Speaking out — General Discussion on True Nudists

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May 31, 2013

I was at a local place last night to get some hot wings. At the bar, the waitresses all wear bikini tops and bottoms. This one waitress obviously had no tan lines which lead me to one conclusion...she is a nudist or at least tans sans suits. I wanted to bring my observation to her attention and let her know of my lifestyle choice but didn't want to offend her or make her think I was trying a pick-up line. So, I did not approach the topic with her.
Later I was thinking about this and started to wonder, if you think someone may be into the naturist lifestyle then how would be the best way to open up the conversation without offending anyone and without exposing yourself if they turn out not into it? Any thoughts???

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FF32404
May 31, 2013
I too am a regular at a themed restaurant like the OP speaks of. I have become friends with most of the servers there and I have discussed nudism with almost all of them. I haven't had one yet feel like I was a creeper or perv by mentioning it, in fact, many of them want to try it someday. It's not what is said, it's who is saying it. So many annoying fools go in, get drunk treat the servers like crap, and then they expect the girls to just open up to them and answer any question they ask. Treating others with respect garners respect back at ya! Simple as that! Most people their ages, don't even know there are places to go nude, and many of them would love to go.
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Soupie
May 31, 2013
I would never think to bring it up or discuss it with anyone at a non-nudist event. It's none of my business. If someone asks me a question about it, I have no problems discussing it.
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Cheri Donna Dawson
Jun 1, 2013
I have left my cards at restaurants that read "You have just done business with a nudist going to/from a clothing-optional....
Nudism is good for your business" and on the other side is "What is a Nudist".
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