Guys at beach nude volleyball

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• SW

  Swifthawk

  Jul 11, 2009

  I would imagine it would depend on how they are touching your bum.  Ass slaps are common in sports, as is incidental touching.  If it bothers you say something to the individual and I would imagine they would stop and if not, then complain to someone in charge.

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• SW

  Swifthawk

  Jul 11, 2009

  [quote]This is an interesting question. Is there anyplace that lists what the proper etiquette is for nudist places? Is touching, or even PDA's frowned upon? What about guys that can't control their roving eyes and stare? I hope that I'm not being too crude here, LaeLae, but if I was playing nude volleyball with you I probably couldn't help but get aroused, and that would be uncomfortable for everyone. Just one more reason for me to stay at home, I guess.[/quote]    The best rule of thumb is to let common sense prevail.  Textile or nudist, ask yourself these questions.  Is it polite to stare at someone?  Is it ok to touch someone in a familar way uninvited?  The answer to these questions is NO, so don't do it in a nudist environment.   Many men worry about betting excited, however I would say the vast majority of them don't when they are in a nudist environment.  Don't make assumptions about how you would react in a social nudist setting, because chances are it won't be as bad as what you are thinking.  Give it a go mate, you probably won't be disappointed.

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• LA

  

  LaeLaeOriginal Poster

  Jul 12, 2009

  I dont see them slap anyone , its jut that two guys on different days slided their hand on my bum. Its like they are sexual but its on the cheeks so I didnt say anything. I don't like being mean etc

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• LA

  

  LaeLaeOriginal Poster

  Jul 12, 2009

  [quote]This is an interesting question. Is there anyplace that lists what the proper etiquette is for nudist places? Is touching, or even PDA's frowned upon? What about guys that can't control their roving eyes and stare? I hope that I'm not being too crude here, LaeLae, but if I was playing nude volleyball with you I probably couldn't help but get aroused, and that would be uncomfortable for everyone. Just one more reason for me to stay at home, I guess.[/quote]  guys look pretty with erections i think lol

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• ME

  Member

  Jul 12, 2009

  [quote][quote]This is an interesting question. Is there anyplace that lists what the proper etiquette is for nudist places? Is touching, or even PDA's frowned upon? What about guys that can't control their roving eyes and stare? I hope that I'm not being too crude here, LaeLae, but if I was playing nude volleyball with you I probably couldn't help but get aroused, and that would be uncomfortable for everyone. Just one more reason for me to stay at home, I guess.[/quote]   guys look pretty with erections i think lol[/quote]   And in private that's fine, in public not acceptable.   Okay, guys, at what point do we decide this thread is a come-on and stop posting to it?   Jen

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• TE

  

  Terry

  Jul 12, 2009

  [quote][quote][quote]This is an interesting question. Is there anyplace that lists what the proper etiquette is for nudist places? Is touching, or even PDA's frowned upon? What about guys that can't control their roving eyes and stare? I hope that I'm not being too crude here, LaeLae, but if I was playing nude volleyball with you I probably couldn't help but get aroused, and that would be uncomfortable for everyone. Just one more reason for me to stay at home, I guess.[/quote]    guys look pretty with erections i think lol[/quote]   And in private that's fine, in public not acceptable.   Okay, guys, at what point do we decide this thread is a come-on and stop posting to it?   Jen[/quote]   Well, first of all her profile says she's 18. At that age hormones are raging and if guys are around the same age range then they're aching for some human touch of the opposite sex...if that's their attraction. They just don't know the boundries. Or are pushing the boundries a bit much. She needs to set the guys straight as to what's acceptable. Many women enjoy seeing erections, but this is probably not the place to be broadcasting it since this is a non-sexual nudist site. Give her the benefit of the doubt and say she's new to the game. Just save it for the private messages.

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• TH

  

  Thomas

  Jul 12, 2009

  [quote]I dont see them slap anyone , its jut that two guys on different days slided their hand on my bum. Its like they are sexual but its on the cheeks so I didnt say anything. I don't like being mean etc[/quote]  That behavior is inappropriate.  If there is a mutual attraction it needs to be taken to a more private setting.

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• LA

  

  LaeLaeOriginal Poster

  Jul 13, 2009

  sorry, anyway i won't go to the volleyball now my bf said its the men are not good. Sorry for being rude about the erections, thanks for advice

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• SW

  Swifthawk

  Jul 13, 2009

  [quote]sorry, anyway i won't go to the volleyball now my bf said its the men are not good. Sorry for being rude about the erections, thanks for advice[/quote]    I wouldn't worry too much about the erection comment.  However, I wouldn't stop going to Volleyball because of a couple of guys getting all touchy feely.  When/if it happens again, just tell them not to do it anymore.  Most men will stop when asked amazingly enough. lol

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• LA

  

  LaeLaeOriginal Poster

  Jul 15, 2009

  [quote][quote]sorry, anyway i won't go to the volleyball now my bf said its the men are not good. Sorry for being rude about the erections, thanks for advice[/quote]       I wouldn't worry too much about the erection comment.  However, I wouldn't stop going to Volleyball because of a couple of guys getting all touchy feely.  When/if it happens again, just tell them not to do it anymore.  Most men will stop when asked amazingly enough. lol[/quote] I feel rude talking tough;it feels like i'm being rude so thats a bit hard to do; Anyways i can play it with girls OR in bikinis =)

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• CO

  

  Curt, or Cowboy

  Jul 16, 2009

  Playing grab-ass in public is inconsiderate at BEST, and rude at worst if unwelcome, clothed or not. Since the guy is being rude, then you are WELL within bounds to be rude back, or worse. It's YOUR backside, not his ! If you choose to share it, do so in private.
  If it's to keep you from falling, or some other genuine assistance, OK, but that would be rare and obvious. If it's merely to let you know he's there to avoid a collision, then a shoulder would be a much better choice, and you SHOULD tell him that. ( IMHO )
  From my point of view, when it happens, the very first time, slap his hand away, HARD. If you are actually interested in him, then at the same time just tell him cordially, "not in public." He'll know what the slap means, and if you do say "not in public" he'll get that message, too. ( unless he's a complete moron, in which case you'll know that about him ) Additionally, the other guys will know what that slap means too. Don't hide it, or tone it down.

  You're young, so you're still learning the boundries. Learn well that they will be where YOU set them !

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