Suggestions for 1st timer

I am sure there is probably another thread like this on here, so my apologies for starting this one.

I am just looking for some good advice on a decent resort in the US in December. I figure this would put me in Arizona California or Florida kind of places, but I do not know really where I should begin, other than I am a single divorced man in my 40's also bisexual.

So I would like a place with plenty of other singles that is not just an orgy breeding ground.

Anyone?