Frustrated with the hypocrisy in the nudist community

According to the people I have talked to being a nudist or naturalist is about being free, seeing for people for who they are on the inside not how they are portrayed on the outside. Still I feel more and more like people are put into groups ie. female, male, couple and the dreaded toxic single male. In the chat room I try to talk to female members and I get ignored, only sometimes they have the decency to tell me what they actually think.
People this is the internet. You all have the opportunity to hide behind a persona that is not related to your public out side life. If you don't like what someone is doing you have the capability to make them go away. Still you treat those who are not the norm or universally consisted unsafe like grenade with the pin pulled on it.
I feel like this is pushing me back to the textile world; a world where people take a risk, live life and are brave enough to give people a chance to prove who they are before they label them with a brand. Your actions make your community. And if you keep this up, I feel your dying culture will continue to do just that.