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Wheelchair dating and nude friends

Posted May 23, 2017

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Jim
JimOriginal Poster
May 23, 2017

What do you think? What if a young woman or man was bound in a wheelchair and had no feeling below the chest...but loved being a nudist and would love to find others who might accept them. What if that same person might also want to maybe date the right like minded person? What advice would you give him or her? How to meet people and when online, how would you think they should deal with the wheelchair issue? What would you do if you were the person he or she was interested in? What would draw you to that person? :)

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    Steve
    Steve
    May 23, 2017

    They should deal with the wheelchair issue upfront, either with a photo of their use of the chair, or a note. Wheelchair or not, it's an often-repeated truism that it's easier to broach nudism with a date with whom you already know you share other commonalities, than to date only practicing nudists. Another truism: Go outside. Unless the wheelchair user is in fact confined to home, they should find ways to meet people out of the house. This serves to defuse the prejudice that a wheelchair user is a sequestered invalid.

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    Jay
    Jay
    May 27, 2017

    I thought one of the foundations of nudism/naturism was body acceptance. It didn't matter if you or others were thin, fat, tall, short, endowed or not; the person and not their earth suit is what is important. So what if part of their body doesn't work?

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    Reuben Titus
    Reuben Titus
    May 27, 2017

    In nudism we are open about ourselves, we accept others for who they are, no matter what their physical condition. It should be the same with physical disabilities. They should just do what any other nudist would do, don't be ashamed of what we are like, be open and share as with a friend. As that's what we all want to be with each other. Good friends. And on occasion relationship may go further than just friends.
    But I have a friend beyond this world that will provide what I need. All I need do is ask and if it's in my best interest it will be done. When I decide I am ready to find a mate for life, I will ask. And then wait and see what interesting things happen.

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