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Nudism and missing out,

Posted Apr 30, 2018

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Bob
BobOriginal Poster
Apr 30, 2018

Recently I have been spending a lot more time nude then in previous years. My wife isn't into it as much as I am, but does partake sometimes in our back yard and pool. Over the winter, she asked why I was putting more time towards being nude. I told her that even though I haven't always put time towards it, it has always been on my mind and that I have slept nude since I moved out on my own. Since then, she seems to be fine with me being naked whenever. This spring I have come home from work and enjoyed being nude for a couple of hours almost every day. Luckily my wife is OK with going with me to the nude beach, even as she stays in a swim suit. As of late I have been thinking that my nudity, although enjoyed fully, is taking away from a lot of things I used to do. Things of course that require you to be clothed. I think as much as I like being nude, I will need to find a balance.

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    Tom === Thomas S. Tierney
    Tom === Thomas S. Tierney
    May 1, 2018

    Well now, a logical thinker for a change. None of this "I gotta be naked all the time" BS. I'm sure there are many of us that are nude when appropriate and dressed when appropriate. Thank you for posting your thoughts.

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  • ME
    Member
    May 1, 2018

    That's interesting. Any examples?

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  • TD
    Tom D
    Tom D
    May 1, 2018

    For me it is the several community bands I play in, the other community organizations I serve, travel, socializing with textile friends and relatives, and attending concerts and plays.'
    I certainly enjoy being nude when the opportunity is there, but I am not going to let my interest in being nude keep me from other things I want to do.

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  • ST
    Steve
    Steve
    May 1, 2018

    Massage school.
    Involvement with our temple.
    Visiting neighbors.

    All these people know we are nudist, but these just aren't naked venues.

    Farm work when the mosquitoes are bad.
    Taking walks.
    Going to the neighborhood beaches.

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  • JO
    John
    John
    May 1, 2018

    You have to or should meet your partner half way . She or he should be the most important thing above all else.

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  • MI
    Mike
    Mike
    May 1, 2018

    Steveinkona
    Just so disappointed we did did not catch up with u when in Kona

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  • MI
    Mike
    Mike
    May 1, 2018

    Steveinkona
    Just so disappointed we did did not catch up with u when in Kona

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  • DA
    David
    David
    May 1, 2018
    [quote] I will need to find a balance.[/quote] The secret to life truly is balance.
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  • OL
    Olly
    Olly
    May 1, 2018

    I don't miss out. Like so many others I have a lot of activities that need me to be clothed even though everyone around me knows I'm a nudist. Going to the pub, am dram, community stuff and volunteering are examples. All of my frequent holidays are in the nude and I'm naked when home alone or in my back garden. As you say: it's a case of keeping a balance.

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    Paul
    Paul
    May 2, 2018

    At times I am doing things away from home on Saturdays which I do most weeks when I could be nude at home but I get a pleasure from helping doing the restoration of the old railway coach so it is worthwhile been clothed to do this.

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  • BO
    Bob
    BobOriginal Poster
    May 2, 2018

    Things that I have been forgoing to be nude this spring have included spring training games, regular season minor league games as well our minor league hockey that is in the play offs. The thing that really got me thinking about balance was a day trip that my wife and I took to a small seaside town recently. We had a great time site seeing, going thru the shops and having drinks at the different beach side restaurants. About half way thru the day, my wife asked why we haven't done this in so long. This brought on the thought of balance.

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    Tom D
    Tom D
    May 3, 2018
    [quote]For me it is the several community bands I play in, the other community organizations I serve, travel, socializing with textile friends and relatives, and attending concerts and plays.' I certainly enjoy being nude when the opportunity is there, but I am not going to let my interest in being nude keep me from other things I want to do.[/quote] Probably should add that another level for me is places where I have to wear a shirt. I do sometimes put off errands, etc, because I don't feel like putting a shirt on, even if I am already wearing shorts. One of the most frustrating things for me is the occasional day when the only time I wore a shirt was at the gym. Wish I could find one that let men work our shirtless!
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    Tom D
    Tom D
    May 5, 2018

    Played in a concert last evening.
    Several of the musicians were going out afterward and invited me to join them.
    Decided to go even though a part of me just wanted to get home so I could take my clothes off.

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