As it puts me off being a nudist as I get stared at beach as if I am just showing off my manhood...rather then enjoying naturism.
Does anyone else have this problem?
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gator1Jun 20, 2010braggart!
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LifeHappensJun 20, 2010[quote]As it puts me off being a nudist as I get stared at beach as if I am just showing off my manhood...rather then enjoying naturism. Does anyone else have this problem?[/quote] Um...what? You must be going to the wrong places. If you are focused on the fact that people are looking at your penis (did you really say manhood instead of penis?) then regardless of what the people are looking at, all you will perceive is them looking at your genitalia. Stop thinking about it. Move on. You are the one focused on your genitalia, not the other people. It is more than likely they are looking at you because you are a single guy or new, both of which cause people to wonder. Anyone that answers your question, "Does anyone else have this problem?" is probably too focused on their genitalia as well.ReactReply - TE
TerryJun 20, 2010Boy, can I relate! Its always slapping against my upper thigh, rubbing, I start to get a rash and constantly have to lotion and powered to stop the irritation. And that's besides always falling out of my underwear when I wear some. Even when I wear the cargo shorts I have to be careful not to embarrass myself by hanging too low so that I peek out from the bottom of the leg.
Terry
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essexnudist24Original PosterJun 20, 2010thanks guys
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Cheri Donna DawsonJun 20, 2010Nope, I don't have that problem since I'm a female. If you're so self-conscious that you're "sure" you're being watched, you are probably not comfortable in your skin or visiting the wrong places. Nudists don't generally compare body parts.
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NIM - I love your listingReactReply - RO
RoosterockJun 20, 2010It is only human nature to look at other people. If someone is above normal in a certain area they will get more looks than the average person. Anyone who says different is in denial. If you are taller, stockier, shorter, missing an arm, leg etc. larger breast or penis. There is a difference between looking at it and gawking. If you can't look at anything but that item then you have a problem. This goes for texile or nudist.
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ocmickJun 20, 2010what's endowered?ReactReply - IN
intuneJun 20, 2010get used 2 it its there 4 a reason
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JackNeilsonJun 20, 2010[quote]NIM's Definition of Penis Size: • If Clydesdale mares back away in terror, it's too big. • If you find it by pinching hairs till one hurts, it's too small. • Everything else is within the normal range. Enjoy the experience of being nude and forget about sizes. No one else cares.[/quote] Oh NIM, Where do you get these from? My sides ache from laughing. Did you keep the guillotine for a souvenir or is it on display in a museum with a proper attributive plaque?ReactReply - GA
gabareJun 20, 2010contrary to what some say even nudist are like everyone else and look and talk, clicks at nudist resorts are popular and they do gossip so someone well endowed just like big breast or nipples or jewelry will get someone talking, being small and far from being well endowed i probably get giggles but i'm there to enjoy the sun, pool and some company so just chill and relax and have a good time.
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Gerry-4Jun 21, 2010All people who still have the ability to see will look, or sneak a peek, for a time. Eventually, something else will get their attention.
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AJun 21, 2010Having almost 3 decade's experience of nude resorts and somewhat longer about certain gender-mixed nude pastime, I have noticed that people at times pay attention to few physical details more than to others. Some of the attention being rather that of disgust than awe, but nevertheless.
1. Bad and clearly visible breast implants are frowned upon by almost everyone when seen first time, seen more people seem not to care any more
2. "Missing parts" like a breast removed by an operation, arm that is not there or an artificial limb tend to draw some attention in the beginning as well
3. Extensive decoration, like huge or somehow overli visible tattoos and very large/multiple piercings are an eye-catcher
4. Well visible scars, moles and birthmarks
5. Exceptional body parts for the rest of the person like small skinny girl with huge breasts or a guy with balls size of a volleyball, huge ears, nose and so on
6. Extremely pale or tanned individuals
7. Extremely large or tiny adults (kids are tiny by default)
So in general more someone deviates from average, more probable it is that she/he will have somewhat more attention than average nudie. This also goes for genitals, so overly bushy women, or ones with very outstretching labia or men with something clearly visibly unusual of their hanging tool do get at first encounters more looks than average person, but so do anyone anywhere with clearly visible major deviations from average. It does not necessary mean admiration or disgust, just that people want to take a good look to make sure if that they see really is that way or has their first glance been somehow deceptive. All that usually subsides when person becomes a "usual" sight. Also what comes to well-endowed guys, not noticed any special amount of attention to anyone due to their size so far, though some seem to have tendency to bring out their endowment more than others...ReactReply - PV
Paul VoglerJun 21, 2010Well I guess the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence! Average human penis erection is 5.5 inches long. So while I happen to be above average, it's negated by the fact that I have a pubic fat roll that totally hides it! Just relax and count yourself lucky, Dude!
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Oh really, get over it. Enjoy being naked and not what you think evryone is looking it. Thet might initially then they just go back to whatever they are doing. Or is it that you want peopke to look at you?
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LifeHappensJun 22, 2010[quote]Oh really, get over it. Enjoy being naked and not what you think evryone is looking it. Thet might initially then they just go back to whatever they are doing. Or is it that you want peopke to look at you? Victor[/quote] THANK YOU!ReactReply - NA
Naturally_MarcusJun 22, 2010I like my body and I really don't mind people seeing it. I do like complements on my body so I try to eat right and exercise regularly. being well endowed or not is just luck of the draw. It's my opinion that commenting on the size of another's genitalia should be done tactfully as not to cause someone embarrassment or uncomphortableness. ( is that a word? ) I know when it comes to size all things are not equal.. and if we were all the same size it would be a less diverse world. I say Celebrate your body, be comfortable in knowing its uniquely yours. Take pride in your body and it's parts, what ever the size.
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RoosterockJun 26, 2010For all the people that have parts that are larger than normal or smaller than normal. Don't be ashame of what you have. Girls with large breast sometimes hunch their shoulders or wear bagging clothing to offset it. Just remember that if that is the way you were born and it has not been enhansed in anyway then be proud of it. God made you that way and those that want to laugh or make fun of you are the ones who have a problem. So if you have 10 inches and everyone else is 6 inches don't be afraid to be a True Nudist if that is what you want to be.
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gabareJul 2, 2010who is everyone else at 6 inch let alone 10 inch, at a little over 3 inches erect i'm far from endowed let alone well endow but size isn't everything and when we all get busted for being nude at the beach mine will be easier to conceal
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LifeHappensJul 3, 2010[quote][quote][quote]who is everyone else at 6 inch let alone 10 inch, at a little over 3 inches erect i'm far from endowed let alone well endow but size isn't everything and when we all get busted for being nude at the beach mine will be easier to conceal
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We're alot less likely to get an "indecent" exposure charge, too! ;)[/quote]
And a lot less likely to get it "in decently."[/quote]
Dude...highly inappropriate.ReactReply - LI
LifeHappensJul 3, 2010[quote][quote][quote][quote][quote]who is everyone else at 6 inch let alone 10 inch, at a little over 3 inches erect i'm far from endowed let alone well endow but size isn't everything and when we all get busted for being nude at the beach mine will be easier to conceal
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We're alot less likely to get an "indecent" exposure charge, too! ;)[/quote]
And a lot less likely to get it "in decently."[/quote]
Dude...highly inappropriate.[/quote]
Dude??? A 31 year old man still using the salutation "Dude"?????
This whole thread is "inappropriate", but grown ups do laugh at themselves.
QUOTE Rich,
"I will call you out if you post anything inappropriate in the form of words, photos, or anything else."
Really?
Another SIPA!
God Save Us From SIPA's (Original Thought)[/quote]
Sigh...
Nick -- since it would be silly to call a grown 54 year old man Nicky -- all I have to say to you is, "Moo." That is the only comment you merit.ReactReply - JA
JackNeilsonJul 3, 2010[quote]Are we really having this conversation or am I sleeping and having a nightmare???[/quote] I think I'm having the same nightmareReactReply - CA
caster1Jul 6, 2010Being only 2-3 inches myself... from the ground.... I can relate. Just kidding, it actually 2" from my knees....
In all honesty I can see anyone being looked at/admired based on body type, be it a well endowed male or well stacked female. Take it as a compliment and forget about it. I get comments a lot on being so fit at age 50, I thank them.
But, if it bothers you now you know how large breasted women feel about being stared at.ReactReply - SESerraniorJul 8, 2010
Try being 5 ft tall and having 38h chest.. have people look is will be the least of your problems... lol
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