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Sep 18, 2013Hi fellow nudists,
Being new here I faced
many so called nudists in the chatroom which i accepted their request
for private chat but to my surprise I found two guys asking me that as a
matter of nudist culture first nudist meet is to do a ritual of
masturbating looking at each other calling it very common among nudists.
Though i denied to do it and the guy rudely abused and disconnected.
I
found another guy in chat trying to send me pics which were like
explicit nudist meet where people were seen doing all sorts of gay and
lesbian and group kind activities and he called this common to exchange
such pics. I denied accepting the pics and he seemed to racially abuse
me.
Guys tell me if this is true that such things are common because to my mind i found it against the basic tenets of nudism.
Such people create a bad picture of nudism I think.
Being new here I faced
many so called nudists in the chatroom which i accepted their request
for private chat but to my surprise I found two guys asking me that as a
matter of nudist culture first nudist meet is to do a ritual of
masturbating looking at each other calling it very common among nudists.
Though i denied to do it and the guy rudely abused and disconnected.
I
found another guy in chat trying to send me pics which were like
explicit nudist meet where people were seen doing all sorts of gay and
lesbian and group kind activities and he called this common to exchange
such pics. I denied accepting the pics and he seemed to racially abuse
me.
Guys tell me if this is true that such things are common because to my mind i found it against the basic tenets of nudism.
Such people create a bad picture of nudism I think.
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- MEMemberOriginal PosterSep 18, 2013[quote]You already have given the answer yourself by raising this question I guess,sure this ain't normal among nudist but there always will be exceptions and excesses like everywhere.It happened to me ones in awhile as well and the only thing I do is smile and brake the connection.
:-)
Regards, Peter...[/quote]Thanks peter ... such experiences make things like where we are ? These people make nudism another front for sexualism ... some people always try to make things bad for others. I thought these exceptions and excesses should not be encouraged.ReactReply - DADanandJanetteSep 18, 2013[quote]Hi fellow nudists,
Being new here I faced
many so called nudists in the chatroom which i accepted their request
for private chat but to my surprise I found two guys asking me that as a
matter of nudist culture first nudist meet is to do a ritual of
masturbating looking at each other calling it very common among nudists.
Though i denied to do it and the guy rudely abused and disconnected.
I
found another guy in chat trying to send me pics which were like
explicit nudist meet where people were seen doing all sorts of gay and
lesbian and group kind activities and he called this common to exchange
such pics. I denied accepting the pics and he seemed to racially abuse
me.
Guys tell me if this is true that such things are common because to my mind i found it against the basic tenets of nudism.
Such people create a bad picture of nudism I think.
[/quote] Venturing into chat and accepting private chat invites from random guys is like the bar scene from Star Wars...but set in San Francisco.ReactReply - M
MSep 18, 2013I rarely go to the chat room but when I do, (That sounds like a bad beer commercial) I do not accept private chats without checking the profile first. If it empty then no way.
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FlokieSep 19, 2013If someone behaves inappropriately in the chat room (sexual photos and masturbation chat definitely qualify), then please take a screenshot and either send it to a chat room moderator or flag their profile. Personally, I'd do both. You can identify a chat room moderator because their user name will be at the top of the chat room members list and it will be in bold.
A site like this must self-police and there are plenty of folks here who aren't actually naturists/nudists and they try to bring down others down to their level. There are loads of other sites where maturbation and sex talk are accepted, expected and encouraged. Please, let's keep this site for naturism/nudism related discussions.
The number two reason I avoid cam chat is that too often it ends up heading in a sexual direction. The number one reason is that I just generally find it annoying. :-)ReactReply - JUJustnudenothingmoreSep 19, 2013[quote]If someone behaves inappropriately in the chat room (sexual photos and masturbation chat definitely qualify), then please take a screenshot and either send it to a chat room moderator or flag their profile. Personally, I'd do both. You can identify a chat room moderator because their user name will be at the top of the chat room members list and it will be in bold.
A site like this must self-police and there are plenty of folks here who aren't actually naturists/nudists and they try to bring down others down to their level. There are loads of other sites where maturbation and sex talk are accepted, expected and encouraged. Please, let's keep this site for naturism/nudism related discussions.
The number two reason I avoid cam chat is that too often it ends up heading in a sexual direction. The number one reason is that I just generally find it annoying. :-)[/quote]Big thumbs up!ReactReply - JO
JohnSep 19, 2013[quote]The only time I receive private chat requests (always from guys) they want to elaborate on a topic I mentioned which usually has nothing to do with nudism. No one ever pulled the masturbation initiation scam but that is ninety percent of the chat on True Swingers. If the conversation in the chat room is not to your liking, log out and sometimes even five minutes later better topics and people arise. [/quote]Ditto! Always check the profile first.ReactReply - JOJohnSep 19, 2013All good advice here. Don't let the scum bags ruin an otherwise good community experience here.
ALWAYS report anyone who behalves that way. I'm no prude by any means but TN is a place for naturism which is NOT sexual in nature. Naturists can be as sexual as anyone but NOT in naturists events or situations. Enjoy the freedom!ReactReply - MEMemberOriginal PosterSep 20, 2013[quote]All good advice here. Don't let the scum bags ruin an otherwise good community experience here.
ALWAYS report anyone who behalves that way. I'm no prude by any means but TN is a place for naturism which is NOT sexual in nature. Naturists can be as sexual as anyone but NOT in naturists events or situations. Enjoy the freedom![/quote]@john, stillpale, barely, and others thanks a lot for ur concern. I have experienced it and I dont go to chat now atleast not with cam. But fact is that chat is an inseparable element of this site.
I had checked the profiles of the guys before but they looked normal. I think much more has to be done before true naturists are to be made properly authentic. Flagging i think has been unsuccessful due to inadequate actions taken by the mods.
I think this site has a long way to go before true nudism takes place here.ReactReply - HA
HawkSep 20, 2013Don't be upset. Just flag them and send their information to Admin. After enough hits they will be handled accordingly to TOS.
Don't let a few bad apples ruin your lifestyle and believes. There are many of us out there who are worth keeping around.
Have a good day and stay nude :) xoxoxo HawkReactReply - DE
DesertRatSep 20, 2013Just flag these guys and report them to the administration. They need to be deleted ASAP.ReactReply - RE
renebbareSep 20, 2013"Flagging i think has been unsuccessful due to inadequate actions taken by the mods."- It takes many flags before TT1&2 notice, far better to learn to take a screen shot and then report & send the shot to a mod in the chatroom.ReactReply - MO
MoeSep 21, 2013Mods in the chatroom only have the ability to kick someone out for 3 days. Flagging an account does work as we have gotten many people booted from Truenudists.
It is a shame that you had someone say there is a initiation ritual such as masterbation, but I can guarantee there is no such trials. In fact if someone says they are new in the chat room, I state usually hi and welcome to the world of nudism. Any questions please feel free to contact me .
I try to make people as comfortable as possible ....ReactReply - HAHawkSep 21, 2013[quote]
It is a shame that you had someone say there is a initiation ritual such as masturbation, but I can guarantee there is no such trials.
In fact if someone says they are new in the chat room, I state usually hi and welcome to the world of nudism.
Any questions please feel free to contact me . I try to make people as comfortable as possible ....[/quote]Indeed :-) I second the above Motion . . .ReactReply - MEMemberOriginal PosterSep 22, 2013[quote][quote]
It is a shame that you had someone say there is a initiation ritual such as masturbation, but I can guarantee there is no such trials.
In fact if someone says they are new in the chat room, I state usually hi and welcome to the world of nudism.
Any questions please feel free to contact me . I try to make people as comfortable as possible ....[/quote]Indeed :-) I second the above Motion . . .[/quote]@rat, bare, hawk, moe thanks a lot for reviving my confidence in the admin system of flagging and removal on complaints :) I agree that flagging is done rarely though I am convinced by your statements. I will see to it if I get any one again and I will certainly report such things with proof.
I also thank to remove the suspicions of rituals and introductions which are playing havoc in TN. I hope things improve.
I also thank this forum thing which is unique to TN in the world of Social Media. Most such sites do not have such a forum like thing for targeted discussions on particular matters of any subject. :)
I also thank you all for being so genuine and true which is the essence of this philosophy which rests on the the universal principles of tolerance and respect to diversity of people of every race, color, region, religion, caste, gender, occupation and creed, etc. which makes us truly human.
I hope all true nudists will appreciate and apply these principles in their lives to make the world a true global village. :)ReactReply