Starting to wonder.. — General Discussion on True Nudists

winded_toleranceOriginal Poster

Jun 24, 2013

After going through many of the profiles here, I am starting to wonder if people on here are serious about meeting other naturists, or whatever, and if this site is more than just horny gay guys... I don't go to chat because every time I go there it is usually gay horny... etc, blah blah blah. and even though I am listed as straight, no one seems to read my profile and I'm tired of the gay guy friend requests and nothing else.

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FF32404
Jun 24, 2013
Oh, they read the profiles, but in their minds, people who put straight are lying and just haven't come out of their gay/bisexual shell yet. Note to gay people, this is in reference to the gay pervs who keep bothering guys similar to the way male heterosexual pervs bother the women. Obviously, NOT all gays on this site are like that at all, and of course not all straight guys bother the women.
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Soupie
Jun 24, 2013
I don't go to the chat room because every time that I did, there was some horny old straight guy with a fake profile, hitting on women and trying to see them naked. What is up with these straight people?
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ToreAnders
Jun 24, 2013
I am fairly new on this site. I am straight, and not very comfortable in a nude setting with only men. I haven't been on this site long enough to judge the majority of the profiles, but some of them are "suspicious". I do however believe the majority of the profiles here are sincere, true nudists.
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Tom === Thomas S. Tierney
Jun 24, 2013
[quote]I don't go to the chat room because every time that I did, there was some horny old straight guy with a fake profile, hitting on women and trying to see them naked. What is up with these straight people?[/quote]LOL
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winded_toleranceOriginal Poster
Jun 24, 2013
Why do people assume I'm a gay basher? I don't care if someones gay. I care whe the gay thing starts getting pushed to my side of the wall, I care when I have disrespect towards me on the whole gay issue.. I respect the gays and their lifestyle choices. I only want them to respect my hetero ways and not flame on me....
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ToreAnders
Jun 25, 2013
Agree with WT. That's what this topic is about. I don't like being nude in an all male setting, but it is not because of homophobia. I am very supporting of any kind of relationship between adults of all three genders... or are there four? I have friends that are gay, straight and bi and living it out. I have one friend with two "wives" - they are three during the day, but the women alternate sleeping in the guest room. People are different and we should respect that. I am so happy to live in a part of the world with freedom of speech and criticism, freedom of sexuality, we can divorce, hold hands when walking in the streets, sex without being married, being bi or gay. Much of this is illegal elsewhere, in some places even punishable by death.
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DanandJanette
Jun 25, 2013
[quote]Why do people assume I'm a gay basher? I don't care if someones gay. I care whe the gay thing starts getting pushed to my side of the wall, I care when I have disrespect towards me on the whole gay issue.. I respect the gays and their lifestyle choices. I only want them to respect my hetero ways and not flame on me....[/quote] Welcome to the wonderful world of today's "diversity". Ain't it grand?
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renebbare
Jun 25, 2013
[quote]I don't go to the chat room because every time that I did, there was some horny old straight guy with a fake profile, hitting on women and trying to see them naked. What is up with these straight people?[/quote]Pushy fools.The more the girls/women are hounded, the less will come into chat!
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renebbare
Jun 25, 2013
[quote]I have been in the chat room several times, granted I am not in there hours on end, but I have yet to see any off color activity.[/quote]Thats because you either don't look or listen.There is hardly a day goes by, without a female profile asking for the pm's (private messages) to stop.
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Soupie
Jun 25, 2013
Can you point to a post where anyone "assumed" what you suggested Wind? I haven't seen it. But I do hope that you can keep your own sexuality on your own side of "the wall" and not flame others. I, for one, would be disgusted and turned off.
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Soupie
Jun 25, 2013
Your point would be better made Dan/Janette if you weren't some asexual presence with no certification and prowling on a nudist website. But your problems with "diversity" are well expressed. Just how prejudiced are you? Is there any limit?
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winded_toleranceOriginal Poster
Jun 26, 2013
I don't demand anything but the respect for others I have shown and continue to show, and no I don't "wonder" why I'm not liked anymore than I am, Honestly I don't really care how many people like me, I am honest, blunt and if someone thinks sugarcoating crap is necessary then here's the door. By lyig yto others you are disrespecting them, and their intelligence. There is NO HIGHER way to show respect for others than to wear your thoughts on your sleeve for everyone to see who you really are. By being completely honest with people you truly are respecting them, and showing that respect. For you to conceal it is not only lying to yourself and others, it is the most COWARDLY thing you can be and do. So if you don't like me I don't care! I'm still going to spit the truth as I see them and if you get butthurt in the process it's your problem not mine. I expect others to be as honest with me as I am them and no less.

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winded_toleranceOriginal Poster
Jun 26, 2013
[quote]Can you point to a post where anyone "assumed" what you suggested Wind? I haven't seen it. But I do hope that you can keep your own sexuality on your own side of "the wall" and not flame others. I, for one, would be disgusted and turned off.[/quote]By gays trying to pursue me and trying to sexually advance theirselves to me they are ASSMING I am gay as well, If you can't see that than you have bigger problems. I am only pointing out the "Unknown" to the gays and why the straights are uncomfortable around them. I know many very respectful gays which are very good friends of min but, for the ones who don't realize why they are avoided I am putting the reasons out there and telling my feelings and belief as to why so they can see things from another point of view. As previously stated I will be honest with others no matter what.
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winded_toleranceOriginal Poster
Jun 26, 2013
For the people assuming that I am a "Gay Basher" or predjudiced, I'm about to quit being nice about it and become my normal verbally colorful self. So quit accusing me of trolling, bashing, being predjudiced or anything else your dense minds can think up. I'm starting to lean less on the niceities here and will become more brutal in my honesty and watch everyone squirm with butthurt. It's getting old and really fast. Have you people ever heard of a grain of salt?
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winded_toleranceOriginal Poster
Jun 26, 2013
[quote]I am fairly new on this site. I am straight, and not very comfortable in a nude setting with only men. I haven't been on this site long enough to judge the majority of the profiles, but some of them are "suspicious". I do however believe the majority of the profiles here are sincere, true nudists.
[/quote]This is what I myself like to presume and believe. To get to the decent apples you gotta weed through the bad ones. It seems to me only the ones with a guilty conscience are the ones getting their feelings hurt.
I give respect where I get it. I don't and won't hand it out freely only to get stepped on in return. By a majority of the responses here I see most ASSUME (which is the MOTHER of all F** ups) that I am attacking all gays instead of what I am actually doing is only telling the ones who are guilty of the disrespect,.. that I am truly sick of it.....The "Force" is lost in this thread..

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Soupie
Jun 26, 2013
Does it make you feel better if I tell you that you are totally unattractive to this gay man and that I wouldn't hit on you if were the last man on earth? Or is that too "honest" for you? You should align yourself with Dan/Janette, the he/she that promotes such prejudice on here.
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Soupie
Jun 26, 2013
Gassy, did I say I have a problem with being "liked" on here. No. Once again, your comprehension skills are suffering. And so are you as an anonymous lurker without certification.
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Soupie
Jun 26, 2013
I expect less than nothing from you, whoever you are. If you don't have the guts to certify and declare who you are on here, why should I accord you anymore respect than any other anonymous lurker?
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DanandJanette
Jun 26, 2013
[quote][quote]I am fairly new on this site. I am straight, and not very comfortable in a nude setting with only men. I haven't been on this site long enough to judge the majority of the profiles, but some of them are "suspicious". I do however believe the majority of the profiles here are sincere, true nudists.
[/quote]This is what I myself like to presume and believe. To get to the decent apples you gotta weed through the bad ones. It seems to me only the ones with a guilty conscience are the ones getting their feelings hurt.
I give respect where I get it. I don't and won't hand it out freely only to get stepped on in return. By a majority of the responses here I see most ASSUME (which is the MOTHER of all F** ups) that I am attacking all gays instead of what I am actually doing is only telling the ones who are guilty of the disrespect,.. that I am truly sick of it.....The "Force" is lost in this thread..

[/quote] As you can see, post #19 concludes your entries here are in fact considered "prejudicial". You have failed to adhere to the pink brigade's decree of worshiping all things phallic....and fancy shoes. You have been hereby ordered to attend thought-reassignment classes at the nearest government sponsored behavioral modification camp. Failure to do so will result in civil action and felony hate crime charges being laid. All hail Obama, may peace be upon him.
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Soupie
Jun 26, 2013
You don't seem to have noticed that your hate filled posts are often removed. Because they are offensive to all rational, sane people. Keep up the hate. And good luck with that.
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winded_toleranceOriginal Poster
Jun 27, 2013
Soup, Gas you are exactly the opposite of the people I am describing and apologize if I offended. I only have the issues with the people living in the "stereotype" daily regular life. If you are Gay I honestly dont care that's your choice and not mine, but for the people who decide to "push" their lifestyle on others ( Same reason I don't like or follow any religion or Churches) who choose not to go that route and clarify that they aren't Those are the ones that are offensive and my point of this topic, which I must agree is NO different than straight ones choosing to disrespect and "push" theirselves on women. It is apalling and infuriating to either, which is why I am vocalizing it not only for myself but, for others who feel intimidated to express their views... I honestly believe that any and all people regardless of race, religion, sexual preference doesn't make a bit of difference. What matters is the person their heart makes them to be, their decisions on how they interact with others. Yes, I admit and acknoledge that I am an a**hole and that's my choice. I got tired of being quiet and getting stepped on years ago and became a fighter verbally and physically for my self and others who cannot stand up for themselves. If you are gay or les, bi, black white whatever feel free to add me I don't care, I will ALWAYS show respect as it's given to me, If not respected, I tape up my knuckles and start swinging. For all of the people who DO show the respect for others and their choices on a regular basis I not only salute you, but thank you as well. As far as the disresectful people I think I have already gotten my point across and want to generously pass out your own salute, the one finger kind....
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winded_toleranceOriginal Poster
Jun 27, 2013
I second that Aus..
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