Would you send/accept a friend request to someone from work? — Frequently Asked Questions on True Nudists

MemberOriginal Poster

Mar 15, 2020

Just curious, would you add someone from work?

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Daniel
Mar 15, 2020
No, I wouldnt.
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Member
Mar 15, 2020
Yeah I would
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MemberOriginal Poster
Mar 15, 2020
Personally I would - or more specifically, if Id be happy to add them on Facebook Id be happy to add them here (as presumably wed both be comfortable with nudity).
Its a difficult one I guess.
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Ginger Chris
Mar 15, 2020
I generally keep my work life and home life separate, so probably not, unless were friends outside of work
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Alex
Mar 15, 2020
hmm .. good question, i'm not sure. i separate work and private life very much, and i haven't met a coworker here either.
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noodengr2
Mar 15, 2020
Sure. They are reaching out to you. Means they have an account on here too. So you have that in common.
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John
Mar 15, 2020
As with most other things it would depend on the relationship(s) which I already have with them.
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MemberOriginal Poster
Mar 15, 2020
It seems opinions are quite evenly split for/against .
I would definitely be open to a FR from a colleague, but Id now think twice before sending one.
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ShavedNudist27
Mar 15, 2020
It would depend on who the person was.
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Naked_naturist
Mar 15, 2020
I find it interesting people are saying no.. unless you have had trouble in the past with the person where you dont get along.. they will recognise you instantly when using the site from your pictures and you will more then likely live locally to them
Surely everyone adds strangers and people they know very little about (from a few conversations online) but you dont add someone you see frequently at work on a daily basis
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MemberOriginal Poster
Mar 15, 2020
I understand that for some its crossing a professional boundary, and I would respect that.
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Ron
Mar 15, 2020
If we were friends outside of work, then I most likely would.
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Pborochris
Mar 15, 2020
Probably not for people I work with. I work in retail, so far not had any customers say they recognise me from the site.
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Matt
Mar 15, 2020
No. There's needs to be a distinction between your work life and your personal/social life. Its usually never a good idea to intermingle the two.
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Profind
Mar 15, 2020
I did! We didnt discuss recognizing each other until we met for our first naked hike - but independently we knew each other before showing up. (I saw him in the chat room and I really dont remember how he recognized me from the profile. ) So it was totally cool. We were both discreet as it was and came from the place that this is just another dimension to our lives. We really enjoyed the friendship that was created by our many naked escapes into the great outdoors. Unfortunately he has moved.
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weald220374
Mar 15, 2020
Yes I would, I've already spent time with a work colleague naked, both at home and at work, one of my profile pics was taken by a colleague at work.
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S.M.A.
Mar 15, 2020
Probably, but I wouldn't broadcast it to other people.
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Diane
Mar 15, 2020
Shortly after becoming a social nudist and visiting my first nudist resort, I let all of my coworkers know about my new lifestyle. Two months later my best friend at work asked if I'd be willing to take him to Turtle Lake where I often visited. My not knowing for sure how'd he act, I took the chance to show him what I found exciting about being nude in company with other nudists, many of whom I didn't know personally. To my surprise, he not only took to it quickly but also conversed with other nudists on the beach.
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Nude Paul
Mar 15, 2020
Yes. A few years ago I was searching for nudists near me. I sent a friend request not knowing who he was (no face pic in profile). He accepted and turned out it was a coworker. I quickly got a message from him saying, "I had no idea you were a nudist and I can't believe you have a tattoo on your penis." When we saw each other at work, we smiled at each other and later had a private discussion. He was much younger than me (mid twenties) and new to nudism. His wife was against it but allowed him to occasionally stay naked for a while after he would take a shower. We weren't really friends but had worked together on several projects in the past. I told him if he could ever get out of the house he was welcome to come over anytime and just hang naked. One Saturday his wife was out so he came over to watch a football game. He was a little startled when I opened the front door naked. I told him when I was home, I was naked. He sat on the couch (still in shorts and T shirt) and started drinking a beer. We chatted about the game and I said feel free to take off your clothes whenever you feel like it. He said he was a little nervous about me seeing him naked. I said, I've seen your pictures and there's nothing to be afraid of. He finally took off his T shirt, then his shorts and within a couple minutes started getting an erection. He said, I'm so sorry. I'm not gay but it just happened. I told him not to worry. We're guys and that just happens. After a couple beers he relaxed and we had had a chat about nudism. He had lots of questions. lol. I had to pee so I went in the bathroom and left the door open. He said, that's so cool that you do that. Then when he went to pee he said, can I leave the door open? I said yes, please do. By the end of the game, he was really enjoying being naked. As he was leaving he said he really wanted to do it again. I told him to come over anytime. Turns out his wife really didn't like watching sports so he started coming over on Saturdays to watch the games. The second time he came over, he took off his clothes when he got there. He got another erection and this time I told him if you feel like it, go ahead and take care of it. He looked at me and said are you serious? I said yes. We all masturbate. He said, would you do it too? I said ok so we jerked together while watching the game. He said that is so cool. I never masturbated with another guy in the room. We kept up our weekly sports watching for a couple years until he moved to another city. We occasionally jerked off but nothing more. We still email occasionally and his wife has gotten better about his nudity but still won't join him.
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J
Mar 15, 2020
I definitely would. If they connected with me in this group, they would have to have some similiar intrests.
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J
Mar 15, 2020
I definitely would. If they connected with me in this group, they would have to have some similiar intrests.
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Berky
Mar 16, 2020
If I did and we found out who we were we probably wouldn't hang out with each other. LOL
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Member
Mar 16, 2020
I'm a contractor. I had an opportunity to do a concrete job at a nudist resort. The pour was big enough that I needed the help of one more finisher besides myself. The only concrete finishers I know didn't know about my nudist lifestyle. I struggled with the thought of pouring the concrete clothed or nude. If I poured the concrete with him as a textile, he would not have known I was a nudist. I wanted to pour the concrete while nude, so I did. The other guy didn't know I was going to be nude until he showed up to the job site. He was surprised to see that side of me, but he said he didn't care. So with this incidence in mind, if another co-worker wanted to friend me on this site I would accept. It would be nice to have someone local to hike nude with.
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Tom D
Mar 16, 2020
Retired so work wouldn't apply. Would accept a friend request from someone in one of my community organizations. In fact, two of my band colleagues are also nudists and we quietly discuss this occasionally, we have not done any nude activities together.
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