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BornAgainOriginal Poster
Aug 16, 2018I have been on vacation and hence had more time for chat room this past week. I have been banned twice: Once for moving to music while laying down. I think my boobs moved a bit and that was apparently offensive although there was no intention of lewdness, just fun. Now this evening my cam was turned off for falling asleep on cam, full face, again not breaking rules. When I asked why my cam was turned off I was told rudely by mods, the same ones who also banned me earlier in week, that I was snoring. When I asked if that was against rules they said I could turn back on. I typed that I'm sorry, I'm human, sometimes when people are not interacting with me I fall asleep and I snore as people were commenting on how superior they were and how they would never have the audacity to fall asleep on cam... I responded that no one had to turn on my cam if they did not like... I was then banned for another 24 hours.
I want to formally complain about mods that use poor judgement and ban frivolously. I've seen more disturbing, boring, sexual... behavior on cams than I've ever even consciously considered much less acted out, yet me, a woman, who is rare on cam in chat, has been banned for the most inane, ridiculous reasons. I think some have inferiority complexes and instead of being polite and informing they like to lord over their authority, looking for more drama than necessary. If one is not blatantly breaking the rules why be such pissers? I know moving to music and sleeping are not for everyone, and maybe rarely seen on cam but I've not seen a rule against either and I've most certainly seen much crudeness on cam and in text form...
Some mods and regulars in chat are really just bullies that think their poop is roses, NOPE, it's just BS, get over yourselves.
Sincerely, a true naturist, off to play, dance, sing, sleep... in greener pastures... Peace out.
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- BOBornAgainOriginal PosterAug 16, 2018[quote][em][strong]I used to be in chat but got so tired of the mods that I simply quit using it. I literally turned around for less than 10 sec to adjust a setting and was shut down. They said I didnt have my face on camera. It is a very poorly managed site and even more poorly managed chat. I got a lifetime membership so Im still here. If not for that I likely wouldnt even stop by anymore. Multiple fake profiles and sexual photos by very popular members with nothing done about them.[/strong][/em] [/quote] [em][strong]
I hear you and have said all the same... God Bless the True, tn's, that get the joys of nudity w/o being rude, crude, or lewd, and bugger off to the rest. I've been on here less and less and when I come back I realize more and more it's probably useless to hope for good change here. I desire wellness for all, but looking pretty grim on this site, unfortunately, I forecast less and less true nudism going on here and more and more non-sense. Thank God I never paid a dime. Thank TN and all users that have enhanced my lifestyle.
Love and Peace to All.[/strong][/em]ReactReply - BOBornAgainOriginal PosterAug 16, 2018[quote]Love 2B, I was in the room when you were banned, it was embarrassing to see it happen, a series of other bans and mutes followed as people asked WTF. To be banned for falling asleep on a cam is disgusting, I wasn't watching your cam but the mods clearly quoted your snoring as the problem, out of order.I doubt you will get an apology from the site but I for one feel they were totally out of order and it should raise questions as to what the owners are trying to achieve here. Disheartened with TN today. A woman on cam in chat is rare and brave, I asked questions of banning in gerneral but was ignored.[/quote]
Thank you my friend, I appreciate you backing me up. It's good to know there were some chat users that agreed and supported me, I'm just sorry they were banned and you ignored just for questioning the mods behavior.... Truly audacious and not by the users but the ones running the show... I call a petition for mods abusing power to, "STEP DOWN!". Or the very minimum, accountability and correction for their off base behavior.ReactReply - TH
ThomasAug 16, 2018I wasn't there but if I had been I might have turned cam off but for a different reason. My ex was always adament that she didn't snore and would have been very embarressed to find out she had been snoring on cam for all the world to see.
ReactReply - BOBornAgainOriginal PosterAug 23, 2018[quote]I was also in the room and thought it quite absurd for your ban. Hopefully this doesn't discourage you too bad and not return. We've got your back. Stay nude dear![/quote]Thank you! I'm pretty tenacious so no worries... I do my thang regardless. ;) I so appreciate the support. xoReactReply
- BOBornAgainOriginal PosterAug 23, 2018[quote]I wasn't there but if I had been I might have turned cam off but for a different reason. My ex was always adament that she didn't snore and would have been very embarressed to find out she had been snoring on cam for all the world to see.[/quote]You're funny TX! I don't embarrass easily and know I need another sleep study so I can get a BIPAP machine... in the meantime, it is what it is and people never have to turn on my cam... I always do my best to keep it clean, keep it real, and some people can't handle me, it's all good. :)ReactReply
- BOBornAgainOriginal PosterAug 25, 2018[quote]I was in that night. The mod disabled your cam. You could have turned it back on, and the mod told you so. You chose to make snide remarks about the mod's action of turning off your cam. What happened next wasn't unexpected.[/quote]I made no snide remarks, I questioned their reasoning in turning off cam just as I initially wrote in this thread. I did not want to turn it back on as I felt sleepy and did not want to be banned again, as they had banned me earlier in the week w/o warning. Clearly me being understood and gaining understanding is a problem for you and the mod that night.ReactReply
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ManOfWicklowAug 25, 2018"Moving to music while laying down", Huh, what do some people think a Chatroom is for?ReactReply - BOBornAgainOriginal PosterAug 26, 2018[quote]I can leave your cam on if you like But when people are poking fun out of you in chat because you sound like Babe from the movie I will let them carry on. Most people thank me for turning their cam off when they have fallen asleep but I am not putting up with your abuse for just turning your cam off. It also seems I am not the only mod to ban you for being a bad girl on cam.[/quote]Babe? Obviously you are one of them poking fun. And I'm the one being abusive. Interesting. You're pretty much the only ones that have banned me. Maybe it's because you've tried to friend me and I've not accepted? I'm not sure what your problem is but it may be time to grow up.ReactReply
- BOBornAgainOriginal PosterAug 26, 2018[quote]"Moving to music while laying down", Huh, what do some people think a Chatroom is for?[/quote]Obviously, for you, the chat room is not for enjoying music or innocently having fun. God forbid my music move me while on cam. What I don't understand is if I'm NOT BREAKING ANY RULES why am I being banned. If all those "poking" fun are so offended by me accidentally falling asleep and snoring or moving to music, WHY ARE YOU WATCHING ME? Stop cutting me and others down, just because you want to be a downer, doesn't mean I or anyone else wants to be a part of your negativity. It's no wonder I hear so many say they no longer go in chat room and even less women are willing to cam. Some people just seem to get off on being nasty.ReactReply
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TerryAug 26, 2018[quote]I have been on vacation and hence had more time for chat room this past week. I have been banned twice.[/quote] I'm sorry to see that happen. You are correct in that some of the mods are bullies. I find it ironic that some of the chat men can sit and ask for private chats incessantly and no muting what so ever. However, do something that is personally frowned upon and you're bumped, whether its in the owners guidelines or not. I've always enjoy your appearances in chat. You always perk up the joint. But, as you say, you are tenacious, so keep at it.ReactReply - TR
traceyandalanAug 27, 2018Well thanks for letting us know you don't trust none certified nudist friends !!! We have just unfriended YOU !! thanks again
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As yet another person whom was 'on' that evening...I didn't see anything too unusual about falling asleep...I've seen it in the past and listened to one guy snore for 30+ minutes (several years ago). That being said...I know our mods try hard and are sometimes far too lenient on some of this crew...but this may have been just a little over the top. We're (well...most) are here to enjoy a friendly conversation about whatever happened that day or week or whatever...keep it friendly & light hearted. We all jump in a little quickly every now & then...just cut the ones 'sincere' in their conversation (& conviction) a little slack...we all screw up periodically. John.
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McdcvsAug 28, 2018A lot of the users complain about clicks in the chat room. I personally have not spent much time in there because of all the complaints.
ReactReply - MEMemberAug 28, 2018
I can't comment on your music but I always turn off my mic when I'm in chat and the mic of anyone I am watching. I really don't know why it's there to begin with because i find the noise distracting. if I do ever forget to turn off the mic and fall asleep snoring, moderators have my permission to turn off my camera.
ReactReply - BOBornAgainOriginal PosterSep 3, 2018[quote]I have been on vacation and hence had more time for chat room this past week. I have been banned twice.I'm sorry to see that happen. You are correct in that some of the mods are bullies. I find it ironic that some of the chat men can sit and ask for private chats incessantly and no muting what so ever. However, do something that is personally frowned upon and you're bumped, whether its in the owners guidelines or not.I've always enjoy your appearances in chat. You always perk up the joint. But, as you say, you are tenacious, so keep at it.[/quote]
[em][strong]Thank you AB![/strong][/em]ReactReply - BOBornAgainOriginal PosterSep 3, 2018[quote]Why in Hells Teeth would I want to be a friend of none certified member I don't trust them.[/quote]You continue to show your ignorance & nastiness. I am on cam and more real than most here, including those certified. Being "certified" does not necessarily make one more trustworthy or a better person by any means..ReactReply
- BOBornAgainOriginal PosterSep 3, 2018[quote]As yet another person whom was 'on' that evening...I didn't see anything too unusual about falling asleep...I've seen it in the past and listened to one guy snore for 30+ minutes (several years ago). That being said...I know our mods try hard and are sometimes far too lenient on some of this crew...but this may have been just a little over the top. We're (well...most) are here to enjoy a friendly conversation about whatever happened that day or week or whatever...keep it friendly & light hearted. We all jump in a little quickly every now & then...just cut the ones 'sincere' in their conversation (& conviction) a little slack...we all screw up periodically. John.[/quote]Right on!ReactReply
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Tom === Thomas S. TierneySep 3, 2018[quote]Why in Hells Teeth would I want to be a friend of none certified member I don't trust them. You continue to show your ignorance & nastiness. I am on cam and more real than most here, including those certified. Being "certified" does not necessarily make one more trustworthy or a better person by any means..[/quote]Certification is not proof of being a nudist/naturist. Certification is only proof that someone made up a name, wrote the name on a piece of paper and took a picture of someone, a man or a woman, holding that piece of paper.ReactReply - BOBornAgainOriginal PosterSep 10, 2018[quote]Why in Hells Teeth would I want to be a friend of none certified member I don't trust them.You continue to show your ignorance & nastiness. I am on cam and more real than most here, including those certified. Being "certified" does not necessarily make one more trustworthy or a better person by any means.. Certification is not proof of being a nudist/naturist. Certification is only proof that someone made up a name, wrote the name on a piece of paper and took a picture of someone, a man or a woman, holding that piece of paper.[/quote] Exactly, thank you.ReactReply
- BOBornAgainOriginal PosterSep 10, 2018[quote]Certification is not proof of being a nudist/naturist.Certification is only proof that someone made up a name,wrote the name on a piece of paper andtook a picture of someone, a man or a woman, holding that piece of paper.[/quote]
Exactly, thank you.ReactReply - KU
KurtSep 10, 2018I was muted about a month ago and haven't been un muted
ReactReply - BOBornAgainOriginal PosterOct 5, 2018[strong]I hear y'all... very unfortunate. ;(
So the latest, a week or so ago I was on cam in chat room and one one the mods, unbenounced to me, has an alias account, and was being nasty towards me for no apparent reason and I learned from another member it was actually the same mod who booted me unjustly twice, provoking this thread. Why so rude and grossly out of line? When does it end? Grow up![/strong]ReactReply - BOBornAgainOriginal PosterOct 8, 2018[quote]Sadly, most of the "mods" on this site are power drunk morons. Sorry, can't say it in a less direct manner.I was banned for simply asking in the chat room if anyone wears a thong sometimes as opposed to going nude such at a beach. For that "offense" I was banned for 7 days. I sent a message to the mod who did it (he was threatening to ban me before doing so) asking why I was banned and he replied with "if you bring up that subject again, I will delete your account."On another occasion I accidentally said nothing more a "hello" to the wrong person in a private message, and upon doing so sent a second private message to the same person of "oops sorry, wrong person." I was banned a few minutes later without a chance to explain the mistake I had made.Personally, I don't believe the chat room even needs a mod or admin, all they do is bother people. If some idiot comes into the room and acts like an ass, anyone can block them themselves. If a person is acting like a jerk everyone will simply block that person; problem solved.TN, you need to get rid of these idiot useless "mods."[/quote]
[em][strong]Ludicrous! I completely agree, that a few mods are grossly unobjective often with double standards and blatantly rude , and that's putting it very kindly!! Your description is right on for those bad apples.
I can see your point but will admit there are times when I've been harassed that I'm glad a mod ousted, although more often then not, especially lately, and a few in particular, need to be ousted themselves, permanently! I do agree that it could be self/group monitored, although it could also turn in to true swingers. I like that most try to keep it clean here and follow the REAL rules.
I will say if there's going to be mods than they need to ALL adhere to the rules and only ban after warning for the rules that are stated obviously being broken, otherwise it's too subjective and gets out of hand, as we've both and apparently many have been on the wrong side of (I've received private messages from those too afraid to say something publicly for fear of their profiles being deleted all together, that's really sad!).
I wonder if the owners of this website are even aware and if so why don't they care enough to make some positive changes for their members and get these bad apples out!?[/strong][/em]ReactReply - JO
JohnNov 17, 2018[quote]Being certified only means you paid this site money, and got a gold star. That is all. Not certified means you didn't pay money to this site. I've only been on here two month and that short of time has convinced me that I don't want to waste, oopps, I mean pay money, because I am unimpressed with what goes on here. I keep hoping though. But that might even wear out soon. So can't we all just get along?[/quote] Better to keep your mouth shut, than to open it and remove all doubt.... Being certified does not require paying any money to the site. They are separate things. Certification requires sending in two pictures holding the sign with your user name on it. One clothed, one nude. Not 100%, but better than nothing. The only thing this gets you is access to the forums and groups that require you to be certified and maybe to users profile media that are set to "Certified Only" (like some of mine), and the gold star. Paid membership gets you the heart, access to the entire gallery, and maybe the respect of fellow users that you actually support the site financially. John aka cobeachbumReactReply