I`m a shy person

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  Hawk

  Dec 17, 2013

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  Bill Bowser

  Dec 17, 2013

  I used to consider myself a shy person until I investigated a little bit and discovered that I was actually nothing more than an introvert. I suppose that applies to many people, but it's really beside the point. Acting shy, for whatever reason, is easy to overcome. Your reluctance to interact with strangers is a product of your imagination, just ignore it. It is easier than you think. But I suspect the chat room here may not be the best place to try it.

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  willyg2013Original Poster

  Dec 17, 2013

  [quote]I used to consider myself a shy person until I investigated a little bit and discovered that I was actually nothing more than an introvert. I suppose that applies to many people, but it's really beside the point. Acting shy, for whatever reason, is easy to overcome. Your reluctance to interact with strangers is a product of your imagination, just ignore it. It is easier than you think. But I suspect the chat room here may not be the best place to try it. [/quote]Well I don't want to think me reluctance to interact with strangers is a product of my imagination. I know with new changes of my life be very direct the type of person I'm.   But this is not a topic I want to debate about.  I guess first step is trying to build friends.  Weather I make friends or not I won't let this prevent me things I want to explore in life.  I can say to start people had shared some good information. I just need to see what happens from here.

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  Bob

  Dec 17, 2013

  Welcome aboard.
  I for one like to see a head and shoulders picture that shows your face.
  Bob
  

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  Steve

  Dec 17, 2013

  I'm a shy person, too - very much so. And even though I've been on this site for years, I find the chatroom deeply intimidating, rather like a party - I just don't have the moves to manage the small talk and the brief and shifting conversations, so I become a bystander.
  
  There's always the forum, where the pace is slower and the responses fuller and more direct. It's essentially unmoderated, though, so there are often people sniping or trying to be funny, who have to be ignored for the conversation to go forward.
  
  There are also private messages, perfectly appropriate when you have some commonality to refer to, as evidenced by the profile. For that to work, you'll need to put some effort into your profile. You can always send such a message along with a friend request but don't send a friend request "blind" - without a message, or without having a full profile yourself. Unless a woman already has zillions of male friends, don't send a friend request unless you've already spoken in chat or exchanged messages.
  
  

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  willyg2013Original Poster

  Dec 17, 2013

  [quote]Welcome aboard.
  I for one like to see a head and shoulders picture that shows your face.
  Bob
  [/quote]maybe one day

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  willyg2013Original Poster

  Dec 17, 2013

  [quote]I'm a shy person, too - very much so. And even though I've been on this site for years, I find the chatroom deeply intimidating, rather like a party - I just don't have the moves to manage the small talk and the brief and shifting conversations, so I become a bystander.
  
  There's always the forum, where the pace is slower and the responses fuller and more direct. It's essentially unmoderated, though, so there are often people sniping or trying to be funny, who have to be ignored for the conversation to go forward.
  
  There are also private messages, perfectly appropriate when you have some commonality to refer to, as evidenced by the profile. For that to work, you'll need to put some effort into your profile. You can always send such a message along with a friend request but don't send a friend request "blind" - without a message, or without having a full profile yourself. Unless a woman already has zillions of male friends, don't send a friend request unless you've already spoken in chat or exchanged messages.
  
  [/quote]Thanks. Well it only been a few days.  There some stuff in my profile. Not much.  But I did wrote my introduction and did the certification thing like one person suggested.   I try writing things in the forum time to time.  For now I see how the first month goes. Thanks for writing

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