Moderators are desroying the chat room

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• JO

  

  Jonathan

  Jan 14, 2015

  Well, I have never noticed anything like this happening, and i'm on there pretty often.I do see them boot people for not following the chat room rules, but that is all. :/
  Maybe you should read the rules and see if you did/said something against them. :)
  

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• RO

  

  Rob

  Jan 14, 2015

  I agree but fortunately it is only a few "moderators" who think they dictate what opinions can be voiced in chat...and we all know who they are.
  

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• MA

  

  ManOfWicklow

  Jan 14, 2015

  Chatroom moaners are destroying the Forum.

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• EV

  

  Evan-here

  Jan 14, 2015

  Mods are very intolerant of People such as Dr Paul who come in the chat room and do things such as sending pm's to women on cam and asking them to stand so he can see there breasts and that it's ok because he is a plastic surgeon.
  We have received several complaints  about Dr Paul.
  
  Yes, the most active mods do upset some people, like those who come in and with the main goal of upsetting people, or like to have the infamous " penis" cam on,  that's where they place the cam on the floor or in a position that if someone clicks on their cam their Penis is the Main focus of the cam,   Or they are playing with it.
  
  By the way, as to whether some of the ladies were just making it up, three points,  first, I doubt if several women over a period of time got together to make the same complaint about the same person, second, one of those women he said that too happens to be my wife and I saw the pm myself, third, when confronted about saying that in the room he did not deny it, he only tried to pass it off as a joke and we did not understand British humor.   Problem with that is the other British people in the room didn't think it was funny either.
  
  As to being Bigots, that's one of the favorite things they like to call the mods,  that's very funny  since we have gay men, gay women, straight guys, couple that state they are bi and some that say straight, and even some that will say they are swingers, who use the room, who chat in the room, who are well liked by the users or the room as well as the mods.  That one just doesn't float.
  
  All are welcome in the chat room, however, they should use common sense and at least attempt to have manners, and use the chat room for the reasons it was intended.
  
  

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• ST

  

  StevieLorna

  Jan 14, 2015

  Stop whinging and follow the chat room rules, if you are so desperate to express your oppinion do it in a PM not on the open room.

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• GA

  

  gator1

  Jan 15, 2015

  [quote]Mods are very intolerant of People such as Dr Paul who come in the chat room and do things such as sending pm's to women on cam and asking them to stand so he can see there breasts and that it's ok because he is a plastic surgeon.
  We have received several complaints  about Dr Paul.
  
  Yes, the most active mods do upset some people, like those who come in and with the main goal of upsetting people, or like to have the infamous " penis" cam on,  that's where they place the cam on the floor or in a position that if someone clicks on their cam their Penis is the Main focus of the cam,   Or they are playing with it.
  
  By the way, as to whether some of the ladies were just making it up, three points,  first, I doubt if several women over a period of time got together to make the same complaint about the same person, second, one of those women he said that too happens to be my wife and I saw the pm myself, third, when confronted about saying that in the room he did not deny it, he only tried to pass it off as a joke and we did not understand British humor.   Problem with that is the other British people in the room didn't think it was funny either.
  
  As to being Bigots, that's one of the favorite things they like to call the mods,  that's very funny  since we have gay men, gay women, straight guys, couple that state they are bi and some that say straight, and even some that will say they are swingers, who use the room, who chat in the room, who are well liked by the users or the room as well as the mods.  That one just doesn't float.
  
  All are welcome in the chat room, however, they should use common sense and at least attempt to have manners, and use the chat room for the reasons it was intended.
  
  [/quote]Wow!  This pretty damning for Dr. Paul.  Thanks for shedding light, Evan!
  
  

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• ME

  Member

  Jan 15, 2015

  Here Here...........buddy ............... well said.
  

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• BI

  

  Bicyclenude

  Jan 15, 2015

  I do have one hopefully constructive suggestion.  The owners should rewrite the rules, indicating the roles and responsibilities of the moderators.  The rules were written at a time when there were two rooms (no longer the case) and no moderators.  Perhaps a more extensive list of dos and don'ts would be helpful.  Plus, the rules should come up on the entrance to the chat room, so that everyone must at least pass by them on the way into the room.  Other sites have a two-step entry into chat, requiring that people agree to the rules before entering.  Just saying.
  

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• EV

  

  Evan-here

  Jan 15, 2015

  Here is the only thing anyone needs to know about the chat room to keep them from being warned, muted, or removed.   Act like you would in a public setting,  act like you would at a nice nudist resort.
  If someone went on a nude cruise do would they shout out loud every few minute  " BI DAD", and nothing else?   How about " GAY, Would like some Private Time" ?  OH here is a good one , " Any Ladies want to Private Me".
  Some how I don't think that if they saw a woman, or a man, go in to their cabin that they would run over and keep beating on the door , making comments, and refusing to stop.
  How long would someone last doing those things at a nudist resort, or even a party with a non landed group?
  
  Do you think at the mall, or when out to dinner they ask women to stand up so they can get a better look?
  Here is another good one, how many do you think put a bag over there head so no one can see their face, then go for a walk with an  erection, or "itching" their penis?   NO?  NO one would do that........well we don't expect them to do those things in the chat room either.   Concerning the erections issue, my favorite is when they say they can't help it, they are always erect.......Please some one tell me what kind of job, besides working in porn, they anyone could keep if that was the case.
  
  Basically come in and act like a guest at a resort, or party somewhere.   Don't pester all the ladies, don't let the jokes get too off color,   don't try to see if you can get people upset with the topic you chose to go on and on about, and then try to play innocent about it.
  Just have some manners and TRY to be polite.   If a mod,  or a few people in the room ask you not to do something, listen to them.  They are trying to help you and to make  sure EVERYONE has an enjoyable time.
  
  
  
  GENTLEMEN,  SORRY FOR THE RANT IN THE FORUM,
  

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• RE

  

  renebbare

  Jan 16, 2015

  [quote]Mods are very intolerant of People such as Dr Paul who come in the chat room and do things such as sending pm's to women on cam and asking them to stand so he can see there breasts and that it's ok because he is a plastic surgeon.
  We have received several complaints  about Dr Paul.
  
  [/quote]Trust me I am a Dr? !!!! PMSL.

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• ME

  Member

  Jan 16, 2015

  Evan...I agree with you totally....keep up the good work.
  

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• OL

  

  Ollie46

  Jan 16, 2015

  I had never problems with the mods in the chatroom. Maybe it comes that I do normal on the chat. And yes sometimes I ask for a private chat without further chat in the main room. But when I askfor it, I always gives reason why I'm asking it. Most times is it that English isnt my homelanguage and the mainchat is going to fast for me to read all the lines. So I cant do chatting in the mainchat and in a private chat I have time to read.
  Never had a complain over my behaviour in main of private chat.So when you act normal, nobody will has problem.
  So mods are very welcome in chat.
  
  

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• ME

  Member

  Jan 17, 2015

  [quote]Here is the only thing anyone needs to know about the chat room to keep them from being warned,...  sure EVERYONE has an enjoyable time.
  
  
  
  GENTLEMEN,  SORRY FOR THE RANT IN THE FORUM,
  [/quote]Evan (and ftr...his better half) are consistently among the finest people I have seen on this site over the years. We should be grateful that he serves as a moderator. I don't go into the chat room--I have popped in once or twice, but it just ain't me.
  I think I have been here since about 2011? ..and have read, authored, and/or contributed to thousands of threads....and if there are any undeniable truths on this site, they are:
  1) If you see a post that whines about a moderator in the chat room...stick around and you will soon see laughable and irrefutable evidence that the Emperor (the OP) has no clothes....he only has a tiny little emperor of his own that is soon revealed to be...well as flacid as his character.
  2) The mods do a job for free that is seemingly thankless until one of these stupid fucking perverts posts a complaint, and they get the satisfaction of revealing the pervs for what they really are. (pardon my French, but it just fits)
  3) The whiney complaints seem to be self cleansing--I think many of the pervs become humiliated(if they are capable of humility) or just so wounded knowing their game is up, that they move along and we don't hear from them again.
  I love these kinds of threads.
  Kudos, Evan..to you and to all of your partners in crime. Thank you for your efforts, and for God's sake, PLEASE,,,PLEASE,,,PLEASE..keep responding to these sorts of threads--if only for the comic relief.
  

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• DS

  

  David Sipe

  Jan 20, 2015

  Really and all this time, I thought that it was the over aged juvenile delinquents, that spoiled chat rooms.   Who knew?   ;)
  
  
  

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• JE

  

  John English

  Jan 20, 2015

  I have no problem with the moderators in chat room I find it a great place to meet other nudists from all over I am mostly a home nudist But with work and other  things I don't get to clubs as much as I would like to there are other sites for people to hook up so it's good to keep chat room about nudists and friends  keep up the good work

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• KY

  

  kynudedude03

  Feb 8, 2015

  [quote]Chatroom moaners are destroying the Forum.[/quote]Ever think so many would not be moaning if something was not amiss?
  

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• JU

  Justnudenothingmore

  Feb 8, 2015

  [quote][quote]Chatroom moaners are destroying the Forum.[/quote]Ever think so many would not be moaning if something was not amiss?
  [/quote]Frankly I spend a lot of time in chat and I find the biggest complainers in the forums believe that the chat should be a free for all to meet THEIR needs.  That they can do and say whatever they want outside the rules.  It really gets boring reading the whining here.
  

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• DS

  

  David Sipe

  Feb 9, 2015

  [quote]If you. Find it boring don't read the thresd. But complaints do suggest something is wrong. [/quote]What's wrong is some did not read this part of terms of use , That states.
  
  (We reserve the right, in its sole discretion, to reject, refuse to post or remove any content, posting (including, without limitation, private messages, emails and instant messages (collectively, “messages”)) by you, or to deny, restrict, suspend, or terminate your access to all or any part of the "the site" at any time, for any or no reason, with or without prior notice or explanation, and without liability.)
  

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• T=

  

  Tom === Thomas S. Tierney

  Feb 9, 2015

  [quote][quote]Chatroom moaners are destroying the Forum.[/quote]Ever think so many would not be moaning if something was not amiss?
  [/quote]Ever think the vast majority are not moaning that something is amiss?
  

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• JE

  

  Jean

  Feb 15, 2015

  that's democracy

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• HA

  

  hastycheetah

  Apr 12, 2016

  [quote]I agree with you. I don't do normally  travel the chatroom path.  I just love networking[/quote]I was in chat today my cam location is above and right hand side of FACE. Some mod kicked me as wanted a front face view. I cant mount my cam anywhere else. he said read the rules which I did, it says face on view which it was but right side profile. Get a life man from Australia for gods sake sort yourself out. Been a member donkeys and don't show nothing but my face!!!!
  

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