Seriously butts and penis groups why?

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• JA

  

  Jason

  Jun 5, 2020

  I might have to do the same. It's ridiculous anymore

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• MC

  

  Mcdcvs

  Jun 5, 2020

  Anyone can create a group on any subject that they want. Although I don't agree with the subject matter in a lot of them, I don't have to join them. Those that choose to create and join them must be fulfilling some need. Looking at potential friends groups is one way I use to determine if we have anything in common or if they are just a friend/group collector.

  There is enough space here for all of us to exist, having said that, I do believe that overt sexual groups or members should be removed.

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• EA

  

  EarlDOriginal Poster

  Jun 5, 2020

  [quote]Anyone can create a group on any subject that they want. Although I don't agree with the subject matter in a lot of them, I don't have to join them. Those that choose to create and join them must be fulfilling some need. Looking at potential friends groups is one way I use to determine if we have anything in common or if they are just a friend/group collector. There is enough space here for all of us to exist, having said that, I do believe that overt sexual groups or members should be removed.[/quote] I didnt say anything about there right or ability to exist. My point is simple if those are the kinds of group you like to join I dont care to have you as a friend on here. Since I am I TRUE nudist not one of the fakers here or one of the nudism is what i say it is folks I am not interested associating with that. I will defend anyone's right to do that what they want since I will do what I want with my naturist belief. its that simple.

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  EarlDOriginal Poster

  Jun 5, 2020

  [quote]Report them, with the link, in a message to TeamTrue2[/quote] Speaking to anyone who is currently in my friend list not the creators of these groups I dont think that will make any difference.

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• SA

  

  Stone Andy

  Jun 5, 2020

  [quote]Since I am I TRUE nudist not one of the fakers here or one of the nudism is what i say it is folks I am not interested associating with that. I will defend anyone's right to do that what they want since I will do what I want with my naturist belief. its that simple.[/quote] You are courageous to defend anyone's right to exist and to do what they want. I'm not sure what qualifies as a true vs. a fake nudist. How you don't associate with the fakers is up to you. I choose to ignore them and am grateful for a community here that speaks with authenticity and integrity. That's true nudism to me.

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• ME

  Member

  Jun 5, 2020

  WOW - telling people what groups are appropriate in YOUR eyes or reap the repercussions of being blocked because you do not approve is rather oppressive in my eyes. TN has thousands of groups you can choose to join or not, but in order to be your friend, I have to get your approval? Well, I just unsubscribed to your group and BLOCKED you. I want no association with YOUR authoritarianism!

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  Stone Andy

  Jun 6, 2020

  As you've wandered off from butts and penises into your study of woman's sexuality, I'll respond accordingly. If your parents indeed named you Lee, I think it's because it's the only thing that sounded like it would rhyme with "free", for that describes you well. Of all your postings over the past years, the biggest thing I've questioned regarding your integrity is that you're a cat person, but even there you've helped my thinking evolve. Maybe cats aren't all evil, even if "dog" is "God" spelled backwards.
  I read this Amazon excerpt about your book: "every woman has her own unique sexuality, like a fingerprint, and that women vary more than men in our anatomy, our sexual response mechanisms, and the way our bodies respond to the sexual world." That's exactly along my thinking about male sexuality,: that we each have a unique profile and shouldn't settle for six inches with varying blood flow when we can become aroused and vital in all six feet, give or take a few inches.
  And so, such questions about photogenic butts and penises end up serving a purpose afterall. The thread can lead to affirming our unique integrity and beauty, photogenic or not. For your openness and broad perspective, I am your grateful student.

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• ME

  Member

  Jun 6, 2020

  [quote]As you've wandered off from butts and penises into your study of woman's sexuality, I'll respond accordingly. If your parents indeed named you Lee, I think it's because it's the only thing that sounded like it would rhyme with "free", for that describes you well. Of all your postings over the past years, the biggest thing I've questioned regarding your integrity is that you're a cat person, but even there you've helped my thinking evolve. Maybe cats aren't all evil, even if "dog" is "God" spelled backwards. I read this Amazon excerpt about your book: "every woman has her own unique sexuality, like a fingerprint, and that women vary more than men in our anatomy, our sexual response mechanisms, and the way our bodies respond to the sexual world." That's exactly along my thinking about male sexuality,: that we each have a unique profile and shouldn't settle for six inches with varying blood flow when we can become aroused and vital in all six feet, give or take a few inches. And so, such questions about photogenic butts and penises end up serving a purpose afterall. The thread can lead to affirming our unique integrity and beauty, photogenic or not. For your openness and broad perspective, I am your grateful student.[/quote] SPOT ON!!

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• JO

  

  Jonathan

  Jun 6, 2020

  Whilst it has nothing per se to do with nudism (some would say lots of what people discuss here doesn't), I do kinda understand where people are coming from in assuming that on a forum where people are likely to be much more open about their bodies than elsewhere, it might be a safe place to ask a question about parts of the body which are normally taboo. That is not to be confused with asking sexual questions, of course, but questions along the lines of "I'm not sure if this is normal/has anyone experienced this" etc or questions of etiquette around things like piercings, as devisive as they may be are in my opinion understandable.
  As much as the questions, how the answers are given is important. Encouraging overtly sexual questions would likely be seen as poor form. But sometimes it is important to remember that for someone new to the concept of nudism, whilst everyone should have a modicum of respect and sense about how they conduct themselves on- and offline it can be easy to blunder into saying the wrong thing, or in the wrong way. Someone who has posted and maybe just not realised it could come across differntly to how it was meant will usually be apologetic and appreciate the digression being explained. Someone who is trying to stirr things and get a response will continue to do so.

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• HA

  

  Half

  Jun 6, 2020

  These groups are no less appropriate in real nudism than all the games in the forum pages. Neither have anything to do with nudism. But, since its not my website, its not my rules. I simply don't read what I don't want to see.

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• EA

  

  EarlDOriginal Poster

  Jun 6, 2020

  [quote]I usually check the groups of people who want to 'friend' me, and if any of those sort of groups, genitally focussed or 'old dudes looking for young women' or likewise stuff turns up, I'm pushing the 'reject button immediately. If it doesnt suits healthy nudism or an healthy attitude, I'm out. No matter how 'certified' they may be. -Nina[/quote] Thanks for sharing a thoughtful perspective.

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  EarlDOriginal Poster

  Jun 6, 2020

  [quote]What a dramatic person. In dont think anyone is begging you not be blocked. I am in the Long penis supportive group, however I have to admit that some discussions in that group are stupid. Most of the time, I prefer not to follow those threads or sometimes I give my opinion against people using the group to Bragg or say irrelevant things. Anyway I agree that its ok to have different groups as long we dont lose focus as nudists.[/quote] If you dont follow those threads for bother comment and call me dramatic. Is it dramatic to say not interested in being friends with anyone who objectify the naked human body if so yes I am dramatic and happily so and since you arent waiting be blocked that is good it s done

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  EarlDOriginal Poster

  Jun 6, 2020

  [quote]WOW - telling people what groups are appropriate in YOUR eyes or reap the repercussions of being blocked because you do not approve is rather oppressive in my eyes. TN has thousands of groups you can choose to join or not, but in order to be your friend, I have to get your approval? Well, I just unsubscribed to your group and BLOCKED you. I want no association with YOUR authoritarianism![/quote] Good shouldnt have been in the first place then

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  EarlDOriginal Poster

  Jun 6, 2020

  Absolutely sick of the folks who feel like they have the right to do anything they want but when I do what I want it is a problem. I am not here to collect friends to feed my online existence I am here only to connect with people who genuinely want to pursue naturism yes as I see it. Do you become friends with people who do things that fly in the face of you values good for you. But I know those of you griping dont do that. If some who you feel that blocking me hurts or harms in any way that is a total fail because the totality of my naturist does not exist in this site but in real life. So leave my groups if you care no worries block me if want to thats how this works it will save me time and lots of negative eager when I dont have to interact with you.

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  EarlDOriginal Poster

  Jun 6, 2020

  [quote]These groups are no less appropriate in real nudism than all the games in the forum pages. Neither have anything to do with nudism. But, since its not my website, its not my rules. I simply don't read what I don't want to see.[/quote] What I spoke to in my original post was the fact that several of the people who friended me in the past was joining these group and this was not in-line with the kind of naturism i believe in. When they post to those group those post show up on my feed because they are friends so I Want to avoid them the only options are unfriend and in the most egregious of situations block. The perv puritanical police who have taken over this site want to tell me I am dramatic for managing what comes on to my feed I am good with that. If it is my paid lifetime member timeline/feed and that seems oppressive to someone then so be it. I dont get on anyone else feed and tell them who to friend follow or which groups to join.

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• EA

  

  EarlDOriginal Poster

  Jun 8, 2020

  Still trying to figure out while people who dont want o have anyone tell what to do want to tell me what to do on my own feed and timeline and friend list. Why dont you relax and go away and do you thing.

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• ME

  Member

  Jul 17, 2020

  Well said.

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