So within the next couple of weeks I am wanting to go to a nudist resort near where I live however I am concerned about a few things:
- Erections. I know it probably won't happen but on the off chance it does I want to be prepared so I do not need to worrya bout it that much.
- Nobody to go with. I would be going more then likely on my own aand would feela bit out of place. Any advice for this?
- I have a bit of a hair issue but still want to go, as well as possibly some wicked tans lines. I should not worry about this right?
- What to bring? I read on AANR to bring two towels, one for sitting on the other in case I go swimming, but what else should I have with me?
Any other tips you might be able to give? Are sandals/flipflops ok to wear if the place is nude only? Any advice for meeting people so I do not feel so out of place?
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- NUnudist2009Original PosterAug 27, 2009
When I go should I expect alot of older people or is there goign to be some near my age (early 20s)?
I am a single guy and I know most places might look down upon that, will it be a big issue when I go?ReactReply - CO
Curt, or CowboyAug 27, 2009The places I've been, I've met nudists from 4 1/2 ( she was admant about that 1/2 ) years old ( so was the 6 1/2 year old ) to 81 that I know about.
The bulk of the folks present were between 40 and 60, but don't let that stop you.
One of the cutest ( non-sexual ) girls I've met was 12. Boys and girls 8 or 10 through about 18.
There does seem to be a shortage of about 15-25 or so, but that's not really unexpected, and there's not none, just fewer than other ages groups.ReactReply - NUnudist2009Original PosterAug 28, 2009
I am still mostly concerned over meeting people near my age. I don't mind being around older people but it is harder to relate and make friends. Which I am also unsure how to find people to talk to when I am at the club, especially being my first time.
Some clubs have student rates around here, however it is a bit far for me to go to so I am going to one closer. Its about $40 for nonmembers to get in. The one that is farther has a $10 student rate which would be nice, except the drive is quite far.
ReactReply - COCurt, or CowboyAug 28, 2009[quote]I am still mostly concerned over meeting people near my age. I don't mind being around older people but it is harder to relate and make friends. Which I am also unsure how to find people to talk to when I am at the club, especially being my first time. [/quote] Ask when you check in. You should find them quite helpful. Don't be afraid of "Hi. Am I the only one my age ?" Pretty sure to be a conversation starter.ReactReply
- MA
macnudeAug 28, 2009[quote]I am still mostly concerned over meeting people near my age. I don't mind being around older people but it is harder to relate and make friends. Which I am also unsure how to find people to talk to when I am at the club, especially being my first time. Some clubs have student rates around here, however it is a bit far for me to go to so I am going to one closer. Its about $40 for nonmembers to get in. The one that is farther has a $10 student rate which would be nice, except the drive is quite far.[/quote] The volley ball court, as suggested elsewhere, is the best place to make new friends. Trying to befriend the best looking female on the grounds, right away, is probably not the best thing to do. Remember, no one expects you to get fried to a crisp by the sun to prove you are a serious nudist. Cover up as necessary, find shade or hang out in the clubhouse before getting burnt. Lastly, your smile is very important when it's all that you are wearing.ReactReply - NUnudist2009Original PosterAug 28, 2009
I was thinking of going on a weekday but then I thought there would be less people as most would be at work or school. Would this be a good time to go or should I plan for either a Saturday or Sunday?
ReactReply - NUnudist2009Original PosterAug 28, 2009[quote]If you want to find folks your age, go on the weekend.[/quote] Well its supposed to rain on the weekend and the place closes soon so I want to go next week at some point. Was thinking of going in the morning (10amish) until late afternoon if not evening.ReactReply
- COCurt, or CowboyAug 29, 2009
I agree a weekend, probably Saturday, would be your best choice.
Weekdays, you're likely to find only "resident" members at a resort, I've no idea at a beach as there are none near me.
ALTHOUGH, since summer is winding down, there will be a "push" by many to get in that last good day visit most any day after work if the weather is good, so do plan on staying into the evening. Tuesday evening at Green Valley seems to be having that "last hurrah" among visiting club on discount night for North Coast members.
My first visit, I'd planned to leave late afternoon early evening, but was enjoying myself so much, and had met so many great people, I was there until not long after midnight ! ( it was a "block party" weekend at Green Valley )ReactReply - NUnudist2009Original PosterAug 29, 2009[quote]I agree a weekend, probably Saturday, would be your best choice. Weekdays, you're likely to find only "resident" members at a resort, I've no idea at a beach as there are none near me. ALTHOUGH, since summer is winding down, there will be a "push" by many to get in that last good day visit most any day after work if the weather is good, so do plan on staying into the evening. Tuesday evening at Green Valley seems to be having that "last hurrah" among visiting club on discount night for North Coast members. My first visit, I'd planned to leave late afternoon early evening, but was enjoying myself so much, and had met so many great people, I was there until not long after midnight ! ( it was a "block party" weekend at Green Valley )[/quote] Saturday is supposed to storm here. Do you think Sundays are good days to go? Otherwise before they close so far Thursday seems the best day to go, when it will be partially warm.ReactReply
- COCurt, or CowboyAug 29, 2009
I find Sunday better than during the week, early, but that's the day that most of the folks that came Friday evening "for the weekend" are leaving.
I'd say Saturday is best, Sunday second, then any other day, followed by bad weather.ReactReply - NUnudist2009Original PosterAug 29, 2009
Well its supposed to storm next saturday and I am not sure of the close date of the club. I think its Sept 22 but one near here is the 15th.
ReactReply - NUnudist2009Original PosterSep 4, 2009
Ok so I am going sunday. I trimmed up some body hair but still a bit nervous for when I go. Any more advice from you guys? Where will all my clothes be stored?
ReactReply - COCurt, or CowboySep 4, 2009[quote]Ok so I am going sunday. I trimmed up some body hair but still a bit nervous for when I go. Any more advice from you guys? Where will all my clothes be stored?[/quote] Go, enjoy ! The places I've been, it's been simplest to simply strip off beside your car, and stash your stuff in your own vehicle. Might want to be careful you don't lock yourself out, but it seems it's one of the last places you'd need worry about theft.ReactReply
- NUnudist2009Original PosterSep 4, 2009[quote][quote]Ok so I am going sunday. I trimmed up some body hair but still a bit nervous for when I go. Any more advice from you guys? Where will all my clothes be stored?[/quote] Go, enjoy ! The places I've been, it's been simplest to simply strip off beside your car, and stash your stuff in your own vehicle. Might want to be careful you don't lock yourself out, but it seems it's one of the last places you'd need worry about theft.[/quote] Well I would like to lock my car but what to do with the keys.ReactReply
- CA
catbirdSep 4, 2009[quote][quote][quote]Ok so I am going sunday. I trimmed up some body hair but still a bit nervous for when I go. Any more advice from you guys? Where will all my clothes be stored?[/quote] Go, enjoy ! The places I've been, it's been simplest to simply strip off beside your car, and stash your stuff in your own vehicle. Might want to be careful you don't lock yourself out, but it seems it's one of the last places you'd need worry about theft.[/quote] Well I would like to lock my car but what to do with the keys.[/quote] If you are bringing a beach bag you might put your key in there. Otherwise you have to trust. If you are renting a room to stay overnight, they give you a room key attached to a bracelet.ReactReply - OC
ocmickSep 4, 2009My club has a locked gate as I'm sure the one you plan on visiting tomorrow so it "unlikey" there are a lot of car thieves roaming the grounds. I leave my traveling clothes in the car and usually put the car keys in the gas cap door or on top of one of the tires in the wheel well. But as it has been said, gated nudist resorts are really quite safe...so enjoy the day!ReactReply - NUnudist2009Original PosterSep 5, 2009
So the place won't have a locker of some sorts for my keys or other things?
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George_in_WVSep 5, 2009When I went to the nudist campground I used to go to before I moved here I always left my keys on the floor of the car. My friends would ask if they could lock their valuables in the trunk and I let them do so without telling them that there was a lever by my seat that would open the trunk. I never locked my car door.
One time I was at a nudist resort and went to talk to some of my friends. After talking with them I got in my car and drove home (at least a two hour trip). When I got home I could not find my wallet, book, and other things that I had left in a bag I carried to and left at the pool. My keys were in my car so I had them. I called the resort and asked if there was a bag (that I described) by the pool and the person who answered the phone went to the pool and when he got back to the phone told me yes. I asked him if he would mail it to me and take the money for postage from my wallet. I got everything back in the mail. Of course getting back my driver license and credit cards was more of a concern to me than the few $ in my wallet. It never occurred to me that anything would be missing. Nudists are very honest people, not like those that are in the textile world.
I now live in a clothing optional community and often leave my front door unlocked.ReactReply - OCocmickSep 5, 2009[quote][quote]My club has a locked gate as I'm sure the one you plan on visiting tomorrow so it "unlikey" there are a lot of car thieves roaming the grounds. I leave my traveling clothes in the car and usually put the car keys in the gas cap door or on top of one of the tires in the wheel well. But as it has been said, gated nudist resorts are really quite safe...so enjoy the day![/quote] Now all we have to do is find out where you park Mick and we'll know where your keys are. :)[/quote]ususally on the left closest to the Bungalow...leave some gas in it when you come back...ReactReply
- NUnudist2009Original PosterSep 5, 2009
Alright so got myself some sandals and am planning to go tomorrow on my own. Should be an interesting experience, hopefully it is relaxing too.
ReactReply - NUnudist2009Original PosterSep 6, 2009
So I went and it wasn't as bad as I thought. I sat and talked with a younger couple. There was a few other young people but most were older. Was a great experience though.
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PhilfreeeukSep 6, 2009[quote]So I went and it wasn't as bad as I thought. I sat and talked with a younger couple. There was a few other young people but most were older. Was a great experience though.[/quote] Great, can you hear us all shouting, " I TOLD YOU SO!?" haha. Glad you had a good time, let's hope it's the first of many :) ps. A slightly more descriptive report, would have been much appreciated! lol
ReactReply - PHPhilfreeeukSep 7, 2009[quote]A slightly more descriptive report, would have been much appreciated! lol Ach Phill, That's just because it's getting into (back into) the rainy season over there and you'll not be able to have many more nude days out, Specially if all that snow returns this year again[/quote] Colin, would you please, please, please, STOP reminding me, about the BLOODY SNOW !!!!! I'm already starting to get the old S.A.D. symptoms!
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