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Posted May 8, 2019

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Good77Original Poster
May 8, 2019

I am currently dating a home nudist girl.
We been dating for a month but i have never meet her in person, just through messages/google/hang-out. She wants me to buy her a Steam card so we can video chat.
Should I??

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  • ME
    Member
    May 8, 2019

    Can't you video chat through Hangouts? Anyone asking for gift cards immediately raises red flags.

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  • ST
    Steve
    Steve
    May 8, 2019

    No. If she's sufficiently internet-savvy and equipped to do virtual dating, she's got lots of free ways to video chat. Have you spoken on the phone? If not, ask to do so. If she says she cannot place the call, ask for a number and time at which you can call her. If reasons emerge why a phone call is not possible, I'd give it 99.5% this is a scam.

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    Earl
    Earl
    May 8, 2019

    I have been dating a girl for 3 months now, we talk on FB messenger every day and have video chat a couple of times there. We are both really satisfied that each other is true to their word so we have no hesitation when we meet in 3 weeks time. If you are asking this question you must have strong concerns about who she really is. So use a free video chat is my advice.

    I hope all works out for you and be very truthful about any concerns.

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  • ME
    Member
    May 8, 2019
    [quote]I am currently dating a home nudist girl. We been dating for a month but i have never meet her in person, just through messages/google/hang-out. She wants me to buy her a Steam card so we can video chat. Should I??[/quote] No! I did similar and was lured in a lurid situation where she wanted me to watch her masturbate with various objects! When i got embarassed she insisted i show my penis and fondle myself! BE CAREFUL , YOU HAVE BEEN WARNRD!
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  • ME
    Member
    May 8, 2019
    [quote]No. If she's sufficiently internet-savvy and equipped to do virtual dating, she's got lots of free ways to video chat. Have you spoken on the phone? If not, ask to do so. If she says she cannot place the call, ask for a number and time at which you can call her. If reasons emerge why a phone call is not possible, I'd give it 99.5% this is a scam.[/quote] You sound like youre the expert! Sicko
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  • JM
    Jonny M
    Jonny M
    May 8, 2019
    [quote]I am currently dating a home nudist girl. We been dating for a month but i have never meet her in person, just through messages/google/hang-out. She wants me to buy her a Steam card so we can video chat. Should I??[/quote] Seriously?? Tell her to download Skype!!
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  • HA
    Half
    Half
    May 8, 2019

    You've never met in person? You're not dating. You're messaging with a stranger.

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  • FU
    FullSun
    FullSun
    May 9, 2019

    Sounds like a con to me. Ive read a number of stories about men getting conned in very similar ways. Hope Im wrong.

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    Steve
    Steve
    May 9, 2019
    [quote]You sound like youre the expert! Sicko[/quote] I have not done online dating, but I've found the request for a phone call to be an effective way to sort out scam from real responses to Craigslist rental ads, which are surprisingly frequent targets of scammers.
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    Good77
    Good77Original Poster
    May 10, 2019

    I appreciate all the help
    Here is her profile name:
    Christy78841

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    Steve
    Steve
    May 10, 2019

    A drag to have an online relationship fall through. The photo in the profile is on at least nine websites, mostly in Eastern Europe, and was doubtless clipped from one of them for posting on True Nudists.

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    Tom === Thomas S. Tierney
    Tom === Thomas S. Tierney
    May 10, 2019

    P. T. Barnum is credited with saying, "There's a sucker born every minute."

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  • ST
    StevieLorna
    StevieLorna
    May 10, 2019

    Why do we entertain these idiots?

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    Steve
    Steve
    May 10, 2019
    [quote]Why do we entertain these idiots?[/quote] Because TrueNudists at its best is a community. We are here to support each other and to learn from each other. The UnWelcoming Committee does a disservice when it criticizes people for posting with genuine concerns.
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  • ME
    Member
    May 11, 2019
    [quote] ... The UnWelcoming Committee does a disservice when it criticizes people for posting with genuine concerns.[/quote] I agree, there is no shame in being human - being a nudist/naturist doesn't cancel one's human frailties
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    Good77
    Good77Original Poster
    May 11, 2019

    Yes it is, But I am not sending her anything, I have flagged and blocked her both on TN and google hangout

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  • ME
    Member
    May 11, 2019
    [quote]You've never met in person? You're not dating. You're messaging with a stranger.[/quote]

    Exactly right! It is impossible to 'date' someone that you have never met in person. Dating is for real life in person. It's the same with real nudism - real nudists meet in person. Best to forget this 'scam' and spend the money that you would have spent on this 'date' in going to a real nudist venue - club or beach and meeting real nudists in person. If you are close to Gunnison Beach, NJ then come join a group of us for potlucks and socialization this Summer. There are plenty of nice women on that beach who would love to meet a decent guy in real life. Just come, strike up a good conversation, and enjoy a nice, warm, sunny day with the rest of us real nudists on that beach. Just checked the profile : Christy78841 It has pure scam written all over it.
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    Good77
    Good77Original Poster
    May 12, 2019

    She/he has threatened me.
    just because i never gave her/he money
    This scammer is getting reported.

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  • ME
    Member
    May 15, 2019
    [quote]She/he has threatened me. just because i never gave her/he money This scammer is getting reported.[/quote] Good luck! No one will do anything about the fakes and scammers on this site hence why real world nudism is the best. What you see is what you get in the real world - no fakes or frauds hiding behind 'puter screens or posting fake photos of other people.
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    Mike
    Mike
    May 15, 2019
    No don't buy or send them anything!!!!!
    It has SCAM written all over it.
    There are a lot of FREE chat and video chat rooms out there to use.
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  • ME
    Member
    May 16, 2019
    [quote]No don't buy or send them anything!!!!! It has SCAM written all over it. There are a lot of FREE chat and video chat rooms out there to use.[/quote] Good advice! I had someone from this site not engage in any chat other then to send me her email and ask that I contact her that way. Another scam! If anyone cannot engage in chat or message on this site first and instead immediately directs to outside links or emails, the probability is almost 100 percent scam. We really need a new topic here that helps to inform and protect the legitimate people here from scams and fakes.
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    Good77
    Good77Original Poster
    May 16, 2019
    [quote]No don't buy or send them anything!!!!! It has SCAM written all over it. There are a lot of FREE chat and video chat rooms out there to use.[/quote] I really appreciate all the help.
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    Irving
    Irving
    May 16, 2019

    Don't brag in your profile that you're Mr. Big Money and that you're generous. Recipe for disaster.

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    Good77
    Good77Original Poster
    May 19, 2019
    [quote]Don't brag in your profile that you're Mr. Big Money and that you're generous. Recipe for disaster.[/quote] I never bragged that I was Mr. Big money in my profile.
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