to ask the question....
  What is the definition of a SINGLE MALE ??
  I would of thought it would be the same as it is in textile society where if you are not in a relationship with someone, then you are single, if you are in a relationship with someone, you are Married, Defacto, Partners Boyfriend/Girlfriend or Boyfriend/Boyfriend.
  Do people not think It is hard enough to be a nudist in this day and age where "Society" deams Nudity = Sex  Without the nudist comminity basicly rejecting Single Nude Males?
  And as for those who think a Married man where their wife isnt into nudism is classed as a Single Male, to the point where they should put single on their profile, Dont you think it would be a better idea to think of them as a couple, get to know them, and who knows, If the wife who isnt into nudism sees that there are actualy people out there having fun with other people while naked, without sex been involved they might get into nudism themselves....
  You read the phiolosphys of natruism, been about acceptance, etc etc, but the more people I get to know, the less it seems about acceptance...  but the more you get into it, It seems to be just about rules, even more so than in textile life.
  In an ideal world, I think Nudism would be more about Doing everything you would do as a textile, but naked (obviously depending on health and saftey)
  Im actualy starting to think that the textile world is more free than the clothes free.
  [/quote]I am no longer married,raised my three children by my self,they are grown and on there own,I am all alone in the world except for my past,so can some one tell me by true nudest rules am I a single male?????
  

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• CH

  

  Chuck

  Nov 23, 2011

  Your divorced and I'm widower so I guess we are no longer considered single, But we're treated as single males. I don't understand it either. I just enjoy the company of other nudists male or female.
  

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• CH

  

  chinesenude

  Nov 25, 2011

  there are always rules wherever we go, here at truenudists, some people like to feel more superior than others, though I found it harmless
  
  I responded to that other forum as well, I guess it really means nothing. I am more bothered by fake people who aren't really nudist but just come here out of curiosity or other hidden agenda

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