BR
Brett RapleyOriginal Poster
Sep 7, 2016Hello everyone,
I realise that this might cause some people offense, but that is not why I am going to ask the following question:-
I have just looked at a profile on here and am completely appalled by the attitude of some members of this site.
Who(m), thinks they have the right to class/call a single male naturist a Pervert ? I ask this because, some people are in relationships and are the only person that enjoys naturism, their partner does not, but accepts that they do.
It's down right disgusting that some think that because your single (straight, gay, Bi etc) that you have some form of hidden agenda because you are single or the only person that posts when you are in a relationship (more often than not, the male), or your only on here to look at pictures of naked people ! Believe me there are plenty of sites that show that sort of things, if you so wish to view it.
This is a site for all of us that love and enjoy being naked in social gatherings, with friends that share the same passion, at home, at the beach, or when out and about in a secluded location.
Being a single male, does not equate to being a pervert ! How dare anyone make that assumption about anyone else, when that sort of thing goes on in perfectly normal households, textile or naturist.
I am sure that some people will give me their point of view on what I save said above and I look forward to those comments. Please be prepared to be given as frank a reply as your response to my topic.
I realise that this might cause some people offense, but that is not why I am going to ask the following question:-
I have just looked at a profile on here and am completely appalled by the attitude of some members of this site.
Who(m), thinks they have the right to class/call a single male naturist a Pervert ? I ask this because, some people are in relationships and are the only person that enjoys naturism, their partner does not, but accepts that they do.
It's down right disgusting that some think that because your single (straight, gay, Bi etc) that you have some form of hidden agenda because you are single or the only person that posts when you are in a relationship (more often than not, the male), or your only on here to look at pictures of naked people ! Believe me there are plenty of sites that show that sort of things, if you so wish to view it.
This is a site for all of us that love and enjoy being naked in social gatherings, with friends that share the same passion, at home, at the beach, or when out and about in a secluded location.
Being a single male, does not equate to being a pervert ! How dare anyone make that assumption about anyone else, when that sort of thing goes on in perfectly normal households, textile or naturist.
I am sure that some people will give me their point of view on what I save said above and I look forward to those comments. Please be prepared to be given as frank a reply as your response to my topic.
ReactReplySubscribe
Replies
- ST
StevieLornaSep 7, 2016We've met lots of single or married but lone males at resorts and events, non of them seemed like perverts and most of them are perfect gentlemen. That's real life and face to face.
This is the internet. Spend half an hour in the chatroom as a couple, and you'll soon realise how many idiotic perverts there are.
I call them idiots, because if you are looking for sexual content and behavior, like you say, there are lots of that around the WWW.
Looking for it on a non sexual naturist site is moronic, but sadly as they get to chat to other morons, they find it... and catch 22 it is for the rest of us.
On other sites where the registration is more strict, the single guys get a better deal.ReactReply - BRBrett RapleyOriginal PosterSep 7, 2016[quote]We've met lots of single or married but lone males at resorts and events, non of them seemed like perverts and most of them are perfect gentlemen. That's real life and face to face.
This is the internet. Spend half an hour in the chatroom as a couple, and you'll soon realise how many idiotic perverts there are.
I call them idiots, because if you are looking for sexual content and behavior, like you say, there are lots of that around the WWW.
Looking for it on a non sexual naturist site is moronic, but sadly as they get to chat to other morons, they find it... and catch 22 it is for the rest of us.
On other sites where the registration is more strict, the single guys get a better deal. [/quote]I understand what you mean, and most are very genuine and real people. I just feel that it's so self righteous of those that assume single guys on a site like this are after one thing only, when that is not the case.
Yes I agree that they are idiots if they think that going to a resort or event is going to get them more than simply being naked with others, are stupid ! Even on here, it does not take long to work out some people are looking for more than friendship, you only have to look at some of the pictures to realise that.
I took the time to put information on here about myself, so anyone gets a picture of me, the person, not just a naked guy, who happens to be gay, and others, specially men think your after them for the obvious thing... Well, guess what, it's not what I want from that person, it's their friendship.
Thank you for your response.ReactReply - BRBrett RapleyOriginal PosterSep 7, 2016[quote] Hi I understand and agree totally with the your statement it is unfortunate that owing to the open door policy here many people who are not genuine nudists are using this site and have and will continue to give singles males a bad reputation. What does a genuine single male nudist do. The answer is simple establish for himself on here a good reputation and make friends and develop relationships with other genuine people [/quote]Hello and thank you for your reply.
I understand what you mean, TN does have a very open door policy, and, as you say, there will always be those that come on here posing as supposed naturists, then making it plainly obvious that they are after one thing.
Again, I agree that as a single nudist male, one has to try and establish a good reputation and hopefully people will see that not all male nudists are here for the obvious reason.
When I have looked at other peoples profiles on TN, some of the comments are obviously provocative and damned suggestive, these are comments from married as well as single people, both women and men too. This is not a dating site and was never designed for that purpose.
We are all here to make new friends who all love nudity and being naked with each other either in a one to one situation or as a social group. Yes we all look at the other people, as that is human nature, but other than that, there is no problem and we should all just happily get on and enjoy our time together, embracing our freedom in nakedness.ReactReply