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Posted Jun 22, 2011

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NudeInNewJerseyOriginal Poster

Jun 22, 2011

nakedspark has disappeared. Anyone know why?

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Somerserttom
Jun 22, 2011
He was here yesterday.
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runner4life
Jun 22, 2011
I just saw a post he posted the other day.. Other then that, I have no clue as of now
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Tom === Thomas S. Tierney
Jun 22, 2011
He posted on the 4 word thread Tuesday morning. All of his posts are now gone. He left a hell of a lot of holes in that thread.
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NudeInNewJerseyOriginal Poster
Jun 22, 2011
[quote]I have noticed a few different users have gone recently? Are they all leaving or is it a server glitch?[/quote] Who?
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PeteyB
Jun 22, 2011
With all the mud throwing that's been going on here lately, who can blame them?Who can blame them? Friend.. they are the ones throwing the mud. I don't want to see anyone kicked but it is in the style of that type person to throw a tantrum when they get fronted about their behavior. No worries.. he'll be back when he thinks he can take control over or has decided it's time to act as a grown up. I intentionally stayed out of a few posts because I don't think it's productive to insult people.. nor do I think it productive to lose opinions that are beneficial.. But.. to think they left because of all the bullies here beating them up is ridiculous. This is basically a temper tantrum because a few people got tired of the insults and ill tempers.. My issue with those guys is their intolerance towards those who do not live as they do yet the hatred from them towards people who do not accept their lifestyle that is outside the norm a bit. I don't want to see this site become a pick-up site but for people to mention their proclivites is not a bad thing on a site that asks you to fill out a profile. The issue is these guys would then peruse that profile looking for dirt believing that would somehow make the opinion of that person... illegitmate. That is the stuff that has to stop. I welcome their opinions on matters relevent to the topic.. but when someone says hello that is NOT an invitation to degrade them for being gay or a 'poly-couple'.. which i admit..is a new one.. I hadn't heard of that one but hey.. so goes life.
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renebbare
Jun 22, 2011
NakedSpark has gone as have the threads that were 'inflamous'! A salutary lesson.
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Gerry-4
Jun 22, 2011
The best lesson is this: After writing a post, read it out loud to someone you love. (Imaginary friends qualify for this exercise.) If you see that person wince, come to tears, become red with anger or otherwise negatively affected by what you read, you may need to rethink what you wrote before posting it.
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Desperado
Jun 22, 2011
Tom T: I have a secure copy of the list that is recent. Let me see where we are and I will restore the list as best I can. Never thought about the "holes" being left if someone leaves. Little did I know that my "offsite" backup would come in handy. Thanks for pointing this out.
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Paul Vogler
Jun 22, 2011
[quote]give me a break. some people think because you are a nudist you are supposed to lose all opinions aploogize for everything that mite make someone mad, and lose all of your personality and personal beliefs you had before you were a nudist. i think stating your feelings, arguing etc. can be fun. if you dont like that kitchen heat as they say.... oh by the way i am a nudist and still like womens boobs and like to look at them. another subject i could talk about for hours.[/quote] Careful! Every "True" nudist knows that once you get naked you become an asexual automaton! LOL Some people are far too thin skinned around here, it's true. And I really never noticed Nakedspark being all that inflammatory, not nearly as much as certain nudists from MA! ;-)
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Paul Vogler
Jun 22, 2011
[quote][quote] i am a nudist and still like womens boobs and like to look at them. another subject i could talk about for hours.[/quote] Yes, boobs are great, but as a nudist you must seperate social nudity (even on the internet) from sexual nudity. When I am nude for nudisms sake, I do not look at my wife sexually, but when I am nude for sexy time, I do look at my wife sexually. The point is, there is a difference. I don't surf the profiles on this board to look at sexy girls. I surf to be with like minded people (however few we are)[/quote] My sympathies to the missus.
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westheathen
Jun 22, 2011
In one thread last week he offered to "teach someone some manners", I am not going to reveal who .NS insisted it was not a threat , although the person it was aimed at saw it as such and by the look of it so did the TT's.
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Tom === Thomas S. Tierney
Jun 22, 2011
[quote]In one thread last week he offered to "teach someone some manners", I am not going to reveal who .NS insisted it was not a threat , although the person it was aimed at saw it as such and by the look of it so did the TT's.[/quote] More BS! NS can not defend himself. Torches and Tar anyone?
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Paul Vogler
Jun 22, 2011
[quote]That is kind of a bold thing to say... [/quote] I think it is much bolder to say that when we take our clothes off we are no longer human.
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Tom === Thomas S. Tierney
Jun 22, 2011
[quote]NakedSpark has gone as have the threads that were 'inflamous'! A salutary lesson.[/quote] A salutary lesson? Who is learning a lession?
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Paul Vogler
Jun 22, 2011
[quote]Did I say that? All I said is that you should keep sexuality out of nudism. If you are walking through the mall (clothed) do you look at every woman sexually? I sure don't. It should be the same in a nudist environment. Treat everyone as if they are clothed.[/quote] Not every, but definitely some! And I totally agree that we should treat everyone as if they are clothed. Which means that there will be sexual attraction between some people. You cannot keep sexuality out of nudism. You can keep sexual acts and offensive behavior out, but people are sexual beings.
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Tom === Thomas S. Tierney
Jun 22, 2011
I love (o)(o)gling Boobies
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NudeInNewJerseyOriginal Poster
Jun 23, 2011
Only an A/H would get so upset over a typo.
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Jun 23, 2011
People are different and I don't think a long thread is needed to speculate for reasons why someone deletes a profile. Unless person with deleted profile has given some reasons or been deleted by admin, it is not even relevant. There are zillions of reasons for joining as well as leaving a site as TN and no matter how sad it is to see especially contributing ones leave - such is life.
Nevertheless, if anyone has a clue why someone contributing left, to share that info with others would be polite and kind.
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NudeInNewJerseyOriginal Poster
Jun 23, 2011
[quote][quote]Only an A/H would get so upset over a typo.[/quote] "...so upset..."? You must really be desperate for something to post. Try the first ten pages of the Newark phone book. It certainly will be less bloody boring and meaningless than your last 206 posts.[/quote] So glad you know you are the A/H I was refering to.
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Somerserttom
Jun 23, 2011
[quote][quote]Only an A/H would get so upset over a typo.[/quote] "...so upset..."? You must really be desperate for something to post. Try the first ten pages of the Newark phone book. It certainly will be less bloody boring and meaningless than your last 206 posts.[/quote] PLEASE, let's not start this all over again.......
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Somerserttom
Jun 23, 2011
[quote][quote]People are different and I don't think a long thread is needed to speculate for reasons why someone deletes a profile. Unless person with deleted profile has given some reasons or been deleted by admin, it is not even relevant. There are zillions of reasons for joining as well as leaving a site as TN and no matter how sad it is to see especially contributing ones leave - such is life. Nevertheless, if anyone has a clue why someone contributing left, to share that info with others would be polite and kind.[/quote] OK, it was me who reported Nakedspark to the admin after he had a go at me about my alleged camming activities as well as his name-calling on here. I do not appreciate members on here whom I do not know IRL speculating on my nudist affairs, especially NIMs allegations that I took porn pictures at a nudist beach on Sunday. That is also uncalled for.[/quote] I reported him to TN1 for his threat of violence towards me personally. To be frank with you all lamenting his departure you ought to reflect on this yourself. NOWHERE is it acceptable to make threats of violence to another person as he did and those of you who condone such behaviour really ought to think again. In this country had I reported him to the police he probably would have been visited, at the very least by them and told to mend his ways. I hope that is what TN1 did and that he is only suspended from here for a while and that when he comes back he will behave in a more adult way. You see with rights come responsibilities. We may have a right to say what we like (or at least believe that we do) but we also have a RESPONSIBILITY to respect others and say what we say in a civil and proper way. TN1 has put in place a system to flag unwarrented and unacceptable behaviour. I used it rather than starting a thread. I think if TN1 did find the behaviour unacceptable and has dealt with Nakedspark for it then it would be helpfull that to be indicated by TN1 to stop all the speculation and remind all of us what is and is not acceptable behaviour on this site.
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Somerserttom
Jun 23, 2011
[quote]Sorry didn't mean to double post so have done my best to remove the repeated text.[/quote]
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PeteyB
Jun 23, 2011
[quote]Welcome to another fatality in the Web War Against Thinking And Unniceness. Judging by some here, nudism is a clique of mindless, opinionless robots whose entire vocabulary consist of, "Yes, I agree," and "Please like me!" They will obsess on driving anyone out who fails to turn off his brain when he logs in to TN. I find it immensely satisfying to pee them off to the point of hissy fits. The whiners would last about five minutes on any actual opinion board.[/quote] It seems NIMA.. that you are totally missing the point here.. which is not surprising.. It's not your opinions concerning the topics that people don't like. It is the high school 'mean girls' clique behavior that people are complaining about. Personally what you say does not bother me because i have read your profile and understand why you act the way you do. I can only hope your issue with ego and self esteem are soon dealt with in a way that is more productful than insulting people for their lifestyle when you also admit to a lifestyle that is not of the norm. I think the issue here is not that people want you to leave.. they basically just want you to grow up
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Somerserttom
Jun 23, 2011
[quote]There's the difference between us, annoying little boy — and whether or not your immature, juvenile mind is in a 40YO body is irrelevant. You have no qualms about starting threads specifically targeting others by name, but you go into tantrums when someone doesn't worship at your feet. Tough shit! If you're going to play in the big leagues, child, you'd best be ready to take as well as give. Your outrageous thread re your abuse of a gentleman on a nude beach has told us all that we need to know about you. You're a spoiled brat. Grow up. This isn't NeverNeverLand.[/quote] For Pity Sake NiMA, PLEASE STOP. Read what you have written. You say something about a child's mind in a 40 something body but that could just as easily be said about a child's mind in a 70 something body. The name callingIS CHILDISH.Enough of it already PLEASE....
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