Towels and introducing others

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  sunnmaxx

  Mar 31, 2016

  Since it is standard procedure at any event, I would practice it at home with all guests.  Yes I end up with towels on a few pieces of furniture but just pick them up when others come over.
  

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  Tom === Thomas S. Tierney

  Mar 31, 2016

  [quote]I know good nudist behavior requires us to sit on a towel when we get together either at each others homes or a club.I do try to do that all the time.But I confess around home I simply do not even think about it.   I figure at this point about every surface i could sit on has had my bare ass on it.My question pertains to hosting my bicycling guest.  Most all of them are fine with me nude.  And many of them over the years have tried their first  social naked evening themselves.   They usually shower as soon as they get here and so are clean.   The ones that try a naked evening often just come from the shower bare and stay that way.  So they are clean.   I honestly never gave it a thought to provide them dry towels to sit on for the evening.    I think I will try that this season to get them into good nudist habits if they decide hanging out bare is for them.  Anyone else have any experience getting newbie nudist into a good habit?
  [/quote]"I figure at this point about every surface i could sit on has had my bare ass on it."
  And your guests don't mind????
  

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  John

  Apr 1, 2016

  Take a swab of your but after a shower and test it.  Its still loaded with bacteria.

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  Steve

  Apr 1, 2016

  I use towels at "events" in people's homes and at resorts, per nudist custom.
  
  I think it's bizarre that a health-obsessed culture like ours tends to make do with rubbing oneself with a dry piece of paper, but one accommodates. Much of the worldwashesafter going to the bathroom, as do any of the folks likely to undress in my house. I just don't buy the worry that clean "private parts" are any more dangerous or dirty than hands and faces, and I DO shake hands, kiss cheeks, and hug, so what they hey - I can spin a potential-disaster story about any human contact one cares to name. But the rather exceptional focus we - nudists and non-nudists alike - place on the potential dirtiness of the "privates" is body-negativity, pure and simple.
  
  In my house I use a towel or other spread sometimes on furniture whose upholstery isn't comfortable for me (I'm allergic to wool) and have a nice muslin bedspread that can serve a a slipcover for our better couches. But otherwise never think of it, for myself or for visiting friends.
  

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  NudeJohnny

  Apr 1, 2016

  Two words  --  Skid marks.
  

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  Steve

  Apr 1, 2016

  Three words:
  wash your butt
  

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  Keith

  Apr 1, 2016

  We rentened a place on our last return visit to Australia, we brought some cheap bed sheets to place over the lounge furniture and towels on the dining room chair, just as a measure of comfort and less chance of creating problems.
  In Asia we have bidet sprays in all toilets and toilet paper to dry off with, so towels are only used if the seat is prone to get sticky with sweat due to the heat and high humidity.

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  NudeJohnny

  Apr 1, 2016

  [quote]Three words:
  wash your butt
  [/quote]AMAZING- someone who NEVER farts unexpectedly.
  Someone who NEVER has a loose bowels accident.
  Someone who NEVER leaves "skid marks".
  Someone who doesn't mind if his guests NEVER do either. AMAZING!!!!
  

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  Tom === Thomas S. Tierney

  Apr 1, 2016

  Johnny you told me logic doesn't work here.
  

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  Steve

  Apr 1, 2016

  Amazing but true. If we covered our faces and were embarrassed by our mouths to the point of legal sanctions, many of us probably wouldn't have control of our drooling, either.
  
  Of course, some people do have continence issues of various sorts, and some people don't wash. It's easier, and kinder, to have a towel rule than to make some effort to identify the folks who need them, or ask them to self-identify, when there's a group event. And of course, people who need them at home should use them. And people who don't, shouldn't. I've got antique furniture in the living room, an upholstered (and un-toweled) desk chair, have a number of visitors who feel free to undress, and simply haven't had problems with stains on the furniture. This isn't "logic," it's experience. Don't tell me what I have and haven't done, have and haven't seen.
  

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  Nick Costello

  Apr 1, 2016

  [quote]Amazing but true. If we covered our faces and were embarrassed by our mouths to the point of legal sanctions, many of us probably wouldn't have control of our drooling, either.
  
  Of course, some people do have continence issues of various sorts, and some people don't wash. It's easier, and kinder, to have a towel rule than to make some effort to identify the folks who need them, or ask them to self-identify, when there's a group event. And of course, people who need them at home should use them. And people who don't, shouldn't. I've got antique furniture in the living room, an upholstered (and un-toweled) desk chair, have a number of visitors who feel free to undress, and simply haven't had problems with stains on the furniture. This isn't "logic," it's experience. Don't tell me what I have and haven't done, have and haven't seen.
  [/quote] Obviously someone who doesn't care what he sits in and/or on.
  Fecal incontinenceis the inability to control yourbowelmovements, causing stool (feces) to leak unexpectedly from your rectum. Also calledbowelor analincontinence,fecal incontinencecan range from occasional leakage of a small quantity of stool while passing gas to a complete loss ofbowelcontrol.
  
  

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  DesertRat

  Apr 2, 2016

  There's an old warning among seniors. That is never trust a fart. You never know if it's going to be wet or dry. In my home we always use towels.

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  Keith

  Apr 2, 2016

  [quote]Amazing but true. If we covered our faces and were embarrassed by our mouths to the point of legal sanctions, many of us probably wouldn't have control of our drooling, either.
  
  Of course, some people do have continence issues of various sorts, and some people don't wash. It's easier, and kinder, to have a towel rule than to make some effort to identify the folks who need them, or ask them to self-identify, when there's a group event. And of course, people who need them at home should use them. And people who don't, shouldn't. I've got antique furniture in the living room, an upholstered (and un-toweled) desk chair, have a number of visitors who feel free to undress, and simply haven't had problems with stains on the furniture. This isn't "logic," it's experience. Don't tell me what I have and haven't done, have and haven't seen.
  [/quote]Well said Steve.
  My house ,my rules. Thomas and Johnny you will be OK and no need to worry as I won't invite you to my place. I have more issues with dust pollution in my house to worry about than I do over the possibility of  someone sitting bare arss on a chair, its not like I am going to be eating my dinner off it.
  Also we wash our hands with dissenfectant soap before preparing or eating our meals, both of which is done whilst we are naked. We humans get so pedantic over nothing its ridiculous.

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  Tom === Thomas S. Tierney

  Apr 2, 2016

  [quote] [quote]Amazing but true. If we covered our faces and were embarrassed by our mouths to the point of legal sanctions, many of us probably wouldn't have control of our drooling, either.
  
  Of course, some people do have continence issues of various sorts, and some people don't wash. It's easier, and kinder, to have a towel rule than to make some effort to identify the folks who need them, or ask them to self-identify, when there's a group event. And of course, people who need them at home should use them. And people who don't, shouldn't. I've got antique furniture in the living room, an upholstered (and un-toweled) desk chair, have a number of visitors who feel free to undress, and simply haven't had problems with stains on the furniture. This isn't "logic," it's experience. Don't tell me what I have and haven't done, have and haven't seen.
  [/quote] Well said Steve.
  My house ,my rules. Thomas and Johnny you will be OK and no need to worry as I won't invite you to my place. I have more issues with dust pollution in my house to worry about than I do over the possibility of  someone sitting bare arss on a chair, its not like I am going to be eating my dinner off it.
  Also we wash our hands with dissenfectant soap before preparing or eating our meals, both of which is done whilst we are naked. We humans get so pedantic over nothing its ridiculous.[/quote]
  Bury your head in the sand.
  To refuse to think about an unpleasant situation, hoping that it will improve so that you will not have to deal with it
  
  

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• ME

  Member

  Jul 5, 2016

  [quote]There's an old warning among seniors. That is never trust a fart. You never know if it's going to be wet or dry. In my home we always use towels.[/quote]Well spoken words of wisdom. Can I quote you on that?
  

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  Half

  Jul 5, 2016

  [quote]There's an old warning among seniors. That is never trust a fart. You never know if it's going to be wet or dry. In my home we always use towels.[/quote] Doesn't that make it a shart? ;-)

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