single married nudist — Frequently Asked Questions on True Nudists

MikeOriginal Poster

Nov 9, 2015

Hi i;m married and enjoy the nude lifestyle however my wife has no interest in nudity and won't accompany me to nude beach or resorts or nude cruises. I fully understand why these places only want couples and not single men.Any places in North Carolina(RALEIGH AREA) where I can enjoy nudity?

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StevieLorna
Nov 9, 2015
Single males always seem to be discriminated against when attending clubs.
I think it would be a great idea if there was clubs for only single males, or normal clubs could make special weekends for all the single guys.
That would solve all the problems.
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Member
Nov 9, 2015
Your best bet is a nude beach, although unfortunately, where you're from will make that a difficult day trip. Single males have it tough enough getting into a nudist club. Solo married males can have it even tougher. Many clubs will not admit a married male without a spouse due to the fear of being dragged into a divorce lawsuit (has happened, although I can't give a specific example). They don't need the expense or bad publicity of a messy divorce lawsuit that possibly stemmed from the husband attending a nudist venue.
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sunnmaxx
Nov 10, 2015
There are some clubs that have a singles weekend or event, check their websites and ask. Having the AANR card or a club membership does help. See 9if your wife would give it a try even if she stayed clothed.
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Freecospirit
Nov 11, 2015
This is a common problem. If your wife has no objection to you being nude while she remains clothed on a CO beach that is your best hope. If however she has a fundamental objection to being around nude people even when she does not have to be nude then sadly there is probably little you can do. My wife used to go nude on beaches and but latterly has gone very much against the idea so much so that I have effectively given up; if you try to push the issue too much you could risk your marriage and it is just not worth it.
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StevieLorna
Dec 9, 2015
It's been discussed on other posters of this type, but I'll ask the question again.

To all you married but wife is not a naturist and all single guys.

Would you be happy to visit a naturist resort that was exclusively for men?

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tripllama
Dec 10, 2015
[quote]It's been discussed on other posters of this type, but I'll ask the question again.

To all you married but wife is not a naturist and all single guys.

Would you be happy to visit a naturist resort that was exclusively for men?

[/quote]I'd have no problem with that. Naturism isn't about titilation, it's about the freedom of being without clothes. I'm not there to be a looky-loo (heck, at 38, anywhere I go is bound to be full of much older folks anyways), I just love the feel of the warm sun on my skin. :)
There are few enough places to go near me already, if there was one just for men that was welcoming to single/married without spouse present guys I'd be all over it.
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Jim
Nov 22, 2021
Yes.
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Philip
Nov 22, 2021
I was in that situation with both my ex-wives.
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nudeyooper
Nov 23, 2021
[quote]It's been discussed on other posters of this type, but I'll ask the question again. To all you married but wife is not a naturist and all single guys. Would you be happy to visit a naturist resort that was exclusively for men?[/quote] Yes, but it would have to be within a reasonable distance from home. The five hour drive to the nearest resort is just too far. There would also need to be acivities of interest too. I'm not one to just lay around in the sun and I don't have much interest in sports.
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Tom D
Nov 23, 2021
I would go for a few days occasionally, but not for long stays or too often, since I don't want to be away from my wife too much
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Brad
Dec 27, 2021
[quote]It's been discussed on other posters of this type, but I'll ask the question again. To all you married but wife is not a naturist and all single guys. Would you be happy to visit a naturist resort that was exclusively for men?[/quote] That would be uncomfortable for me. An all male resort could be a place for men to pick up other men. I happen to be straight and I hope there is a place where men can be with men and be happy. I am not one of them. I prefer to be in a mix of males and females.
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Brad
Dec 27, 2021
[quote]It's been discussed on other posters of this type, but I'll ask the question again. To all you married but wife is not a naturist and all single guys. Would you be happy to visit a naturist resort that was exclusively for men?[/quote] That would be uncomfortable for me. An all male resort could be a place for men to pick up other men. I happen to be straight and I hope there is a place where men can be with men and be happy. I am not one of them. I prefer to be in a mix of males and females.
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Gordy57
Dec 28, 2021
[quote]That would be uncomfortable for me. An all male resort could be a place for men to pick up other men. I happen to be straight and I hope there is a place where men can be with men and be happy. I am not one of them. I prefer to be in a mix of males and females.[/quote]

Completely understandable. Before going I'd have to check it out online. If it is a true nudist place I'd go, BUT if it looked like a gay orgy place I'll stay home and start another garden tractor rebuild ;-)
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John
Dec 28, 2021
I agree with that. One of the hallmarks of the resorts that I go to is that public sex and extreme PDAs are off the table, and that while private liaisons are condoned, hitting on other people is taboo.
There's an irony here. I would stay away from an exclusively male event because the implication is that I'll be hit on, and I would need guarantees that I won't see that behavior before I think of setting foot in there. In other words, I'd be in the same position that most women have been in all their lives. It's a curious reversal of roles.
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FullSun
Dec 29, 2021
Well said FullMonte. As I was reading previous replies I started thinking about my own point of view on this and you wrote it out almost exactly.
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Stone Andy
Apr 27, 2022
Lost in this discussion is that there is no public place - private or public - I'm aware of where a single father and his children are both appropriate and welcomed. The sad thing is not that I'm discriminated against as a dad. My sons have grown up to be clothing casual, but the sting of discrimination against them was set as toddlers. They may keep their pants off, but the idea that they could become nudist is likely never. Even if they marry nudists, why would they go where they feel hated? That's why I don't expect the majority of resorts to be around much longer.
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bob
Apr 27, 2022
if people / resorts . clubs landed or not are so shallow minded they have to push people away just because of marital status, and gender as they do to single men and solo marrieds then theyor all nudists should refrain from using the misleading "non judgmental and accepting of others from there mission statements or advertisement since they are anything butt . And should look in the mirror and aske yourselves , what if it was me it being done to or your young adult children!. Accept what is honestly looking back at you! If your capable.
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Stone Andy
Apr 28, 2022
[quote]That's my ideal place, too. That's the sort of naturism I was introduced to when I went to FKK events in Germany back when God was in the third grade. Just... everybody.[/quote] German FKK was also my intro to nudism as an adult. Prior to that, I took saunas and swam naked in the Swedish bathing culture. Textiles were simply something worth disregarding as constraining and uncomfortable. That's an attitude I'd like more of, rather than reading into peoples' motivations based on their demographics. Blue suit? Red suit? No suit? It should all be good. Nudity is a state, not a behavior which needs to be regulated.
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Steve
Apr 28, 2022
My spouse is comfortable with social nudity, but he doesn't travel at all. This spring I'll be staying at a place just east of Nashville (Tennessee, USA) called Whispering Oaks, that advertises itself as a c/o men's retreat - gay / straight / bi / whatever, but men only. I'll make a report - or if other posters know the place, I'd appreciate any advance word. It's good someone has recognized the surfeit of men in the nudist community, and extended a welcome.
Not that there aren't places that just don't care - I've stayed a few times at Native Woods in coastal Georgia, run by a straight couple but explicitly welcoming of male/female/couple/gay/straight/pierced/whatever, with preference for AANR members, but all welcome who are willing to identify themselves sufficiently for a background check. Not sure they're still in business; they're pretty quiet online.
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